New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in February, 2010, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (45), 2 (39), 3 (31), 4 (41), 5 (32), 6 (33), 7 (53), 8 (63), 9 (40), 10 (43),
11 (42), 12 (36), 13 (35), 14 (42), 15 (44), 16 (46), 17 (35), 18 (31), 19 (26), 20 (39),
21 (33), 22 (49), 23 (47), 24 (24), 25 (27), 26 (34), 27 (29), 28 (19),

Archived questions from: 1 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from February, 2010)

Dating: Help and advice

How do you know if a man is stingy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Hello people, How do you know if a man is stingy? I mean i had a date with a man i met on line. I prepared myself very well and wore the best i have. But i was shocked when i found out what he wore, he wore daddy jeans or baggy jeans a terrible...

What are the signs of being used as a place-holder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - What are the signs of being used as a place-holder? Ive recently felt like my gf isnt as energetic about talking to me as she used to be. she is usually sad, avoids me on msn, when i am round hers shes not as cuddly, blames her parents for it b...

Advice on how to make sex any less painful?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - hi guys, id really appreciate some help here! :) basssically my boyfriend and i tried having sex for the first time last night. it was so strong emotionally and so special that i dont regret it at all, and im glad it happened but it didnt manage to ...

My partner keeps changing his mind about commitment.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - My partner keeps changing his mind about commitment. We have been seeing each other for 7 months and have both got a child each. We live over an hour from each other but manage to spend most weekends together and a couple of nights in the week. We ...

Guy friend sleeping over at girlfriend's place

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend she has known since she was really young. Since she is going out with me, the guy friend still wants to stay over at my girlfriend's place all the time. I felt a bit awkward. Is this normal? ...

I need christian advice about living together.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I need the christian advice. I have been dating "Ted" for 6 months now and he is a wonderful man. He is so important and special to me. Due to the economy a couple of months ago, his business failed and he needed to find somewhere to live. Due to ...

I'm scared to get married again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I left my husband for another man, after our marriage became passionless and I no longer loved my husband. I didn't rush into divorce, but moved in with the new man and things have been rocky but we love each other very much. Gave myself some time, ...

How do I get my parents to like my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Ok guys so I just got back together with my boyfriend and my mom who said that she would support me in any decision that I make is not really happy about it. She hasn't really liked him since the first time I brought him home. Since she did not ...

Is marriage REALLY that important?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - My fiancee and I have been together for over 16 years now (since we were 11 and 12) and engaged for eleven years. We have two children (2 and 4 with another on the way). Up until quite recently, I had no intention of ever setting a wedding date. ...

Why is he so distant and cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, but in the past while he's become very distant with me and I don't know why. He used to give me a lot of affection, now I'm lucky if I even get one hug a day (we haven't had sex yet. This doesn't bother m...

Is there ANY hope for us in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 4 years have been in turmoil for the past 3 months. We had gotten into a large fight back in Nov, things where said that wheren't meant. He said the most horrible thing a man could say to a woman he was to be in love with and ...

Blow job problem!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Ok i started seeing this guy about late november and in december I tried to give him a blow job (doing what i've always done in previous relationships which never had any problems to say in the least!). However after about ten minutes of nothing ...

Is he still emotionally attached to his past life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I (been together for 1.5 yrs) were watching a sad movie last week and while watching it he was typing on his laptop. I looked over at one point and he was clearly crying, which he denied. I just wrote it off like it was maybe the ...

I want to be the MAIN person in his life, not the last person...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for 4 years, he's cheated on my in the past and that's all i worry about. he has so many chick friends, but i can't trust him and it sucks. it seems like he talks to them more then me. when we fight he just walks away and ...

Should I still put this vibrator in the pack I'm making up for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I ordered a vibrator to go into a pack I'm making up for my boyfriend for valentines day that includes various lubes etc. however now the vibrator has arrived I'm worried it's too big and may intimidate my partner. The reason I chose this one w...

Is there more to him texting this girl than meets the eye?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been together for almost a year Now. I love him so much. He means the world to me. But we constantly argue, he says horrible things to me when we do. He apologizes but does it again. This the first time in my life I put up with ...

I love this girl but lied to her !!! What do I tell her to convince her that I am who she thought I was before she found this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - I'm 30 years old, divorced with one child. About a year ago my ex and I split up. Around that time I started talking more with a girl I'd known for a while but hadn't been close with. She lived a long ways away and at first it was just friendly. A...

He told me he loves me but clams up at the mention of a relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - hia, so there's this guy, and he is 19 and i am 15. Yeh i know the age gap aint great but please dont say anything about it. basicly, he lives in the place i go on holiday - but i go there like 6 times a year so its kinda like a second home. and...

Can you get over being left for someone else when back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend liked a girl (x) as a teenager and became obsessed with the idea of being with her, kissed her once but could not be together because his close friend was her recent ex. Years past and he broke up with many girls along the way after ...

Is this age difference going to be a problem? And could he just be using me as a meal-ticket?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - After being a single parent for many years, I have recently met someone who I feel very attracted to and he feels the same about me. We have been talking for about 2 weeks and just yesterday we had our first date. It was really nice and I did ...

What do you think?? is he just playing mind games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - theres this guy that ive been getting to know..we get on really well..i like him at lot.. and i use to think he feels the same but now am not sure anymore. anyways he asked for my number on msn cos he said he wanted to hear my voice..i think h...

Ideas for a valentine's gift???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 month and with valentines day quickly approaching I haven't got a clue what to get him . please help...

On a sale of 1-10 she rates me 3, I rate her 9. How can I get my rating up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - Well me my girlfriend we been dating for about a month and couple weeks now. Our relationship is great it's going by good I love her a lot, but when I ask her how much she loves me she said she only loves me a little. From a scale from 1 to 10 one ...

Should I make a move on my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid (and readers), I really like this guy... but he's really shy... I mean, we have really good chemistry and everything. We like the same things, and we always have really interesting conversations and enjoy each others company, but I do...

Other guys are propositioning my Girl friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - My girl friend says other guys are proposing her because we are in a long distance relationship and she keep on telling me, but i don't want to hear that because is making me to be insecure. I see her after every one month for three days.The thing ...

I've fallen for her...........but how can I get her to come see me without her bf????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - Ok so ive fallin for this girl, I am 16 and she is 19, we met on a cruise 3 years ago, the week i spent with her was the greatest, but she lives in Las Vegas, and she has a bf who is threatened by me i guess, she currently isnt talking to me cause ...

I am getting mixed signals. Does she want friendship or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - There is a girl I met last year and she was in one of my classes and we didn't talk much in class but we would exchange glances and talk a little but.Recently we started to text and skype more and more...she usually texts me first. But i'm getting ...

Please help me to try and not feel so insecure about Mr.Busy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I met this really nice guy at work, he was a customer, and I new his order and would always have it ready when he came in. He is really attractive, nice smile, he is also funny and charming. Now he never came back to where I work for about three ...

Am I in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and things are going so great for us. I enjoy every moment we spend together, and when we're apart, she's always on my mind. This is both of ours first relationship that's been even remotely serious. I ...

How can I stop myself from falling for him too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - My current situation is I am dating a guy. After every date and the following day I am constantly wondering if he is going to call/text me. He always has. I grow very worried that he must not like me, which then snowballs into me overanalyzing what ...

She seems interested online, but not in person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - I am so confused. Last week, my cousin brought one of her friends over to my house for the first time. We started talking, and got along well. Then she added me on facebook (before she even left my house) from my sister's computer, and we started ...

My mum is never going to approve of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my moms friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. so she told me to break up with him. but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her back.. she found out and everything ...

I want her back...how do I tell her this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - I dated a girl few years ago but we broke up shortly after. We've been friends since but I want to go out with her again. How do I tell her I want her back?...

If he's not into me why is he talking to me? Help me understand!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I went out on a blind date 10 days ago. It went pretty well and I think we both had a good time. I've talked to him online almost every day since then. He also asked me to watch a movie with him one night, but I was busy. I had a five night ...

He mistreated me badly and I'm scared of him! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for four years, we both are 19. A few days ago I was visiting him at college, and I accused him of cheating on me, because hes done it before, but he yelled at me and told me to get out of his house. He dragged me and pushed ...

I'm in love with him...how do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Hi- I have been struggling back and forth every day as to what to do about my situation. It's all I think about all the time and I need some answers. Heres the down low- I've been really good friends with this guy for about 3 or 4 years, ...

We decided to start anew and admit past cheating...I told him and now he's upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - i been in a relationship with my boyfriend for six years and we met really young i cheated on him two years into the relationship and he found out and i just recently told him we were not very stable at the time i cheated on him and were together ...

He's my best friend so what are the signs he like me more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - how can girl tell her if her guy best friend likes her more? What are the signs? I mean he calls everyday, or texts when he can call! Knows my family, worked with my mother! Knows my close friends Said to a mutual friend that I will alway...

Is what I feel justified?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

1 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend recently tried to create non existent penis insecurities in me, though jokingly ... she also openly discusses other hot guys with her friends right in front of me and sees his pictures on facebook in front of me. But she has al...

15 years old and pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Hi im 15 yrs old i lost my viriginty to a guy i thought i loved he said he felt the same but it came time for me to realize that he wasnt looking for love he just wanted one thing and that isnt it well anyways the condom broke he left me and now im ...

How do I cope with cold feet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Having second thoughts about getting married a 2nd time. Been together 5 yrs. We're both late 40's. Have lots in common, good sex life; but b/f is high-strung at times, which wears me out. I know no one is perfect, least of all me, but feeling ...

Do I honestly like him enough to be going out with him if my feelings change all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - me and my bf have been going out on and off for the past 2 years, when we break up it usually only lasts a few days or a few weeks max but I'm always the one that breaks up with him. My question is do I honestly like him enough to be going out with ...

I'm never fully satisfied when we have sex. How can I change this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my BF for about 6 months. He's more than I can ask for in a guy and I'm so glad we're together. While everything else is great I find that I don't get much out of sex. I get really turned on by him and I can't wait to get into bed ...

Family do not like my boyfriend after our past- how can I resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - I have had some problems with my boyfriend which resulted in him asking me to leave our home last year, at this time he also quit his degree course which he was doing well at, and enjoying. Since then we have re-kindled our relationship, and thin...

Help! I'm scared to tell my mom I'm pregnant... again!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

1 February 2010 (F) - Please help me, I just turned 16 january 20 and my boyfriend turned 19 dec 16, i got pregnant before and got an abortion 5 months ago and I'm pregnant again. my mom is extra strict and so is my family, once again my bf wants to keep it and I do too ...