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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Best friend becomes boyfriend of the girl I like, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - Hello, so I have a problem with two friends of mine. Currently I have just started my second semester in college and everything is going fine. While in college I have spent most of my time with these two other friends, one girl and one guy. We are ...

Rejected by mother and father, fearing rejection as an adult. Falling for guys who give attention.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - We have been together for almost 12 years and have a son together. Its the 4th time now where she has developed feelings she thinks are love, with a guy she has gotten to know, who has charmed her, treated her well and shown her attention. She has ...

Is Three A Crowd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when ...

I want the one I cant have...

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4 February 2010 (F) - i am 17, and i won't let a guy i can get even get close to me. though guys i can't get, (for example someone who is taken) i really want.in fact, i really like, and sometimes think im in love with him when i am with him. is there something wrong ...

What happens with "the friend zone"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - um well this is not a question as such but is the "friend zone" a load of rubbish. I mean can any relationship last if it didnt start out with friends. and usually being friends gives a better understanding of some meaning you can form stronger ...

He said he was dating to teach his ex girlfriend a lesson. Where does that leave me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi guys. I really like this guy and we've been out a few times but he is still in touch with his GF and I recently found out that he decided to start dating as a 'payback' (according to him) to 'teach her a lesson' for some lie or other she told ...

I always thought Valentines day was about the guy treating the girl. Now my boyfriend thinks I don't care.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - This Might Sound Bad But I had No Idea That I was Supposed to Buy Something for My Boyfriend For Valentines Day. We're Going on 4 years Now and Every Year he always Does something Extreme For me and I Love it! Though I have Never Bought Him Anything ...

I want what I cant have. What do I do?

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4 February 2010 (F) - Everytime i fall in love with a boy, i suddenly find out they have a girlfriend. Now im not saying that iv been in love alot. 3 times... and i think this is turning into the fourth. His names George and iv known him for 9 months and really got to ...

Would you prefer a real rose or a fake one?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - Valentines help! I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks and have planned to take her out for a meal on valentines. I just wondered though, I'm planning on giving her a single red rose, but wanted to know on whether that rose should be real or ...

Any advice on how to keep things cool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi. I was going out with a guy, he was really sweet but suddenly things turned sour. He told me he loved me very much, wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but he was really hurt when I told him we were going to fast, because, as he already ...

Confused and laughing - don't know if my boyfriend is gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently are taking a break so he can try and be in his child's life (long story). I just found out that he signed up for an adult friend finder site, and has his profile to looking for males and joined a couple groups about ...

My boyfriend has been locked up for three months, how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - hi i am an just 18 and my boyfriend of 3 months just got locked up for 3 months..i was pregant with his baby but i lost it due to stress my family were putting on me..i miss my boyfriend soo much..i want to move in with his family when i turn ...

How can I be sure he loves me and not just the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months im 13 and hes 15 and when we first started dating i new he was with me for me but we had sex and now thts all he wants and i dont no if hes only with me for sex now and when i say no hes ...

He gets calls but he doesn't answer..he just looks at the screen & puts the phone down. Does he sound dodgy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend.:) we really like each other go on dates..but taking things slow.we flirt and he calls me all the time..we talk till Morning.. but on face book.. when girls say they like a celebrity or anythin..he always has to comment tel him ...

I want to create the perfect..love mind game..any suggestions?

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4 February 2010 (F) - i've always believed that love is a state of mind..if it wasn't satisfied it becomes an addiction,,,it's all a game.. a mind game..i want to create the perfect..love mind game..any suggestions?...

Is this man dishonest or someting else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello , 2 days ago i was asking for a solution to my problem . I have some update but let me remind you my story. met a man on a dating site. i contacted him first then he sent me hello message for free. Then he dissapeared for 1 month ...

I really don't think he loves me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love so much, but I dont think he loves me the way I love him... the reason is because I call and text him almost every day but with him it's not like that. I asked him last month, why is he acting in such manner? He said ...

I need to know how I can find out how he feels about me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi am looking for some advice. I am a 27 year old Single mum of 1 and I met a 24 year old guy about 6 months ago. We work together and get on really well. In the last few months we have been flirting etc and about 2 weeks ago as we were dancing at a ...

I just wish she would try to understand ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - hi. im 18 and im with a girl who i love very much, but have had some past and present issues that are just bothering me too the point of no return. im so jealous lately and here are the reasons why. first off..she left me and cheated on me the last ...

He has unresolved issues with his ex, who seems a really nice lady

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello. I have just started seeing a guy who is a divorcee and after he split up with his wife he had a long partner for about 8 years. He is 51 years old with a grown up sone at college. I am a bit worried because of the way he talks about his ex ...

I am falling for a married man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I would like to have your advice on this situation and please don’t judge me if possible. Well, you will agree with me that we have little control over our feelings. At my place of work, there is a man who really turns me on. I have a crush ...

Am I wrong to be glad he is not somebody other girls would be all over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - When it comes to height and weight, I'm right smack-dab in the middle of all that is average for someone my age. I'm just under 5'5" and 117 lbs. My boyfriend of over five years, however, is not what you would call "petite". He has a foot of height ...

I feel I am no longer the light in his eyes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi all, My partner and I have been dating for just under 2 years now. When we first met, he was loving, attentive, told me I was the woman of his dreams and lit up whenever he saw me. he did all he could to make me happy. I know that this is par...

He says he has stopped talking to his ex but they are best friends, it drives me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend. They've been apart for years now and she also has a boyfriend. I know he has no feelings for her and I know he loves me, but it still makes me feel ...

How to get back in the saddle again?

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4 February 2010 (M) - I just got out of a 7 year relationship so now that I'm single again I don't even know how to approach a woman, it's been a long time since I've hit on women. What should I say? How can I go about this? ...

My boyfriends sex drive is much higher than mine

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i love sex. But he wants it alot. He respects when i dont but when he cant get any from me he jacks off and he watches alot of porn. He says he is just like that and he cant help it. Why does he have such a high sex drive and is it ...

My mother wont give my very, very shy boyfriend a chance

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4 February 2010 (F) - I started dating a guy ive known for years hes been a close friend for years. I live with my mother that has had a bad past and is single by choice and whom i am close with like shes my best friend. But hes not a socialble person with people hes ...

My boyfriend doesn't show me affection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a few months and he does not show emotions at all but he takes care of me he tries to give me watever i ask for ..... Everyone has told me to leave him but i care about him....he took my virginity ...he is ...

Do all men only worry about how good a woman looks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - How important are looks to men? The ones who show an interest in me seem to only ever care about the way I look. I had one boyfriend who even said he loved how anywhere we went together, all the guys would be jealous of him because he'd got me and ...

How long shold I wait for him to get over his last relationship and be ready for a new one with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I like a guy. Who is still getting over his last breakup. It's been affecting him pretty hard. We hang out, we fool around (no sex - his suggestion and we both agree), we have the best time when we're together. He's told me the reason we aren't ...

Should I just call it quits? Or am I an idiot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - In a nutshell: I've never had a relationship with a girl, but I'm now in one with someone. She's wonderful and things have been great. But I feel like it won't work and that she should just see other guys. I partially want to do this because I n...

What is holding him back from marrying me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for 7 years and now we have two kids together. I am ready to get married but I don't know if he is. I tell him all the time that it is time to make a true commitment but he just dont understand. All I want to know what is the ...

Help me figure out if my relationship is worth saving??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my current Boyfriend a little over a year. For the second time since we started dating, I'm thinking about breaking up with him. (the last time was in Nov.) Basically, I've been kinda peeved about how he doesn't really express ...

My new boyfriend is moving too fast!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 weeks and he's already talking... sexually. At first, he was really nice and sweet, but then he got my cell phone number and texts me things about sex. He asks me about personal things and it makes me ...

Guys put me on a pedestal and never see the real me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I always end up with guys who put me on a pedestal and don't seem interested in getting to know the real me. You know how everyone says when you notice the same pattern recurring in your lovelife, it's a good idea to look at the part your behaviour ...

New to romance and all I've got to practice with are college guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - So I've recently matured quite a bit from the shy, quiet girl I was in highschool who only had one male friend- and he was gay. I've lost a little weight, changed my hairstyle (I used to cover my eyes with my bangs all the time), and dress better. ...

Heartache over different sex drives - what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - My partner and I love each other very much and have been together for a number of years BUT keep experiencing quite a bit of heartache due to differing sex drives. I have a very high sex drive and could easily have sex every day while he enjoys ...

He kissed my forehad the first time we met. Is this too fast, too soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - i just met this really really cute and funny guy; but we just met like today and he wants to get really close really fast! He kissed me on the forehead and keeps texting me if its ok if we should kiss and hold hands already! This is bothering me; ...

What signs distinguish between him just being a really nice guy and him possibly fancying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello =) I'm just wondering what signs there are that a guy likes you? the guy i like is 12 years older than me, i guess you could say that we're friends. I'd just like to know what signs distinguish between him just being a really nice guy ...

I want to patch things up with my ex boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello all, My bf and I broke up 4 days back. We had been together for 1 and a half years and he was the one really keen on me and told me he loved me – I eventually fell in love with him. He lost of his job cos of his drinking and then everything ...

I was not invited to myown girlfriends birthday dinner.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5411 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - Its my girlfriends birthday this weekend and im having her over saturday but sunday her family is taking her out to eat and i wasnt invited maybe because her brother doesnt like me that much im just not sure i feel hut because her and her family ...