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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Could our different experiences in dating cause big problems down the road?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I'm very interested in a 23 year old guy who hasn't had a girlfriend before... and I'm 24 and have been dating for nearly 8 years. There are a few things that concern me about us and I'd love your thoughts on any of them: - would he likely be put...

What does he really mean when he says that he values our friendship too much to be in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Why would a guy want to keep you as their best friend, so they do not ruin what they have with you? Is it that they just do not want to have a relationship with you, or that they are not ready or, that they value you too much to lose you from the...

His sexual past makes me feel used. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Ok I'm upset because my 18 year old boyfriend isn't a virgin and he was my first. Just 4 months ago was when I lost my virginity to him and well....... He was 10 years old when he lost his...... And I'm the 6th girl he had sex with that I know ...

He isn't saying the 'L' word, and now I'm starting to get worried. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused at the moment and would love some input from those of you who've been in long term relationships. I've been with my BF for about 6 months. At first I wasn't sure where I wanted things to go so I never worried about the future...

Does this guy I met online sound like he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - i met this guy on a dating site 2months ago..we've txtd and chatted on msn since. my problem is i really like him..even though i dont know him well. this was our last convo on msn earlier today. HIM: can we meet and some point this lifetim...

My girlfriend cheated on me with a stripper?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Dear All ... I have only just discovered what happened and Im devistated , my wonderful g/f of 4 Years ( well I used to think wonderful ) Went to a really " out there " Hens Night for the bride to be , It was in the city where there is much ...

Is he interested or just nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so here it goes. I have a crush on this guy from school, who is in two of my classes.(Yes, I know it seems juvenile for me to ask this since I am a college student, but please bare with me). Okay well, I had seen him several times on campus ...

He has known me for a year, now how do I get him to like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - i need help... How do i win a mans heart that ive been talking to for the past year? he likes me and feels for me but he wont commit to me. Men i need your help please give me advice. i know im attractive, sweet, fun, polite, caring, interesting, ...

Does she really just want to be my friend or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - What is she thinking? The woman I had an emotional affair with contacted me again after I told her that for my girlfriend's sake, I wouldn't be spending any time with her or emailing with her. I thought I was completely over her with her out...

He flirts with my best friend! How can I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - How do i stop being jealous of my ex boyfriend flirting with my bestfriend?...

She was more into me in the beginning and now the tables have turned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hey me and my girl have been goin out for 1 year and 7months now and in the beggining she made me feel as If I was her world.She actually told me I was her second proirity in life.she used to be so jealous for me (cute jealousy) and alwayz accused ...

Boyfriend spent more on his ex than on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - hello I was wondering if someone can help me. My bf had an ex who he was with two years and he spent over thirthy thougsand pounds on her to make her happy and he doesnt spend that much on me...does that mean he doesnt love me as much? He spent ...

She's been with some of my friends and it's bothering me! How can I move on from this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I have found the woman of my dreams...unfortunately she found my friends first. Before my girlfriend and I got together she had hooked up with several people close to my everyday life. Joe* my roommate(who is in my fraternity), Mike* my downstairs ...

How can I calm my nerves around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I posted a question recently, regarding a guy who i wasnt sure how to move things forward with or how he feels about me. This has changed, having had a deep conversation last night we talked about what we each look for in a relationship. We expre...

Should we take some time apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Question: Should we take some time apart? My boyfriend is wonderful and I love so much about him, however I also despise a lot about him. I often believe that I am just being petty because I am a little older and I am more "particular". I also ...

My boyfriend ignored me for a couple of days and then contacted me.. what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hiya I have been going out with my bf for 4 years now and it feels like lately he is not interested. When we are together we are fine and he is really lovely to me but when he goes home to his mothers he ignore me for a couple of days and then rings ...

Have a new boyfriend but now my ex is back in the picture! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - well it all really started last year. i finally got my first boyfriend. things were going great until summer came around. one day me and him went to the beach for our friends' birthday party. well the whole time we were there we got to tlk like ...

Am I financially looking after my ex?? My new partner seems to think so!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I am seperated and filing for divorce. I left over 2 years ago. I have numerous assets in many forms. I have numerous trusts. The family home is in a trust. I had built a small fortune while with my soon to be ex wife. I have been trying to get a ...

I'm scared my insecurities will ruin my relationship, how can I overcome this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - hi, i am 19 years old and i have just found the most perfect guy for me, i have never felt like this before and i know he is the one for me. i have completely forgotten that other attractive guys exist because i only have eyes for him. howeve...

Am I labelling myself right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I am 15 an i have been using the term bisexual but recently realized that that term may be wrong. I date girls and guys and like both romantically but i dont want sex with either one. I have had sex with a guy but i didnt really care either way for ...

Why has he started talking to me again all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - What would make someone that you like start talking to you again? He wasn’t talking to me online for a long time he wouldn’t text or talk to me on any social network. I haven’t did much in that time I only gave him a present for Christmas and gave ...

There is a chance my girlfriend could be pregnant, is there anything I can do or say to help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I have been seeing this girl and she thinks she might be pregnant, I did what i thought was right and reminded her that I love her and that no matter what happens i will be there for her, is there anything I can do or say to help? she says i keep ...

He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...

It hurts knowing she doesn't feel the same way anymore and probably never will again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - There's this girl that I've had a crush on for a long time. She knows I like her (and basically all our mutual friends), and for a brief time she liked me (I wasn't aware of this until it was too late) but I was too nervous to ask her out. She's one ...

The girl I love thinks I am a cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hi, i am 23 age boy who have a complicated life with my girl. anyone have idea please please tell me. I saw a girl who's looking good, homely character and i fall in love with her. She is the girl who is friend of my girl friend. And actually i s...

He came to my work to ask me out but I was not there, now I cant stop thinking about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi there a few days ago this Guy showed up at my work place to deliver documents, that I received.Later that day on my Lunch time he came back to ask me out on a date but no knew were I was and so he left. Now the problem is he did not leave his ...

I just want to change his feelings towards me and make him stop cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - the guy i have been messing with for 7 months has finally asked me out.but i really think he has another girl on the side.but i really want him to love me and be faithful.i dont know how to make him feel that way.i want to make him jealous without ...

I've got to wait 2 months to make out with her, how do I clear my mind as this is torture for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - A girl i like i teased and promised i would kiss/make out with her on near her bday. Well im liking the idea and its as much torture for me as for her, what do i do to clear my mind for 2 months?...

I really don't understand him, can anyone shed some light on his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - ok there is this guy i like we are friends i know he used to like me. im not sure now. but lately he is doing things he never did before like always touching my leg. asks me if i would ever marry him we argue a lot and sunday he asked me why arent i ...

Can it ever really be just friends when you feel this way about each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - If a guy and a girl are really good friends, know everything about each other, have great chemistry, and are physically/mentally/emotionally very attracted to one another, can it ever really be just friends? I have a friend who I connect with on all ...

I'm back with the father of my children but I'm in love with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - ok its really weird but i have been dating this guy for like 5 years i have two beautiful daughters with him . we were actually separated for like 3 months because of problems but anyways.... started to date this guy that i had dated back in high ...

What should I text back to him? I only suggested we go out more as a couple rather than staying in all the time and he has reacted really badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - a guy i met on plenty of fish website.. on out 1st time seeing each other we went for a Drive..but he wanted to come and hang out at my house i said no. he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos he has no money to take me...

How do I confront him and tell him how I feel? After 5 months of feeling this way I cant take it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hiya, Back in september, i posted a question on here about my attraction to my college friend called 'Im Stuck Between My BF And my College Friend' and how i already had a boyfriend.( I would just like to take this time to thank those people w...

For the guys: Is it a turn off for a woman to talk about her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi, my question is re talking about exes to new guys. I met this guy once and up til now we chat on msn at times ... but i made the mistake of talking about my ex who behaved very very badly ... it is still on my mind. Anyway this guy said to me ...

What does it take to get a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - What does it take to get a girlfriend? I am an analytical person. I'm not always happy and I question stuff a lot. I think about consequences before I do something. I might be a bit prude, but hey, I've got standards. Sometimes I'm very outgoing and ...