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Archived questions from: 13 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Something is surely wrong in the relationship. Correct?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Okay so to me this is does mean somethings wrong in a relationship but i want to get opinions from the rest of the unique world. when a boyfriend looks at club websites that show, you know the nightly pictures of the people (mostly women of cours...

Guys showing interest only because of my breasts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Can guys be interested in a girl just because of her breasts? I feel like the only reason guys are interested in me is my breasts, like that's the only thing they see. I obviously want a guy to like me for everything that I am, not just to get ...

Why did she say "eww" around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Last night, my crush was at my house (only because she was with her Mom to pick up her brother) and we were all gathered in the living room. Eventually, I got up to go get something to show them. As I was walking by my crush, she couldn’t keep her ...

Why is my boyfriend becoming so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 9 months now. Hes 20, and i'm 18. We've been through so much and its been really difficult but we've made through it. Hes always been the jealous type, but recently its been starting to get out of ...

Should I give him a chance or just dump him? I don't want to waste my time on another guy who is wrong for me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles. I have posted on here and good some great feedback so I am back again. I just started dating this man from work (3rd date tomorrow) and he seems quite nice in one way but he is very very rude about his exes, ...

How can I get to the heart of this young lady? I'm sure she likes me too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, There is this lady i'm really in love with and have tried all can to make my feelings known to her but anytime i tried, the more she gets mad at me and warns not to raise that issue of love. Cupid, what amaze me is that...

On one hand its like back off, but on the other its like don't go away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Well could do with some advice again, ive been seeing a girl now for a couple of months. Things have been going great, just casually dating once a week to start. The last couple of dates we have been on have gotten fairly intimate, didnt go all t...

Does the problem lie with him or should I be taking anti-depressants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Im kinda confused about my relationship right now with the guy I've been dating off and on for 4 years now. When we are together everything seems perfect, but when we are apart its like war world 3. we fight all the time, and when i try talking to ...

Should I continue loving him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hello there So there's this guy that I really like.. he claims to like me back. but he's stuck in a relationship with a girl who basically forced her love on him. She threatens to harm herself or something if he breaks up with her. Thing is, we'v...

What should I wear on our second date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - I am going on a second date and trying to decide what to wear..when we first met after e-mailing on a dating site..i wore my black jeans that i like, and this top that shows cleavage with a black sweater and boots this time i was thinking of wear...

How do we make anal sex less painful as a couple?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hi, all! My boyfriend and I have been together for a fairly long time (three years), so we've done almost every kind of sex imaginable... except anal. He's literally the only guy I feel comfortable being naked in front of but anal sex is definitely ...

How do I know if it's really love, or if it's just wanting something I can't have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - I don't really know what to do. I'm an 18 year old girl and I have boyfriend who I'm mostly happy with. But my problem is that whenever I break up with my boyfriends I want him back as soon as he doesn't want me. My ex, we'll call him Lo, has ...

Should I put up with her ex's restrictions? Or should I leave the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - I have been in a long-term relationship with a woman for 8 years. We met each other at work, and progressively there has been pressure added such that social contact with other employees is not acceptable. The other challenge is her ex-husband ...

What do I do when he isn't respecting my schedule?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I have got a bit of a beLATEd question for you...dating a seemingly wonderful man- EXCEPT he has serious problems lately respecting my time schedule. I cannot study around him when it's crucial to get things done (we're both med student...

I'm afraid of being hurt due to his past actions. Should I pursue a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - hello, I dated a guy for 2 months who wasnt really that into me although he was always replying my e-mails and calling me on the phone but left him cause he was not really clear and sure about what he wanted from me.Now after 3 months he calls ...

It’s All Good, Guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Pinkee here~ Was thinking this week about some of the stuff that men worry about, and how you really don’t have to worry. Now, I know that we women are the traditional queens of poor body image, but let’s face it, guys, some of you are getting hung ...

Should I take his threats seriously? Or is he just trying to manipulate the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Please help asap! Theres this guy that i know we really like each other and may enter into a relationship together. Anyway he has this female friend that he slept with numerous times but denies doing it anymore,i saw a txt on his phone before saying ...

How do I get back to talking with him after a long period of silence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Ok everyone Please help me i really need lots of advice hear, well i like this guy still even tho we do not speak anymore, we stoped talking early november last yr, over something really silly,, bear in mind i only new him for a few weeks and ...

Should I still be her friend in spite of our past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - Hey. I met this gilr and we became really good freinds,as time progressed we got even closer but she was always unwilling to commit. I always liked her more than she liked me. Anyway just as things were starting to go good and she started to really ...

Valentine's day plans gone wrong...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - hi, I've been planning valentines day for a little while now, but its falling to bits, i did have a restaurant booked for valentines day with a set menu for 48 pounds per person, in the last week the restaurant have asked for an extra 40 ontop t...

He called me lazy because I wasn't enjoying having sex with him and now he hasn't contacted me! Should I take it that it is over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - i had sex with a guy am dating and he was pretty big and he took soo long to cum so i got soo tired am gave up..(i wasnt enjoying it) he wanted to go second round.. but i was soo weak that i was in the mood to go another round.. we got kissing ...

How can I stop cheating on partners?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.....Im 16 years old and I have this problem. My problem is that with every boyfriend I had, i've cheated on. I can never have a boyfriend and not cheat on him. Its something that i hate doing and I know its wrong but I cant help ...

Am I really the reverse ugly duckling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - i feel ugly. my self-esteem's really low right now. i fancy this guy in my college who keeps adding really attractive girls in facebook. we've been on the edge of becoming an item for a long but eventually he suggests us to be best friends. is it ...

What should I wear for the second date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

How can I get over this feeling of needing to be with my unaffectionate boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hey everyone i finaly took everyones advice including you guys on leaving my unaffectionate boyfriend that never pays me any attention...... I cant stop thinking about him and i dont really want to leave him but he acts like he doesnt care about me ...

Why aren't guys interested in girls who are interested in them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Has this ever been the case for you: The guy(s) you like aren't interested in you, but the guy(s) you don't like are the ones who are? This seems to hold true for me all the time! I don't know, could it be that because I'm the nice girl, guys ...

Is it weird that I am uncomfortable with my boyfriend alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - i feel nervous to call my bf on the phone and to go on dates with him alone. is that weird?...

Am I an idiot for even trying to contact or see this person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - I was dating this girl for about six months, she was very nice and good to get along with for the first while. After things got a little comfortable whenever i asked how she was doing or how work was it always seemed to have some type of depressing ...

Why won't my boyfriend's parents let me sleep over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I am 20 and he is 21. We have always taken things slow and have by no means been rash or irresponsible. My parents have always bestowed a lot of trust in me and they are far from strict ...

Help!!! Is there ANYTHING I can do to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (M) - In the summer of 08 i started dating this amazing girl after years and years of just wanting to tell her how i felt i finally got the chance to tell her after a friend of mine started dating a friend of hers. She told me she felt the same way too ...

Is there a way I can keep a good flow of intimacy while putting on his condom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - About a month ago, I gave up my birth control pills out of health concerns. My boyfriend was fine with it and we've basically just been orally satisfying one another - which really isn't the same. We've spoke about trying condoms, but we tried them ...

Is it ok that I’m having a fling while I’m biding my time until I can be with the guy I love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5402 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - My LD bf and I just broke up a little less than a month ago. It was pretty mutual, although he initiated it. Neither of us could handle the stress with no reward. We decided to remain friends, however in the last couple of weeks he has been calling, ...

Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend and I are both virgins. We've been together for about four years now and we feel ready to lose it to one another. Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history? Or am I just ...

He said he doesn't know if he still has feelings for me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5340 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - after 5 and a half years my bf told me he doesnt know if he still has the feeling for me anymore. when we first got togtehr we started going out in the first copuple of days and we have been together since. we work togther and have been living ...

I had sex with a bodybuilder!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone ..thanks for reading , Im in a spot here and I really dont know what to do ! I had always wanted to go to bed with one of those really BIG body builder guys at the gym , just watching them always got me aroused . Then one...