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Archived questions from: 28 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We were doing well until we made it 'official'! How do we get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Right. Fell for this guy at the begining of last school year when we got sat next to each other in class and our relationship grew and grew and finally, September this year he asked me out. Before we "made it official", we'd kiss and hug and act ...

Am I a clingy girlfriend if my past with him made me insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - before we started dating my junior year he used to talk to lots of girls but there was this other girl who basically caught all his attention. the 3 months tat we dated..i lost it...to him then 2 months later he transferred bak to the same skool tat ...

I really like him and he's giving me a 2 week chance to make it work! What can I do to make him really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - okkayy well im going out with this guy and i really like him but he doesnt really have feelings for me like that but hes giving me a chance and after 2 weeks if it doesnt work out hel break up with me so what can i do to make a good impression on ...

My bi girl friend blows hot and cold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts (apology in advance for the length! =[ ), Right now, I'm a 15 year old girl, a freshman in high school. I've known one of my best friends, lets call her Cindy, for about three years. We became very close around a year ago when we ...

She won't accept that I love her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend keeps saying I don't love her. Its getting annoying, because I keep telling her that I do, but she just responds with "nope". What can I say to prove that I love her so she will stop. I love her very much, and I wish she knew I did!...

She's just too shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - My friends shy and she asked my cousin if he wanted to hangout because she likes him and he said yes. Her only problem is she doesn't know how to talk to a guy she likes! How can she talk to him comfortably? Without feeling awkward....

My friends say he is a player, who should I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - im only 13 but i am going out with a boy and we have been going out for a few days but everyone is telling me that he is a player and that he will break my heart but that isnt the side i see, he is really sweet and does so much for me and always ...

She said girls don't like confident guys, was she right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - One of my (girl) friends said that 50% of girls don't go for guys with high confidence, like she does. I'm like 'huh?!' Is this true? If yes, is it because guys with high confidence are the ones who are more likely to do be some kind of jer...

I want to give him a 'hint' how can I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - ok aunts heresthe problem, i really like my best friend and all the advice ive got is "ask him out" "be brave" "be confident in yourself" but then i asked some people on here and most have said boys like to do the chasing so i was just wondering if ...

He shows signs he fancies me, but he's too shy to act. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy for over a year now and just recently he has began to show feelings towards me and many other people have been noticing. But the problem is is that he doesnt ever act on his feelings. It so hard to move on but i feel like we ...

I joined the police academy to impress him. Is this a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So I am 19 yrs old. I am in college to gain my BSN (bachelors n Science and Nursing). Not to long ago I met my friend and jus recently I have come attracted to him. He also recently graduated from the Police Academy in my city. We have been friends ...

I've had bad luck with guys - any tips to keep this new one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So here's the story: I'm 24 and have been in several small relationships (a few months or less) and one 2 year relationship about 3 1/2 years ago. Our relationship ended very badly, he cheated on me several times, and broke my heart. I though...

I need a point in the right driection! What shall I do? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Heyy all! I come to this site often, the advice is always amazing. So here i am, back again! Well im 17 and in college doing my A levels, in august i broke up with my boyfriend of nearly two years as he was abusive and basically i felt i couldnt k...

Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in ...

He has one set of rules for me and another for himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I am in a troubled relationship. I am 27 years old and my boyfirend of 3 years is 42. Everything was great in the beginning of our relationship, but now as time goes on he is getting more jealous, i cannot talk to men i can only hang out with 2 ...

He's sending mixed signals. Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hiya. I am in a really difficult situation here. There is this boy and i have like him for over a year now. Last year, we went on a school trip and I held his hand like all morning and went on all the rides together but we wern't going out. Recently...

How do I help my friend and her shy admirer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Right this may sound totally outrageous but i find the whole situation hard to believe myself if i hadnt seen it all. Bascially my mate liked this guy and he seemed to like her, and i mean proper liked her. However hes not the most confiden...

I thought he was hot, but he has cooled right off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - theres a new guy started at my job-he has complicated history-wife left in august after 10 years-now hes casually dating someone already but i thought hes a lovely guy and we worked together for 3 days and spoke about loads i think i have feelings ...

I got my man, but now I don't want him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Im desperated for a man to make me feel better when I divorced my husband 4 years ago. I fancied this man 20 years older than me. He is very supportive throughout my divorce. I am so happy I am in love again. But now I find him less attractive ...

If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (?) - Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he ...

I drank, I kissed too many, now they call me a slag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - im so confused, im a girl of 16, i went out with a friend last night and had a bit too much to drink, i ended up kissing my ex's best friend and one of his friends,infront of each other, then my ex's friend kissed my best friend straight after. Then ...

I have a list, but no woman to match it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I don't know what I do wrong? I am 21 years old. I graduate with a Bachelors Degree in 3 mo. Live alone in a nice apartment. I work out about 3-4 times a week. I am handsome a leader and usually decently confident. I have NEVER cheat...

Is he holding out for some reason I don't know about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Alright.. let's start with the beginning. I met this wonderful guy through my ex, (don't worry me and the ex are friends, and my ex TOLD me to get to know him and date him, etc.) We're all kind of cool.. So we would talk on the phone everyday t...

Moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - okay so i went to the movies with this guy that i really liked and he fingered me then asked me out... was that to soon?? should i take it slower??...

3 weeks of dating, am I just another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - i have been going on dates with this guy for 3 weeks now. how am i supposed to know if he really likes me or if i am just another girl?...

Should I still care about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - So, there's this guy. [I'm 13 btw] i met him when i was 6. I didnt care for him at all until he asked me out in 6th grade. i said yes and we had an on-off long distance relationship througout the 6th grade year. then throughout the 7th grade year he ...

She has the proof that he is cheating yet she is still with him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I told my ex husbands girlfriend that he was cheating on her and gave her a CD of him and I talking about getting back together! They live together and he wants his cake and eat it to! I told her everything and she is still with him! Why does she ...

I want to be cruel to be kind to G/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - Girlfreind went out, was ment to go with me, said she wasnt going, found out she lied and did go out without me, she has done this about 5 times. how do i teach her a lesson other than threatening to or actually leaving? i want to be cruel t...

Which is better? Single? Or in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone! well basically i want to know what people think is better being single and free with out any commitment or being in a relationship? the reason why is because i have recently been single for the last like 18 months and i have r...

Is there really a "Mr. Right"??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - okay, so alot of girls are always looking for mr right, but the truth is, is there really a mr right out there because so far all i've found is mr nasty, mr rude, mr cheat, mr slut, mr too hot for his own good, mr not so good looking, mr late, mr ...

Dating for 3 months and don't know what to get him as a present!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Okay im 13 and my boyfriend is 12 we have been dating for almost 3 months now and i rly rly like him he got me real gold earings with my birth stone in them and i want to get him something just as special for christmas sooo wat do i get him i rly ...

Dreams about a new boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - every night i dream about meetin a new bf that im comfortable with and i bring him around this guy that i used to like and he liked ne but he treated me like crap... is this normal and can it happen?...

When is it time to let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Hi all, thanks in advance for any advice or clarity you may be able to offer me. I have dating a man for near on 18 months. From the start, I wasn't very sure that he was someone I wanted to date (long term). He wasn't 'my type' and I didn't fe...

The ex girlfriend that says she's a friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I don't even know where to begin but here i go i have a wonderful amazing boyfriend that i have been with for seven months now. He loves and tells me he loves me, we have a big age difference i am eighteen and he's thirty three yeah i know right. S...

My girlfriend desperately wants to get the feelings she used to have with me but can't and I will do anything to be with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I recently moved in with my girlfriend. we have been dating off and on for 3 years. about six months ago she told me that she no longer had feelings for me in more than a friend way anymore. at that point i told her that i didnt want to see her ...