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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it too late to hook up again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Hey, me and this guy dated last year, we were really good together however i moved away so couldnt see him anymore because we both admitted that a LDR wouldnt be that good. well i have actually moved back to my old place now and have found out...

A question about anal sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - If I have sex anally, and the guy is not wearing a condom and sperms inside of me, could I still get pregnant or is that only from the vaginal area?...

Should I be worried about this half-used box of condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for about 5 months. He's absolutely amazing, treats me well, listens to me and respects me. Early in our relationship I told him that when it comes to being intimate I want to take things slow. I still haven't slept with him and ...

How do I continue seeing my girlfriend when she has feelings for this other man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - im in a bit of a predicament. my current girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 5 months now. i stayed with her for a month, and things were going great, really great. i found out about this guy that she was talking to her before me, he ...

My friend is getting in the way of my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend 3 weeks tommorow. Every time we go out in a large group, loads of people come out. But i have this one friend who i used to be really close too and now i can't be becuase i'm busy every day!! But when we're ...

I am new to the dating scene Please help me interpret this mans actions!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Please help me interpret this mans actions: I am new to the dating scene and am terrified of it. I met a cute guy today and we were talking for a few minutes. In that short time, he told me I was hot two times and tried to hug me. This was the first ...

She is moving to be with me, but I am having second thoughts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - I am stuck and don't know what to do. My girlfriend and I dated for 3 years. She is 6 years younger and is still in school. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now. I've done everything I could to make it work, and it ...

Desperate girl looking for a reply...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Well I'm new at all this stuff and I don't really speak in english nor type correctly.. To start with, I would like to point out the fact that I really feel I love my boyfriend, the drama comes when he just seem to doesn't care about me anymore....

Is this guy actually interested or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I met a guy on the bus exactly a week ago Basically, something that happened on the bus made me laugh and I really couldn't stop laughing! We were squashed up at the front of the bus as it was rush hour so there wasn't any seats. Anyway, he laugh...

I feel like I need my space! Is this the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Been Together with my Boyfriend for Six Months now, we both love each other and are really close and get along very well, but i woke up today and realised i need space, i dont wanna break up with him or anything because i love him, but i just feel ...

My boyfriend hugs other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Ok I have a boyfriend, and ive got a big problem. Everyone always says he flirts with other girls, EVERYONE. And i can tell, he ALWAYS hugs all the girls at our school, and when he does, he puts his arms around their waist. I get so pissed and he ...

What is the law?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Ok so here is my problem... Ok so I was just wondering what the law is on younger girls dating older guys... Because I am 15 going on 16 and might be dating a 29 year old very soon... I'm not questioning whether it's normal cuz I don't care I l...

Is she playing hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - heey, I would just like to know what is going on here, a girl class mate that i knew for 3 months, we really fit together and we have fun but as friends first but offcrse i knew she cares about me cuz she showed her interest by hitting,...

I think I like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - There's this girl, she used to date a friend of mine, but I had never really talked to her until weeks ago (because I didn't really hang out with them), and they happened to break up at the same time. So we've been talking to each other a lot ...

Am I being unreasonable to expect him to help out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - The other day, my Italian boyfriend says to me "why do you always get quiet whenever you clean the kitchen". I tell him that it would be nice if he were to help someday, even just once, too. Immediate defenses go up and he tells me that it...

Will I just sound needy if I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - Well me and my ex broke up back in August. We still texted each other every now and then. We were getting along really good and then one day she says she wants me to leave her alone, so I do. I deleted her from my facebook and I deleted her number ...

If I date my friend will It ruin everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a friend. We are pretty good friends. We talk a fair bit and we see each other around school a lot. I have just found out that he likes me. Apparantly a lot. He is so great. Like perfect. He is nice and funny and good-looking. But he i...

He dared me to slap him and now he is holding a grudge against me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - So I met this guy. We chilled and everything. Everything went good until near the end where he had to leave. I was joking around by pretending to slap him. He said go ahead slap me I dare you to. I slapped him, but not to hard. Now he is kind of ...

Is it possible am I just not cut out to have a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I'm at my wit's end! I would really like to have a boyfriend, I have never been fortunate to connect with someone in that area. I don't walk around desperately trying to find a guy nor do I declare it a horrible night if I didn't meet a guy, I ...

Do I consider this relationship over? Do I give him space and try and move forward whilst hoping he'll get back in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help - It might be a long story! About six weeks ago, I reconnected with an old classmate on Facebook. We got chatting and sharing stories. I told him about a recent break up which I'd gone through which although was ...

I have no idea what he is feeling and I guess he doesn't either?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - So this is quite a long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for exactly 1 year last week. We have a long distance relationship and have from the beginning. We talk and have always talked allll the time whether through texting, phone, email and ...

Feeling miserable over missing my bf! Is this relationship worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, in college. My boyfriend graduated from college this year and we are staying practically on opposite ends of the country. My problem is that he doesn't seem to have enough time for me. If I call him, he says he will call me back ...

I am literally love sick over this guy! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - hello i was thirteen when i knew him i loved him more then anything in this life and i still do maybe way more , well i left him cause i had to move to an other country for some reasons for over a year now am 19y this summer i went there for vaca...

Do I leave my current gf for the old fling? Or just wait to see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - I am a in my late 20s and find myself in a sticky situation. Currently dating a great girl with a good head on her shoulder, good job, and comes from the school of thought women should cater to the man and men are meant to be providers. Great cook ...

He's been hurt from past relationships..how do I get him to open up and like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I am interested in a guy who likes me too. However, our problem is that he is too hung up on past issues. Apparently both of his previous girlfriends cheated on him. I want him to take a chance on me, I want to get to know him. While he is ...

My ex bf's new wife has a brother...and we are seeing each other! Is this going to be a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Ok where do I start? When I was 17 I had a child with my boyfriend/fiancee at the the time. As time passed we broke up. Dated for about 3 yrs. Now our son is almost 6 years old. My ex has married another woman that I know. No hard feelings. I'm ...

How can I makeout properly with her? And any good songs for me to play on the guitar for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - I now have a girlfriend and I really like her. We have kissed, and tried to makeout but that didn't work. We started, but then we bumped lips and teeth and it stopped. How can I makeout properly with her? And what are some good songs to learn on ...

How do I know if he is right for me? And why am I fantasizing about other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a loving relationship for over a year and a half but lately, it feels like things have changed. I haven't been wanting sex as much and I'm afraid that it may be because he isn't exactly in shape, but he never really has been, either, ...

How can I know it I have what it takes to be a second wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - How can I know it I have what it takes to be a second wife? His first wife was his highschool sweetheart and they have two kids together. She makes his life a living hell now. They divorced because she cheated eight times. I'm just afraid I'll ...

How can I tell if hes hiding something?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Been with my Fella for almost eight months now, im 17 and hes 23. i would say we are very close and can tell eachother anything, we have alot of fun together, had a few ups and downs but nothing major, we always make up the next day! he was the ...