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writes:ok aunts heresthe problem, i really like my best friend and all the advice ive got is "ask him out" "be brave" "be confident in yourself" but then i asked some people on here and most have said boys like to do the chasing so i was just wondering if there was anything i could do to "hint" that i like him or make him like me some how if there is then please help x
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reader, yussuf +, writes (29 November 2009):
 My advise is to proceed with caution, do not act needy or clingy because it would only scare him away. Plus you don't have to worry about who does the chasing or not it really doesn't mean anything. So what if you have interest in him? All you have to do is give him clues and let him find the pieces to the puzzle, you want him to be part of it also but don't play any mind games tho. so this is what i want you to try1. when you guys are having a convo maintain eye contact and smile in a flirty way.2. Establish some form of physical contact with him (doesn't mean sex or kissing) just a tiny hit on his chest or tummy when he says something funny or makes remarks or funny suggestion.3. If you're into movies or anything of sort, give him a little insight about what kind you like and if you want you could just tell him this " hey i'm thinking about seeing the new Twilight movie that's out this weekend, i wouldn't mind your company" *NOTE * you could incorporate #3 with any other thing, it doesn't have to be a movie, it could be a walk, hanginging out or whatevre you choose.I hope this helps you out. Goodluck!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 The best hint is to take any opportunity to be in his company, to smile at him, be happy around him, talk to him, ask his opinion or advise, and then let nature take it's course.
If nothing happens after a while maybe he isnt ready for a girlfriend just yet, it is a fact that girls grow up faster than boys.
And in the meantime, still hang out with your other friends, keep your life full of the things you like to do, because it is these activities that make you interesting to other people, (including boys).
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