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Archived questions from: 15 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My first time and I think I've fell pregnant. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old and i had sex the other day with my boyfriend. I have not been feeling that well lately and yesterday i was hungery even although I had been eating all day but today im hungery but i feel very sick. My parents and his are ...

I don't know if I can get over it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - About six months ago, I found out my boyfriend was seeing another girl. In his defense, it wasn't physical, but he did lie to me about seeing her, and I knew he had feelings for her (gut feeling) though he swore he didn't. I was scared of being ...

I seem to be missing out in the orgasm department big time!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I'm 24 in a stable relationship with a man who i am very much in love with and feel totally comfortable around him. i have been sexually active since i was sixteen and had my first orgasm at about 8. my problem is that i seem to be missing out in ...

Am I wasting my time in this relationship, will I ever be what he wants or does this not exsist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - hi, where do i start? i am currently in a relationship that is not going too well in the bedroom department. We have been together for just over 3 years now, not a great 3 years if im honest, i think this all comes down to him, at first our sex life ...

I need some ideas! How can I make conversation with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Recently I went to a football game for my high school and I met a girl who is 2 years younger than I am. We held hands for almost 3 quarters of the game and then she told me that her dad was my botany teacher. 3 weeks later I saw her at the next...

Should I call him again? Or is this his way of saying "get lost?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I've been getting to know this guy through email recently. Emails were going well and we seemed to have clicked, alot of interests same but some differences. Swapped photos and attracted to one another so all good. We had an issue about a topic on...

I've never been out with anyone before... how do I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Well, i want to ask this lad out who is also one of my best mates, i asked on here before wether i should or not and somebody advised me to, so i thought meh may aswell (lol)! anyway...the thing is, i dont really know how to do it...im really s...

My pre-emptive cheat has left me feeling guilty. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy since about the start of this year but a few months ago we officially got together. And I've never been happier. But He's got this close female friend who I don't like. I don't trust her, because of her bad reputati...

How soon to meet his parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I was wondering when a good time to meet the parents is.... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks and 1 day...But we have been extremely close for about two months (he was just shy and slow asking me out - everyone said "finally!" when ...

My ex's friend has been making overtures. Should I accept?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex boyfriend about 4 years ago and recently one of his close friends has been trying to come onto me every time i see him. Although its making me wonder whether or not he's doing it just to make my ex jealous. When i was wit...

How can you get over someone you love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - why i cannot forget a person which i have loved? sometimes im thinking of her and i get sad.(its been 2years since we have broke up).what should i do?...

Should be stay together or break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I don't know how to break up with my boyfriend. I don't want to be with him anymore because he doesn't respect me and we have a terrible relationship. Whenever I'm about to say something to him something always happens to make me not say anything...

Should I accept?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Hi this is the first time i am writing here. Well, i am in relationship many years. It seems serious. We had said, when i finish my studies to get engaged. But after the years i rethink again and again if this man is my best choice. A)He is from ...

I'm worried about sleeping with my boyfriend. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I want to sleep with my boyfriend but I am not on the pill nor do I want to go on the pill, but I am worried that by just using condoms that I will fall pregnant, he says he will be careful but I'm not sure....

How can I help him with this depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - Hi im 18 and I need some advice as to how i can help my boyfriend. For the last 2 weeks my boyfriend has changed. i think he is experiencing depression - i come to this conclusion as i have depression myself and i have been learning about it in my ...

New to dating again and need some perspective

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I've been on my own for about 18 months now. After encouragement from friends I joined a dating site. It has been a lovely experience. So many men have contacted me that it has made me feel much more confident. I have been on a couple of 'first ...

Should I have sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - i'm 14 and my girlfriend is 14 too. we have bin going out for about a year and she asked me if we could have sex what sould i do?...

Some help writing a note to a boy I like, please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am toying with the idea of giving this guy a note the last time I see him. I plan on getting to know him a little before I actually give it to him. Anyhow, here is what Im going to write. Im not very good at gauging how people will respond ...

Boyfriend didn't let me masturbate him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend..were having oral sex..he wanted to cum..so i thought of helping him but i still lack the proper technique..so in front of me he used his own hands!i was really frustated..i mean he could hav given me a chance but he ...

Am I expecting too much from my b/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - So i finally made it official with my best friend of two years. i really really care for him, he always makes me smile. he was a great friend, and i thought he would be an even better bf, but i guess as a bf, i have different expectations from him. ...

Need ideas for sexting with my FWB

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so I'm in a Friends with benefits relationship. I really like him, but that's all we'll be, which is fine. But we text all the time and we do sexting. But I can't think of anything to say to him when he wants me to start. Any ideas of what I can ...

Why has she changed her mind so suddenly???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I have asked this question before but I need more input from you guys. I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been dating for 2 months yesterday. Weve done blowjobs, handjobs, fingering, and eating out. Anyway we almost had sex on our anniversary ...

Vaginal dryness is causing me problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am only 38 but I am going through menopause early. I am not going to have to take hormone replacements, because things seem to be going fairly well for me (meaning, my periods stopped about 2 years ago and I am otherwise healthy and fine. But the ...

We couldn't have "proper" sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend really love each other.. we have done oral sex.. but when we wanted to pass have intercourse it didn't go well because his penis didn't go inside my vagina! i mean only a bit and that was very painful.. though my hymen is ...

A serious mishap...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is really starting to detach herself from me and it is really starting to bother me. i was wondering, since weve been together for two months now, ive been realizing that she has almost broken up with me twice and i really love her ive ...

My girlfriend said no more sex...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been going out for two months and have done everything but sex. Yesterday was our two month anniversary and we were just about to have sex, but her dad came home. So i got a handjob under the blankets ...

My fiancee is extremely needy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, This is my first time using the site and I really need some relationship advice. My Fiancee, (I have known her for 6 years) and I have a problem The problem is, I'm a lot smarter than her. Normally, in the relationship thi...

Is he wanting to end things and doesn't want to tell me to my face?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (?) - I desprately need your advice. I am engaged to the guy of my dreams but I'm seventeen. we have been together for a while now, eleven months and our love is deep. just recently his mom grounded him and he emailed me on the 16th of last month saying ...

I'm not sure if I want to be single again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I've recently started University, and have been in (what i consider) a long term relationship (which is around 8 months, but i have known the girl for almost triple that) with the girl i have left back at home - The problem is, that as much as i ...

Should I believe him, knowing he likes to lie a lot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I just need some advice on this, me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs and we always had trust issues, he lives with his mom and sister and his sister has a lot of female friends who go to the house, now she has a friend who she just met and ...

My boyfriend doesn't do anything for himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, I am now 21. He doesn't do anything for himself or me. He had a crazy past, being homeless etc. What should I do? Should I stick by him or leave? I'm really confused. I haven't been with anyone else....

Should I give her time and accept her with open arms when she comes back, if she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Me and my now ex loved each other a lot and all our friends and family said we were the perfect couple for each other. We both were talking about her moving here, us living together, her getting a job as a PD officer while I finish school. We ...

I'm so behind with my sexual knowledge I fear he'll think I'm weird! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Four years ago when I was 16 I decided, together with my bf at the time, that I was ready to lose my virginity with him, basically neither of us knew what we were doing, I felt uncomfortable and immediately told him to stop. However he didn't, he ...

Should I take things slowly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for six months and he decided it was over because he said he was tried of the arguements. i called him to apologise but he gave me the cold shoulder and said we will never get back together. he left on monday and today ...