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Dating: Help and advice

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

What was SO HOT while we were drunk wasn't the same when we were sober!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - So im 14, and he is 18. I met him at my friends party and we made-out that night. We talked every weekend after that and he always asked me if i wanted to chill and i would always be busy or he would but it would mostly be me. Then, on halloween i ...

Is it too soon for me to stay the night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I've been seeing a fantastic woman for 3 1/2 months now. She is in the process of divorcing ,and has 2 kids, aged 16 and 18. They still live in the marital home.The problem is my girlfiend feels awkward me staying the night because of the c...

How often is too often seeing each other while dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - So how often is too often seeing each other while dating? Or how much is not enough? We work together so we see each other every day. Although this probably shouldn't count as seeing each other, it's hard to guage. Right now we see each other ...

I want more intimacy but not sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. I've met his family and friends and he calls me his girlfriend. One night, about a month after we started going out, he said he wanted to sleep with me. I told him I wasn't ready and he said he ...

Double trouble!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for a year, I was his first girlfriend, first everything basically. He's the most amazing guy I've ever dated. We've stuck by each other through loss, fights with friends, unemployment, and other situations. It made things ...

What is so wrong about me and my body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying ...

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...

I am supposed to be meeting this man for the first time, but he restarted his online dating profile!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i met a man on an online dating site almost three mnths ago and we have been txting by phone ever since. he made big deal bout deactivating his account because he didnt need it anymore coz he fond me.of course i didnt believe that and gla i didnt ...

Should I confess my love for her and risk losing everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - HI All, This is SRSG. My question is like I am in deep love with a girl she stays in X country and i am in Y country.I got to know about her when we use to work together at one place and its been 4 years i am in touch with her. I will be calling ...

I want to spend quality time with my boyfriend, but he just uses my house as a flop-house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - so i just got back with my boyfriend but the thing is i only see him when he comes over and sleep which is like at 2 or 3 in the morning, he gets up at around 11:30 and then just lays in bed until he is ready to leave which is around 1:30 or 2 and ...

Could this Senior be a Cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so there is this sweet senior, and he will always come by me and touch me a little. hug me, hold my hand. and when ill text him "hey" he will text me " hey cutie ;-D". the thing is that he has a girlfriend who has been away. and im afraid she ...

Is it wrong to want to date my friend's ex-boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - A friend of mine hooked up with a guy over the summer. (Mostly likely as a rebound as she had just broken up with her boyfriend of a year). They slept together a couple times and then she told him she didn't want anything more from him. At the bar ...

My boyfriend has always been faithful, but I suspect he might cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he's an outgoing person and funny. he maybe starting a new sales job where he will be working with alot of women. he's divorced and i know that his ex and him both cheated on each ...

Boyfriends make me feel drowsy. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I was wondering...everytime I am with my boyfriend I feel extremly tired. Like we will be sitting close (touching and holding hands) and all of a sudden a strong wave of drowsiness come over me. So I lay my head on his shoulder; but I dont sleep...

I feel like I'm her brother and not her lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hi all. I'm 22 and I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now. This is my first proper relationship. Shes 19. Things have been okay. But its starting to feel abit like a brother - sister relationship, instead of lovers. Plus the fact ...

How do I wow my girlfriend again? She seems to have changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 and a half months, its been exciting and stressful,alot has happened but i love her, there was a problem with her ex who kept phoning her and trying to come round and one day he did. what made...

My girlfriend is icy cold and won't even cuddle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hello aunts! I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years and I love her more than my life. I am in deep heart ache these days recieving each romance restriction from my girlfriend every other day. 1st of all, she is never willing to go on a date with me. ...

I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in ...

I told a guy I like he's "Buff" on MSN. Now everyone knows I like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - So, I like this guy, i think he's sooo cute, but! I've never spoke to him face to face...only through msn. and i accidentaly told him he was 'buff' and in my mind tht meens 'fit'. So i was with all my friends and he just came back from lunch with my ...

I want to shower my girlfriend with gifts, but is it too much if we are on the rocks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are sort of on the rocks- it nearly ended last week but i've booked a surprise holiday to Vienna for our first year anniversary tomorrow and although she doesn't know where we're going she's agreed to come and we'll hopefully ...

Ever since I became happy with myself, I seem to repel men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I am a 27 year old editor and I have the worst luck with dating out of anyone I know. This year, I have been on dates with seven men, every one of whom has not felt compelled to continue seeing me, almost always after three dates. ...

We just broke up after a month of dating! What happened?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - ok PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! me and my gf have been going out for like a month now. She just broke up with me, she still has feelings for me... but she said it didnt feel right... in the space of two days she didnt feel right, something wasnt the ...

My Co-worker likes me... right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I recently read a Question pertaining to a situation of a Guy with his co worker. She had a boyfriend yet had told others at work that he was taken/hers. Someone I work with also does this with me. Ive only known him for about 4 months, close as...

I won't be naked without the lights off!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I had an affair with a guy. this guy i loved him so much. The first time we met i was really shy to look at him in such a way that i could not even take off my clothes when the light was on. I will just wait until the light was off thats when i will ...

MEN: What are some suggestions about activites for a first meet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i am meeting a man saturday night that i have been texting or the last 3 months. he is living an hour away and is going back home that night. i really need some suggestions as to what we could do on that night; where to go, etc. a few answers fom ...

Do girls have a problem with a curved penis? And what skin tone do girls find more attractive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hi...i'm 18 years old boy,i have two questions. 1. I don't know why but i have a slightly curved penis.Its very little bent downwards and slightly curved to its left,perhaps its coz of the way i masturbate as i masturbate pressing my penis on...

I want to get to know her better, how do I talk to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - hey guys hmmm how do i start this.... well i know this might sound wussy so here goes there is this girl who lives across my house who looks beautiful i have been seeing her around the village a couple of times and talked to her once i think and ...

Have I made the right choice by giving up on my friend and starting a relationship with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - [Moderator's Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question 1: Hi, I have been in a relationship for over 6 months now with the girl of my dreams.We are very happy and wish to spend the rest of our lifes toge...

Romantic gift ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hi All My partner is a little down lately, and id really like to surprise her with something to cheer her up.. something romantic. The problem is, money is VERY tight right now, and ive done most of the things i can think of (massages, flow...

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if ...

Will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and at my ropes end. I got out of a really serious relationship about 2 years ago. I gave it my all and when it ended I felt I couldn't get emotionally attached to anyone for a very long time. I dated randomly but cared about no ...

Can you go from sexually active to abstinent to make sure he's the right guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Hey, umm, I have been sexually active for about two years now and I have had three partners, two in which i have been serious with, and one, was just a one night stand. after that one time, i kinda felt guilty about it because i did it out of spite. ...

My co-worker has a b/f but tells everyone I'm taken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - im a little confused by this situation. this girl I work with is dating someone else. we are really good friends. lately she's been acting real different. she's been questioning my past relationships, about my beliefs over cheating and such. after ...

Is it ok to love with the mind, not the heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - hey everyone, is it healthy or ok to love someone with your mind than your heart? what i mean is to love him/her based on there decisions, beliefs and how they treat you ...

What else can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - We have 5 semesters left at college. Mabye i seem unqualified to say that we are perfect for each other considering my extreme bias, but you are just going to have to trust me. Her problem has always been she was unable to commit to anything because ...

Don't know if he likes me/how to approach it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Last year I noticed this guy at school and I thought he was kind of cute. I only noticed him because he would walk down the hall with the guy that I had a crush on. Last year he would look at me and point and stuff like that as I walked by, but I ...

I'm losing sleep over my lost love! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - im 16 years old she 16 years old, i love that girl to death but shes in love with someone else, we dated in the past and broke up, i been in several relationships after that but everytime i kiss these girls i close my eyes and see her, i want that ...

We flirted and kissed even though I have a boyfriend. Now I haven't heard from him in two days! What happened?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I recently moved back to my hometown and have been meeting a lot of my friend's friends. They are all really chill, and one in particular immediately sparked a more then friendly interest. i soon found out that he did too, he started by putting his ...

Is it normal to act differently after a break up and reunion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - me and my ex recently got back together,after 2 and a half months of no contact ( my choice) he called me one day and told me that he still loves me and misses me alot and if he can have another chance, i agreed! since we have been back togeth...

Does my former one-night stand not want to see me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand with a man i thought i would never see. But today I ran into him and the wierd thing is that i asked him for his number, and i sent him a txt, but he hasnt replied. i really like him and after that night i regretted not ...

Is this sophomore with a girlfriend being too friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Hello, i am a freshman in high school, and i am involved with theatre. not if have have ever been involved with theatre you know how close you get to the whole cast. well there is this senior who is always hugging me, around me, will touch me, hold ...