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writes:okkayy well im going out with this guy and i really like him but he doesnt really have feelings for me like that but hes giving me a chance and after 2 weeks if it doesnt work out hel break up with me so what can i do to make a good impression on him so that he may start liking me??by the way we are really good friends and my friends are the one whos told him about my feelings lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2009): I agree, he's not going to start magically liking you. I would get away from him right now and go find someone awesome who will return your feelings.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (29 November 2009):
 okay, if my answer doesnt make sense, come back and I will try and change the words.
This seems to me like an impossible task, if he doesnt like you now, how can that change within two weeks? You cannot perform miracles, and magic wands just dont work.
How unkind of him to dangle a carrot in front of you, when all he has to do is change the rules, or make up some rules, or even step sideways to make it impossible for you to grab the carrot.
The best thing you can do is try and turn this into a joke, so that you are not busting a gut trying to please him, with him watching you like a mouse in a maze.
Turn this into a joke, so that you at least can come out of it smiling with your dignity intact. Go to a toy shop and buy that magic wand, and whenever the subject is brought up, wave the wand and say abracadabra. At least this way you all, him and you and your friends, might come out the other end smiling rather than feeling dejected and rejected.
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