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writes:okay, so alot of girls are always looking for mr right, but the truth is, is there really a mr right out there because so far all i've found is mr nasty, mr rude, mr cheat, mr slut, mr too hot for his own good, mr not so good looking, mr late, mr marriedAnd this has made me think what is the ideal mr right?is it a guy whos good looking?a guy with a nice personality?a rich guy?a guy who wont cheat?a guy who buys you presents?a guy who always tells you he loves you?a guy who cares for you?a guy who isnt clingy?a guy who is clingy?a guy who your parents like?etc.etc,etc,i know most of you are going to answer its up to you but i want ur honest opinions who do you think mr right is?(and by the way if you know him and he is available let me know) lol (joking btw :-D)xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL
OKAY guys i think u answered my quesion there isnt a mr right like there isnt a mrs right
i guess that instead of searching for this 'so called mr right' (who doesnt exist) i should search for someone who has atleast somethings that i like.... and as lazyguy has put it im not miss perfect (because of the virginity thing) so i crnt exactly have a mr perfect so i should settle for who i get
i get it now, i guess i'll have to blame disney for my unrealistic expectations of men lol (that was a joke btw)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 Who, strontiumdog wants ALL these things in a man? Then good luck.
I think you and him got the wrong idea about Mr Right. You two seem to be talking about Mr Perfect (aka LazyGuy to his friends). He exists but competition is extremely strong for him and he is only interested in Ms Perfect, you are not it since she is a virgin.
Mr Right and Ms Right are not a bullet list of insane requirements, they are the person who is right for you DESPITE their shortcomings. She might be too tall, he might be to fat, his parents hate your guts, she changes personality every month, he doesn't even remember his own birthday, she can never pass a shop without spending an hour looking in the window (exception any shop that interests her partner) etc etc.
If you can put up with his parents, despite her being the mother-in-law from hell, for his sake. If you love it that she uses your body as a pillow. Then that is Mr/Ms Right.
Didn't like the crack I made earlier about you not being a virgin? Well that is a valid point, you talk about the list for Mr Perfect, but what about his list? That is a problem isn't it? When you find Mr Perfect after years/decades of search... who is to say he wants you?
That doesn't you have to settle for the first guy to come around, but that you should look for a guy who is right for you. And if you don't like someone who is nasty or rude or cheats or has had a lot of girls or thinks he is god gift to women kind or is ugly or is late or married, then don't get involved with them.
Each person will have their own list, but I personally think real love is that such a list doesn't matter anymore, not because you have given up on your principles but because he/she is the one you are happy to be with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Quite a list. Goodluck finding all that in one guy. If he has a sister let me know ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot strontiumdog that was great advice,
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reader, LadyCorsair  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 My Mr. Right is someone who is protective, (likes knowing where I am, but wouldn't stop me going), faithful, touchy-feely, warped sense of humor, loads in common with me and thinks I'm the most wonderful woman in the world I guess. I wrote this poem ages ago actually... Check it out lol.
It's called Classified Advertisement, copyright MEEEE!
I want a man who calls me beautiful,
And never just "hot".
Who'll call me back when I've hung up,
And even if I've not.
I want someone who would stay awake,
Simply to watch me sleep.
Who'll love me for a lifetime,
And in his mind forever keep.
I want one who gives me all his love,
Reminding me each day,
Who shows me off in public,
Who would never go astray.
He'd call me "M'Lady",
As he held open doors.
He'd hold my face in his hands,
And tell me "I'm yours".
There would never be an awkward silence,
For he'd want to hear me talk,
Even if I went on forever,
I'd know he'd never walk.
I'm waiting for the man of my dreams,
Who'd be there for me in a blur,
Who'd turn to his friends if I walked by,
And he'd say "...that's her".
Cheesy, but hey!
Lady Corsair
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