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writes:Right. Fell for this guy at the begining of last school year when we got sat next to each other in class and our relationship grew and grew and finally, September this year he asked me out.Before we "made it official", we'd kiss and hug and act like boyfriend and girlfriend but it was relaxed. Since giving the relationship this.. title, the conversation has faded to the point where it is now sometimes a forced thing.I'm still crazy about him and I think he's still crazy about me (don't get me started on all this "love" stuff; I'm 15!!) and the silence between us isn't ALWAYS awkward, sometimes it's nice just being with him, but I wish we could have propper conversations again.I'm a pretty anti-social person but.. not with him. Not until we "made it official". Now I don't know how to get our conversations back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advise (: It seems to have worked; we've just past our 5 month anniversary and things are going pretty OK in the conversation department! Other things are.. troubling me but it's something I'm going to talk to him about and we'll sort it out (: Thanks again; since we started going out, I've been happier than I've been in.. well.. happier than I can ever remember being.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): tell him that your pretty anti social except round him thats such a nice compliment the only reason why its awkward is cause your not huggin on him and giveing him cheek kisses and telling him you like his shirt today and tell him he looks cute when he smiles excetraanything to make him feel good and remeber that you do adore him as for the proper convosas you chill with him start telling him stuff that pops into your head like funny stories of stuff thats happened to you exspecially embarressing stories people feel more at ease when people show there vulnerable side and laugh at themselveshell most likely share funny stopries back with you and you can tease him and get inside jokes excetra and the bong will start comeing back just flirt with him!hes your bf nowhave fun grab his hand smack his butt hahahug him from behind and then give him, a lil sholder massage or somethingdont be afraid totouch him it shows that your comfortable enough to know hes not gonna push you off or be like ewwww dont kiss me hahagood luck and stop feeling awkward!its stupid be yourself
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