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Archived questions from: 24 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He used to flirt with me all the time, but not recently. Should I tell him my thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I like this guy and i went working away for a few weeks recently.Before i went, we hadn't spoken for a while, i had also removed him from my friends list on facebook, but i dont know if he ahs noticed this.this was because this other woman kept ...

My sister sent him naked photos, how do I get over this and him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - A year ago my bf lied about being home one evening. Something told me he was lying I went to his apartment stood in the middle of it and called him. I asked what we was doing he said cleaning his apartment. Needless to say I got back with him. I ...

How do I give him directions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I recently had sex with my boyfriend. He's kind of on the smaller side. I know I can't really change his size (unfortunately). So I was wondering how I can increase the pleasure I get and what type of things would help him hit the spot better. ...

Should I love him or love him not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I think Im in Love With a Guy and He is one of my best friends, but he is dating my other friend and has a crush on my bFF and my BFF likes him too. Is it wrong to love him?...

Does X plus naked pics on pc equal no relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together just over a year and i honestly dont know what id do without him. However, lately he's been less committed than I. He took his ex out for drinks then went back to her place and I found half naked ...

My X boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - ok... So I've known this guy since we were in 6th grade. We were best friends and dated in 7th grade, broke up and still remained best friends.. We dated our junior year in high school and he broke my heart and i never talked to him again. After my ...

Masturbating while texting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - I want to masturbate while txting my girfriend while she masturbates, but she doesnt want to. weve talked about it and shes comfortable with it, nothings wrong, so idk why she doesnt want to do it. we would do it at like midight so we wouldnt get ...

Stuck with another, but wants to be with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy, and we were together for a year but broke up when I found out he had another girl. We remained friends, and recently he has been wanting to get back together with me. He has been telling me he loves me. However, re...

Jealous of co-worker? Or paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - me n my boyfriend have been datin now for about two years n a half. he works on the road all the time so hes always away from home. he has different people on every new contract, so he meets a lot of people. most of them r men. once in a while he ...

How do we get closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend 3 week on thursday. He is very special and i think it could last a while but we need some way to get closer. See, we always go out with our friends and always in a quite big crwod so whenever i get to try and talk to him ...

My boyfriend wants to snog me but I don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - im 15 and ive never snogged ive only kissed him my bf told ma best mate today that he wanted to snog me when she told me i was terrified coz i have never snogged and i know he has done it loads of times before this is driving us appart for he thinks ...

My boyfriend's mother is a problem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hello i have a lil problem with my boyfriends mother. it seems that he can't cut the cord and it creates problems for us. i am close with my parents but my parents aren't clingy like his mother is. i have much love and respect for her and i am sure ...

I want my boyfriend to be more affectionate in public.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly four months now, i know, it dosent sound long at all, but ive known the guy for about a year and i feel alot for him. Ive just noticed that he's not the most affectionate guy in the world. He never just ran...

Christmas gift for the boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I'm having a difficult time deciding what to get my boyfriend for christmas ,, any suggestions??? Thanks x ...

I don’t know what to think about him now! I am so confused!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 ½ years, and we have been living together only 2 months, but its going really well. I thought things were perfect between us.. he is sweet, kind, thoughtful, considerate and the perfect gentleman. Really ...

I really need your help, is he grumpy because he's a diva?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Hey. I really need your help on this one. x Ok, im 13 :) But i actually really do Love someone. I have liked a boy for over 2 years now. He sometimes really seems interested in me.. like he sits next to me in some lessons and will be really i...

He is being very very rude with me. Does he still care for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - he behaves rude wid me lyk he doesnt luv me never calls me. his frnds tell me tht he really luvs me a lot n puposely behaving harsh wid me so tht i leave him coz my bf thinks tht we cnt have a future together i dun kno whether to trust him or not. ...

Need to shake this feeling! Please Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... I am a 21 year old Junior in college (should be a senior but due to poor grades am not) and have been been dating my girlfriend who is a Senior in a private University about an hour away from me. I've been with her for a few months n...

It scares me that he will break my heart and go back with his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I need help asap. I have been with my boyfriend for the past 7 months. things started out going great, he even came to the point telling me that he loves me and wants to have a future with me since I am the only one with him through his hard times ...

Have her feelings changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - We haven't been together long and it has been a whirlwind romance! Now in text messages and emails she says less and less she loves me or thinking of me expressing affection etc. Should I be worried?? I would like her to say such things. ...

Should I give my ex another chance?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have broken up with my boyfriend because he can not decide who he wants - me or this other girl. Should i give him another chance or not? ...

Should I ask her out even though we are total opposites of each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - Look Im in the teen years I really want to ask this girl out be she is like the total opposite to me aka I am a computer expert but not that good in the looks department and she's a beautiful and has a good personality and humor so should I ask her ...

How do I get sex from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I initiated the sexual fun and for 4 months things were on then off then back on. now we are just friends no benefits. how do i get him to want me again? i have tried everything from: talking dirty to saying i want sex all the time, how horny i am, ...

Why are women labelled as "shallow" if they voice their opinions on their partners appearance yet men can judge women entirely on their looks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - So my bf knew I didn't like facial hair on guys and found it unattractive. He grew a beard. I had to admit though that with his messy mop of dark hair it actually really suited him and he looks great. My bf knows I hate long hair on guys. So he an...

I'm scared to go against Indian society and marry a white man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hi, im 25 yrs old indian female. i was in a livin relation with a white man who is 17 years older than me for about 8 months and we didnt have any fights or arguments during that period of time. this was in USA and after completion of my studies i ...

Is two years too long to wait...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - I really need help... I can truly say that I am in love with my girlfriend... we recently broke up because of her father not wanting her to have a boyfriend... we promised we would wait for each other until after high school which is two years from ...

Could he have a subconcious fear of having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cant seem to get all the way hard before we have sex. He is a vrigin and I am not. And he tells me that it is not because he scared or anything, he just cant get all the way hard. I mean I have tried to do just about everything to help ...

Can you become pregnant just from foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend touched my private parts for 5 minutes without touching his. Are there any chances of me getting pregnant because of this?...

Why does he leave things for me to initiate? Is he not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy a little over a week ago. The first time we talked, we did so for over 2hrs. The second time we talked, we did so for over 3hrs. The next day and the third time we talked, I suggested that meet for drinks and he exclaimed ...

The Trouble with Mary

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, this one's gonna be a bit long. Before we start lemme say i am not this kinda guy. Normally im a horny sex freak, and all i think about is sex. This is something new to me, cause i actually fell for someone. For time being, im gonna ...

He sends mixed messages. Does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - First, i like this guy. next, im confused as to how he acts. So...he treats me differently than other girls, basically, and idk if im just overanalyzing cuz i like him or if he really does treat me weird. He basically talks to me a bunch and invi...

How important is inner beauty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - i know what some people will say that it is about whats on the inside that counts, but does it matter on the outside too? im sort of chubby but not totally fat i have dark brown hair and blue green eyes, im 5'7 and im very pale, and tons of freck...

I don't know how to be in any other relationshi[?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up in September after ten months of being together. We were apart for about a month and a half, until we ran into eachother again, and all the feelings came back. We started seeing eachother no strings attached. (Well, ...

What should I do when I haven't seen someone in ages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for nearly 2 months now and have only gone out with him once. We chat all the time over the computer and thats about it. He has a job that takes up alot of his time and he sometimes works on weekends. At the moment he has work...

Bf is changing for the better because of me... will it last?

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24 November 2009 (F) - So I know how dangerous it is to try to change someone, but will it still end up going wrong if they CHOOSE to change from knowing you? I'm told the guy I like has become a much better person in many ways since meeting me. I'm worried the changes ...

I think he wants to say he loves me, but doesn't because he's unsure of my reaction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for about 4 months. In the beginning I wasn't too sure about him and I took things really slow. For the first 3 months I didn't even tell him how I felt. He's slowly been expressing how he feels about me. He says that he's l...