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Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend is ignoring me and I don't know why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do you get over a breakup when you love and care for someone? My boyfriend of 9mths indirectly broke up with me, he just has been ignoring me for the past month and i havent done anything wrong: no cheating, etc...he just stopped texting,...

Love triangle, my boyfriend, me and his sister?!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I've been there for him through a lot of family problems. He lives at home with just his sister (with no parents) and he's 19 years old. I just feel like his sister takes full advantage of him...

He asked me why I was so quiet and I told him... did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend sent me a message two days ago asking why i had been so quiet with him recently and he knows i find it difficult to express my feelings face to face so he said to tell him in a message. So i did. I told him that i feel like i cant...

Do you think that telling him what he did wrong will make a difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Do you think that telling him what he did wrong will make a difference? Don't want to bother with details, but a few weeks ago my bf tried to break up with me for things that I had been doing that hurt him. I didn't know that these things bot...

I like her more than just a friend! Should I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - i've known this girl for just less than a year now. We spoke over msn for months and we became really close and met for the first time about a month ago. I met her in person for the first time about a month ago. She'd been going out with a guy i ...

Dating again but fear looking inexperienced and self-concious to the new guy! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys...I could really use some help please. I was with my ex for 4 years, and we broke up 2 years ago. It was generally a very happy match and I was pretty gutted when it ended. While I've dated a few other guys since we broke up, I've only ev...

He forgets to text me and he forgets our dates! Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - i've been texing and meeting this boy for about 4-5 months, last week he told me he liked me but didnt want a relationship yet... all of a sudden since that he's been 'forgetting' to text me or ring me and tonight he even forgot we were supposed to ...

Two states apart and I feel like I'm losing her, please help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - So I've been at college for 3 months now, and it's hard on me and my gf of 3 years. I'm two states away. Recently we took a "break" just to see where our lives were, and we both decided it was a mistake, that we never wanted to be apart. BUT, while ...

I'm dating a guy but I'm not sure if he's after more or just another notch in his belt, how do I figure it out!? Advise please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - So I'm active on an adult website and enjoy the privacy of participating on the site without the pressure of meeting someone. I chatted with a New Guy on and off for about 3 weeks and decided to meet him the other day. We immediately hit ...

Is my female house mate just being friendly or is it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So here's the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key...

Unable to deal with the breakdown in my relationship, will he come around? What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the moment . He though he was pulling me down so he dumped me . But we started talking again and we were joking around about old times then i asked him why cant we try again and he said we cant its to late ...

Anything can start a fight with us now. How do I sort this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Alright, my girlfriend and I have been dating for around four years now. Things have been pretty awesome until recently. It seems that lately everything, from going grocery shopping to our puppy can start a fight. She always accuses me of ...

How do I give him the best blowjob he's ever had???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were talking about what he likes and he tells me that he doesn't care much for blow jobs because in the past his now ex's weren't good at them... So I'm now keen to change his mind, the only thing is that it would be my first ti...

My girlfriend has gone off sex and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Well I've been with my girlfriend just over a year and our our sex life was very good excellent to say the least, I am 36 and my girlfriend is 49 and i love her so dearly but recently she has gone off sex and has lost all interest in making love as ...

My boyfriend has double standards!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My bf, 25 years old seems to have double standards. It is ok for him to flirt with other girls and lead them on, yet its not ok for another guy to even just say "hello" to me. Why does he do this? I dont want to flirt with other guys, but I feel...

How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I'...

How do I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and my bf been together for four months now. And he has a baby boy at the age of 15. And he sees his son when he wants to or when his baby mama wants him over there. He tells me hes not with her and she already told me i could have him. But ...

How do I approach the topic of LOVE with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do I approach the topic of 'love' with my bf? He hasnt said "I love you" and neither have I to him. We have been together about 8 months now and I think I do love him and want to say it to him but I am so afraid he wont feel the same way...

Why does my boyfriend still want to talk with my ex knowing it bothers me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My bf talks to my ex knowing it bothers me. I don't know why he's keeping in touch with him after trying to steal me away from him. My main problem is that I feel like garbage. Because my bf basically tries to give me away. Like if I was an object ...

I am so emotional and upset with every click of the mouse when he looks at other girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My bf looks at other girls in front of me and that makes me very sad and uncomfortable. He also browses for naked girls on the net... and constantly buys porn magazines and videos. It really bothers me! I have told him about it but it just seems ...

How do I find out if he's marriage material?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now. We are "exclusive" (whatever that means today, everbody seems to have a different definition) I guess he is pretty much my boyfriend we don't date other people. I'm 32 and he is 31 years old. He ...

When my boyfriend is away I get used to feeling 'single'. Does this mean I don't love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend and I have been together 11 months and 2 weeks. We have a sort of long distance relationship, but when he comes home he lives next door to me. But, ever since our relationship started after awhile i get over him being aw...

Day trip to with my boyfriend in Montreal. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I wanted to spend the whole day together in late December in Montreal. I wanted this to be really special as we don't get to spend much time together. Does anyone have any suggestions on both indoor and outdoor activiti...

We're very close but he ignores me in public

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designat...

He's odd and I think he fancies me. I fancy him too so how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - there's this guy. he's really awkward, he does and says strange things. i just find it incredably alluring.. i have the biggest crush on him. he sits with me in class. i think maybe he's interested.. he pokes my hand with pencils, teases me, gets...

Where can I meet men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating since 16 (im 26 now). I've had a handful of bfs and I've been married. However I find bfs to be rare. I've been on more dates than I can count.that lead to a couple, handful or 1 date at most and nothing. It seems I'm always ms ...

Help me decide... what should I get my boyfriend for Christmas???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for three years, but we've been completely together since March 21st. We always talk about how we're going to have a kid, and a house, and everything. We're both 14, and we do no what true ...

He says he wants to be friends only, but he seems to want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've never done this before, but I always come to this site so I figured I'd try... I met this guy in August. Initially I had my doubts, but I put aside the superficials and really looked at him as a person and began to fall for him. The phys...

He says he wants to be a couple, but he doesn't text me as often

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been dating a guy for quite sometime now, he calls texts me a few times during the week so we can go out on the weekend usually both friday and saturdays. He doesn't mind seeing me even with my friends and gets along with them too. Last w...

She seems genuine but guarded. Should I wait?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I met this woman recently, we had a couple of dates. We clicked very well, both were very intrigued by each other. But when it came to being intimate on a number of occasions she had a hard time to open up. Sometimes I think she unknowingly had ...

I told him a very personal thing about me and now all his friends are calling me names. I don't know how to handle it any more. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - Last night i told my boyfriend of 10 months that i had been raped before we got together and that is why i do not wish to have sex before we are married as i am scared and any time i think about sex i see His face. its horrible. Even for my ...

How can I learn to take a step back and 'chill' before I ruin it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been single for 2 years.. I had 3 long term relationships and all have cheated on me. This has left me so insecure and when i meet someone i tend to be quite 'clingy'. I fall for that person quite easily, like i crave to be loved..:-(. I'm 35...