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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's hot then cold, but I won't give up! Need some ideas here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I really like this guy and im tryin to get with him (: he flirts with me and told me im fit and stuff over text and msn which im happy about, he also flirted with me at a party but not varbally lol, that was the first time he noticed me. I hardly ...

Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...

My boyfriend is jealous of my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have always gotten along and have a close bond but theres always been somthing that pisses me off. He's jealous of my best friend who is male and also an ex of mine. I've explained so many times that there's nothing going on and ...

Breakdown in communication? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I would be interested in your thoughts. Today my gf sent a text to me while I was at work at about 11.50am. She said that due to me working long hours and being so tired when I get home that she feels she never sees me. Then she asked if we could ...

Is he not that interested in me or is he bad at staying in touch for other reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I work with a guy whom I am interested in. Lately I have shown this by meeting up and spending a few hours together. Problem is, he's got a history of depression (which he has apparently got over now) and bullying which makes him rather reserved, ...

Is he being nasty, joking as friends, or flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm mega uuber confused. I work with this guy in a busy shop right, and I kinda sorta fancy him lol. The thing is, when we're at work, he does talk to me, but it's just friendly talk, talk about work collegues, what we've got to do for the day, ...

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a...

I want a relationship with this guy who is 7 years older than me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and he is 23 hes been in my life a very long time.. our families our close. hes gonna graduate from college and pursue his career,so hes very responsible. I'm confused about my feelings for him,and his feelings for me. he comes over ...

How can I make our first time together a Crazy, Passionate event?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Ok, new girlfriend, new start, mindlessly love her, we are both very close with each other and enjoy each other's company. We've been together for a month and a half, we've both been in sexual relationships before, and i'd like to have a passionate ...

How do I convince my brother's friend that we should try dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I really really like my brother's best friend. We have been flirting with each other for months and a few weeks ago he asked me to go to dinner with him. When my brother found out he was upset because neither one of us had told him about it. He f...

Could my two friends be having a secret affair?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I'm not sure why I'm writing this but here goes. At college, I know this girl and to me it looks like this girl likes other girls. I know this sounds stupid but I'm not sure if it's in my head or if it's true. This girl (the main one-lets call her ...

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into ...

I have a full life, but worry that I may not find love. Are there others out there like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Hello all, I am an attractive, and very young looking 41 year old woman.I never meet men around my own age, as they always think I am too young for them, and do not approach me, and the guys I do meet are never really settled, or they are unsuita...

Should I talk to my boyfriend about wanting more, and if so, how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - DEAR CUPID .. I have been on again off again seeing this guy. He has a seven year old daughter and a baby mama that he was with for ten years. I really like him when were together we have lots of fun talking and jus being "together". The problem is ...

My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you ...

My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in ...

I know he likes me. Is there a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Hi i'll apologize in advance for the legnth of this. I'll give you abit of background info as over the last 2 years ALOT of stuff has happened. People have said things, the way they have acted and the way this guy has acted to make me and others ...

After our break-up, I feel used! Am I wrong?

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4 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy aged 22 for 4 months, i loved him so an ended up giving up my virginity to him, he was an alcoholic and i rarely felt his attention. one day when i was asking about us, about the relationship an its weakness he looked at me and told me ...

My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hug...

My ex-girlfriend says she wants to be friends, but is hot and cold with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - My gf broke up with me like 3 months ago after about a year and a half. We tried being friends right off the bat, but it didnt work and we didnt talk for about two months. She calls me to hangout two days in a row and now she says she doesn't want ...

Have I ruined everything with the man I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months. He's a complicated creature, very sports orientated from a young age so his appearance has always been important to him so he regularly goes to the gym. He has also never been on holiday with anyone and canno...

Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (?) - When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this ...

Why do I find it hard to make conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - hi, in the past i have had boyfriends, but nothing has ever come of them. i have also met two people who i met online, we got on great chatting, and when we decided to meet up it just was a disaster, mainly me, i found that in person i couldnt talk ...

My ex has offered to hook me up with some of her friends, and while I do want a new girlfriend I find this really weird!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I came to realize that she probably wasn't coming back. I eventually moved on, started living my life. Working, going out, things like that. I'm not really "trying" to find a girlfriend, but I have to ...

I'm awful when it comes to women, what's my next move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I have been working feverishly with a group of people on a presentation for class. There are 3 guys and 2 girls in the group. In our past meeting, she was using my computer to look up something and got very much into my personal space, and her k...

Torn between ex and b/f who to chose?

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4 November 2009 (F) - i with my current bf 'A' for 1 year. He is very good and care for me. I am very happy with him all this while. I am looking forward to marry him. We do have our shares of argueing sometimes and everytime we argued, he will said we are not ...

How do I change my quiet reputation and get a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (M) - I'm a freshman in highschool and have neither dated nor had a girlfriend. I dont talk much at school and people call me quiet. I have a huge problem with that. I don't know how to make friends, therefor cant get a girlfriend in my current state. I...

I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can...

What are some GREAT DIRTY things I can text to my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I just started a new great fun relationship and I want to send him dirty dirty text messages when he is away. Please don't hold back and help me come up with things to text. Thanks everyone!...

They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and ...

I only seem to attract older men who want to have sex. Is it because of my behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - I always feel like i attract men that only want to have fun with me. There was a professor who is married that tried to get into my pants he never did. then there was a thirty year old that only wanted to get into my pants. I just want to know why i ...

A man FINALLY fancies me for more than sex and I am not as interested in him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - hi seemed to atract men how only wanted sex , and am fed up as want more than that,now i have meet a man how wants to spend time with me treat me right and is lovley person has a fab job , and is very honest, the trouble is i just dont fancy him he ...

Suddenly he just wants to be friends. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - Ok - here is my problem. I met a wonderful man about 3 months ago - we shared alot of information - by email, texting and talking on the phone. He asked me out on a date and alot of questions about how I felt about his current situation (having ...

Does this guy want me only if my friends like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - im really not sure what to do.. i met this guy online and he lived outa state at the time. We were talking for like a month or so and every thing was fine we were getting along great.. he's been here for a week and a half, ive met him and everything ...

What do you think of a man, who...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

4 November 2009 (F) - What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on ...