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writes:Hiya. I am in a really difficult situation here.There is this boy and i have like him for over a year now. Last year, we went on a school trip and I held his hand like all morning and went on all the rides together but we wern't going out. Recently, he has been a bit moody with me and then loves me the next minute. Is he wanting my attention or am i teasing him by calling him a Diva? I do it to try and make him laugh. I really really like him.. and want to go out with him. At the beginning of this school year, we had a massive fallout which went on for weeks, but were back on track and friends again now. Shall I just tell him I like him or will it ruin our friendship? I went on his bus with my best friend the other day and he just came and sat by us instead of his friends. This boy i dont reallly know came down to the front of the bus and ask if i was (name)? and I said yes? :S And he said oh yeah you and (the boys name) have a thing going on dont you. And we both just looked at each other. Has he been telling people he likes me or does he think im a stalker. Sometimes i see him with other girls and get jealous.. but then i think, he doesn't act like he does to me with other girls.. we have a better relationship. Does he just want friends that our girls? He is sending out really mised signals please please please help! x
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reader, Blod +, writes (28 November 2009):
 No, I think he's into you. You're relationship is up and down but I think it's because, like the guy said, you've got a thing going on.
I think you should be brave and tell him how you feel. Otherwise it'll just drag on and on. If you want to go out with him then you'll have to tell him. Hopefully he'll feel the same way :) Go for it.
Good Luck. X
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reader, Rae90 +, writes (28 November 2009):
 Hiya.
Cant guys just can be SO confusing sometimes!
Its typical of men to be so closed and myterious.
If i were in your situation i think i would just be honest with him, tell him how you feel. I know its not easy because theres always the risk of rejection but its the only way you will be able to start an honest, trusting relationship.
Ask him how he feels, it sounds to me that he does like you but doesnt want to put himself out there in case you see him only as a friend.
This guy must value your friendship, so dont be afraid to be honest, because whatever happens, im sure your freindship will remain strong.
Rachel X
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