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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know if I want him, or want to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I work with a really nice gut we have a lot of things in common and we get on great.But I'm unsure if I actually like him or not..? We mess around and are often tickling or poking each other and have great chats together.I think I might just lik...

Am I scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I am a 42 year old woman and I am panicking because I think I might be a commitment phobe. Here's a little bit of background. Two years ago I came to London to enrol for a post graduate MA in art. I managed to get a place in a very good art co...

He's moving away for school, can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our friends ...

I gave him my number, but lost it.. followed me to get it again..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i met a guy when i went out. we got talking he seemed really nice, good looking, hes at uni.. we got talking he seemed friendly and has good sense of humour. we were waiting for my bus, then when the bus was coming he asked for my number.. i gave ...

My friend has an old friend she likes...she doesn't want to ruin the relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - I got this female friend, in her mid 20s. She and this guy are old friends and now she likes him, except she doesn't know how to start a relationship without risking their friendship. She always said she wanted a guy to be stronger/more do...

Is 3 weeks too soon to be in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid me and my boyfried have been going out for 3 weeks im really sure i love him and he tells me he loves me too, does it sound to fast to be in love?...

Does my best friend fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Well, basically, theres this lad in my class who me (and like 50 million other girls) fancy. I don't know whether to ask him out or not though! I'm not the type of person AT ALL to just go out with like anyone, and neither is he, in fact ive neve...

I think I'm falling for my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - So, here's the situation. I have been dating my current bf for a year and a half. He's such a great boyfriend and he treats me really well and I do love him. But, me and this guy, who I've known for about a year started getting close about ...

What should I do to keep things going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i've been going out with a boy for 3 weeks now but sometimes we run out of things to talk about. what should i do to keep things going?...

I want to ask this guy out?

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6 November 2009 (F) - i want to ask this boy out that goes my skool, i barely know him but i do know i love im i see him and i loose the ability to speak or move i really wanna go out with him, i need something i can use to connect with him all i know is he is really ...

I'll get straight to the point, why don't guys want to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hi there - I'll get straight to the point... why don't guys want to date me? Where do I go wrong? I have been rejected by the last 4 guys I have liked and have never had a serious relationship. i wouldn't say i'm shy but i'm not the most outgoing...

How to make this situation better, how to explain where he understands?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have an ongoing problem and I can't deal with it at all! I was going out with a guy for a year: and he was great and I was happy with him. One weekend things took a different turn - all of a sudden I started feeling bad about him. Loss of attra...

What can I do to impress him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I've just started uni, and really like a lad, who I haven't even spoken to yet. I've just heard him speak in the class etc, and he is really gorgeous. I know that he may not be what he seems because I've not even spoken to him yet, and I'm wiling to ...

He says he still loves me. Is it possible he might come back to me someday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I was with this guy for about 9 months. You could call our relationship unoffically exclusive because, even though he loved me and wanted to be with me, I wasn't ready for the commitment (for various reasons which I've worked through). He ended ...

I broke up with him and now I realize how much I loved him and want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hello! I am new to this site. I am hoping that someone would advise me on what to do. I have been dating this guy since a year. I have known him since 6 years. We have many common friends and I know a lot of his cousins. Everything was a...

Theres a possibility of getting back together this weekend but I'm scared. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Me and my ex split up about 5 months ago and my feelings for him never ended and I thought he just had no feelings for me at all! You see the reason why he ended it is because we didn't see each other much and so in those 5 months of us being apart ...

She has broken contact with me...how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - (Mod note: Name has been hidden to protect privacy) so theres this girl. wwe have like eachother since the 7th grade. i love her. we got intamate twice. and then we had sex. all this was happening wile she was with other people. i have had sex ...

Help me please...I don't want to break his heart but I am not ready to settle down. I want to experience life! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 months now and when I got with him I thought I really liked him. He allways liked me before we got together anyways, and hes such a nice guy who has allot of respect and allot of asperations in life. So I ...

My girlfriend refuses to kiss me...and I don't know why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Dear cupid me and my girlfriend have been dating she refuses to kiss me i don't know why and she hangs around too many guys what should i do and she always puts upa fight about my ex-girlfriend ps reply zuko ...

Does this guy like me or am I over thinking this? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I feel this guy likes me, and I am scared to go talk to him again. He stares at me a lot and tries to have eye contact. He'll go out of his way to walk by me or tries to get my attention when I don't see him. I'm not sure if i'm reading the wrong ...

We both have commitment issues, but is it still worth the risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - So, I started fooling with this boy and things got serious. I've always had commitment issues. So has he. His stems from cheating and mine from a fear of intimacy in any form. Even though feelings developed on my part; it was never mentioned and I ...

Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (?) - I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...

Should I see my ex and finally find out if this is real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I got married last year, no babies yet... One day I looked for my ex on facebook, and happened to find him. I sent him a message and he responded back... we've been chatting since then. I don't know why I looked for him, he was my high school bf and ...

I am thinking bad things about him, what do I do to erase it from my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i love this guy very much that every time i think of him i cry.. he has told me that am madam boss but i find it hard to believe. he also told me that he loves me and that if i do not know i should know its true he loves me.. the thing is am scared ...

Do you think we should continue this LDR? How to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i am involved with a wonderful guy who is 21.I am 33 and the age gap doesnt seem to be a problem at all but the distance does i'm from england and he is in california i just wait for the time when we can be together for always. Do you think we...

Is this older man playing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...

Will I always be alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I'm beginning to get quite down on myself. It's been a long time since I've had a relationship. I'm not giving up hope on finding that someone, it's just the advice I keep getting from friends seems so contradictory. For instance, everyo...

How long should I date someone before expecting a kiss or more...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I just wanted to know how long after dating someone in high school should I try to kiss them. Also How long after going out should I start hinting about sex. You know? Like indicating that we should. Not saying thats what I'm out ...

My past tells me to be cautious

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I posted previously about this attached guy who is flirting with me. So a little update, he isn't with this girl, they are actually separated at the time. So, heres my problem. I really like this guy. We talk everyday, all day. I'm getting really c...

Could he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - i am 13 years old and there is this guy i really like i think its possible he likes me but i am way to scared to ask him he is 14...

Are they setting me up for something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - Hello. please don't judge me until you read it till the end.it may sound silly and just lame teens thing,but its not ,please take the time to read it and help me. I'm 16 years old and when i was 13 my family moved to another state .it was ha...

She stood me up. Does this mean she's not that into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 November 2009 (M) - There was this girl who i worked with for a few months, she had a boyfriend at the time but we had a good friendship always having fun working with each other, she quit a few months later and she stopped talking/txting me for a while, but she came ...

Can two introverts date and have a successful relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 November 2009 (F) - I have a question for anybody that would like to add their opinion.Can two introverts date and have a succesful relationship? I ask because I know that I,for the most part,have an introverted personality.Im usually lost in my own thoughts,or ...