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writes:Heyy all! I come to this site often, the advice is always amazing. So here i am, back again!Well im 17 and in college doing my A levels, in august i broke up with my boyfriend of nearly two years as he was abusive and basically i felt i couldnt keep showing the love for both of us any longer. Must be said, the best thing i ever did was get rid of him. But the only way i got rid of him, was i met a new boy, lets just say he had the whole college with there mouths wide open when he walked in on his first day. Thats when i saw that there was better out there, and gained the confidence too leave my ex. The only problem is that this boy liked another girl but she had a boyfriend and still does so he left it. I think he's over her now. Now im confused about the signs that he's giving me, im in all of his classes, so we see each other most days. I personally dont think that he likes me at all, but then when i tell an outsider they always seem to think that there might be something there. So here is how it is.He speaks to me on msn, but its never hello, how are you? Its always into a direct question, about something. But then i refuse to speak to him first, and if i give in, i wont say hello, il ask him a question about the work or something random. Is he the same as me and refuses to speak first? He doesnt seem that type though.He asks me to go on cam, and he'l go on cam. Surely he cant think im that bad looking if he wants to see me outside school? He has the most amazing six pack, and when he asked me to go on cam the other day, he had positined the cam so you could see the whole of his body aswell as his face. But then it sometimes seems as if hes on cam to other people aswell.He asks what i think about his appearence, and what he should wear and things. The whole time im thinking you dont like me, so why should you care what i think.He comes and sits by me in my classes, and asks me to listen to these songs he's got and see what i think, and a couple of times ive caught him staring at me. If where not next to each other we always seem to be making eye contact.But then he does all of this, and then some nights we wont even speak to each other. Not once. Im dying to speak to him, but im just too stubborn. We also had a 'heart to heart' when he used to like the other girl, and he said that she was the only girl he liked in the school, and that with his last girlfriend he texted her constantly until she wanted to go out with him. He doesnt do this with me- not at all.The one major thing though is he DOESNT know that i like him, i havent told him. My best friend thinks i should tell him, so he knows and then atleast ive tried my best. But i dont want to make a fool out of myself.Guys i need some serious help, a point in the right direction! Thankyouu in advance xxx
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reader, domybest +, writes (28 November 2009):
Tbh it could be yes or it could be no. Here's what I think...Yes he likes you, he didn't know you when he first started, hence why he said the other girl was the only girl he liked. Now whilst talkin to u he realises that he does like u... But here's my no...No he doesn't like you, he does as a friend, but the only reason he talks on cam etc is because he can't get this other girl. Is he gunna turn round when she is single and forget all about u? And u think he's on cam to other people? He sounds like he could be a bit of a player, given that u said he left everyones mouths open when they first saw him. He's probably very aware of his appearance and will use this to get girls...The solution, talk to him. The only way ur gunna find out is by askin him. There's no point tryin to read signs because men are men and they usually do things without thinkin, they don't look for signs so they aren't gunna throw any signs out there.Tell him u like him and wait for his reply. Say to him that ur not lookin for anythin to happen if its not mutual but u just wanted to put it out there that u do have feelings for him, incase he does too.Good luck!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Well, if there's a lot of eye contact then something could happen. Although he may not be into you as much as the other girls in his past.
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