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Dating: Help and advice

Is he lying or is does he just want to get my attention again by hurting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - When I discovered that my boyfriend was cheating on me, I became a bitch and decided to talk to guys he prohibited me to talk to. It made him even angrier when I told him I don't care anymore if he leaves me for the other girl, I said I was fine ...

My LDR didn't work out, but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm 28 years old and during the past 10 years I've never been single... until now. In August I broke up with my boyfriend, with whom I had gone out for 2 years. I made the decision because I fell for someone else. The thing is, this guy lives v...

What should I get my boyfriend for Hannukah?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been "going out" for almost 10 months. I know that he's getting me something for Christmas and that I'll really like it. We're both 13. What should I get him for Hannukah? He's Jewish and I'm Christian. I want to get ...

I'm really excited about this new guy, but suddenly he seems distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I broke up with my ex back in March and we havent been on speaking terms at all for the last couple months (we decided that we cant be friends right now because it would always be more, and he had a new gf) he broke my heart but i am ove...

How do I convince my older co-worker that the age difference isn't a big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I prefer the companionship of older women. I firmly believe an older woman and a younger man can have a true lasting relationship. I'm 22 i fell in love with a 46 year old coworker. The woman is an angel. I have strong feelings for her and she for ...

How is the best way to handle her text messages?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a ...

Should I tell my gf what I'm thinking about the other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I had an "emotional" affair which didn't involve any sex but did involve me falling head-over-heals for the other woman. I'm well aware I'm a bastard for doing what I did, but I still need help. The other woman and I discussed things and decided ...

How do I know she's telling me the truth and that nothing else happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met here but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in love i came to know a...

I'm scared to give him a hand job in case I do it wrong!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and i've only ever kissed and made out with guys. I'm now going out with this guy who's 18 and more experienced and i want to give him a hand job, but i dont know how to do it and i'm scared he might judge me if i do it wrong. Should i tell ...

My girlfriend, my "friend" and I...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - so i love my girlfriend we've been goin out for 6 months n its been great...the problem is i lost a friend because of it well this is the story when i met her she had a boyfriend we talked and talked for hours we became really close friends my frien...

Help! I don't know if I want to be in this relationship any more... I'm so confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months and we've been having some issues recently. Our relationship has been really intense from the start and in all honesty I believe this is the most serious relationship he's ever had. His last long term gf was 3 year ...

I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...

We are going to portugal so I can meet his family, but I am nervous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - me and my boyfriend we are madly in love everything is going smoothly. he is now planning to go to his country(portugal) so i can meet his family. i am so scared and i dnt know wat to do. im suppose to tell my family that i am going to a trip with ...

My girlfriend's texts to her ex-boyfriend confuse me. Is she cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 10 months and I have go through some serious issues - her manipulative ex disrupting things to begin with, big age gap, medical problem meaning no sex for months, meeting my kids. We've joked about how the things we've go through ...

How would I date an amputee without making him feel uncomfortable?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I moved into a new place and caught a glimpse of a guy who is lives few blocks away. I was very drawn to him. Only on the fourth time i saw him completely to realise he didn't have an arm. I was shattered! i was hurt and felt like throwing up. I ...

My best friend is dating a boy I have a crush on. I am SO confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they are not...

Did my ex-boyfriend lead me on or did he change his mind after we saw each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Why does it seem like ex-boyfriends like to give you the idea that they want to get back together, that they miss you, and when you finally meet up and have a great time, they completely disappear? is it something he is doing on purpose? to lead...

Is it normal to blush everytime you see a cute guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - hi, i just have a question. is it normal for girls to like several guys at once. well not excactly like but think they look hot or something, because everytime i see a cute guy, i totally blush everytime i see him (like at school) is this normal...

How can I overcome my inhibitions and keep my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we ...

How can we be honest with my brother AND gain his support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I recently have developed feelings for my older brothers best friend. I am 28 and he is 38. We've known each other for 5 years and he has admitted he has feelings for me also. For about a month now we have been having a secret relationship behind ...

My friend kissed my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hello i have a big problem, i've been going out with this girl for a month, and i love her though its embarrassing to admit. See everything was going well until we started having arguements. one time we didnt speak for three days but eventual...

Does he love me or is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - hi i've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months. everything seemed to be going really well. It seemed as if we both liked each other but I noticed that he seemed a little distracted with his phone, he seemed to be always texting someone ...

My wife cheated and I suggested she give herself space to think. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My wife has been having major stress at work and endinced working closely with a guy on a particular project for several weeks and during this time ive been working away for most of it, She has now told me she theyve slept together and thinks she ...

Lost my girlfriend.... but should I keep her as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - 18 months ago I fell in love. I'm 31 now. The sad thing is, this is my first real relationship. She was the first person who ever saw past my weight, etc, and gave me a chance. This is probably because I got to know her, and she got to know me, for ...

Sexting boyfriend's best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend Ray for 5 1/2 years, we live together but during this time I have fancied one of his best friends (Deryk). I thought I got over him until he started to tell me one drunken night (we were both drunk) that he was mast...

Should I go back or move forward in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I think i may still be in love with my high teacher. For some reason its like i cant move on and go through college without feeling like something is missing. I am not the type of girl that will cry over this or be depressed i just want to go back ...

Why do guys say I'm not attractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi SO what to do! I have been told in my ols school i am really pretty and was popular and had many bf but know if we play spin the bottle no guy wants to kiss me. Ok not true they do but WHY do guys say I am not attractive? When I used to get ...

How can I learn to communicate better with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I recently started going out (i think...!) with one of my very good friends, and I guess that means things are changing (obviously and hopefully). I (surprisingly, as I'm a girl) have lots of trouble talking, like properly TALKING about fe...

I would already be engaged to her if it wasnt for her past! How do I overcome this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I'll try to keep it short. In June 07 I met a girl at a party and ending up sleeping with her that night. Both of us were sober. For the rest of the summer we hooked up here and there - f buddies. About a month after we first met my good friend told ...

Did she shoot me down or should I ask again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - Hello, There is this girl I have been talking to in and out of class for the past few weeks (I'd say about a month and a half), and tonight I decided that I would finally call her and ask her out (I had already gotten her number about 2 weeks ag...

Does she like me as a friend or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I met this girl about 3 months back through a mutual friend. Went on a few dates and i thought things seemed to go well. Then one night we went out for drinks and i ended up spending the night at her place and we hooked up (no sex). Another t...

The new guy seems suddenly distant. Did my ex say something about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

I really think he likes me but I'm not sure what he's waiting for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I've caught him staring at me in class I'll look at someone in the back where he is and he'll look in the direction I'm in When we were hanging out once he kept bumping into me and blamed it on me He's paid for my lunch and movie tickets a few ...

Should I take charge and tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok so There is this guy that I cant seem to get out of my head. I recently broke up with my bf of 3 years. I am trying to date again, but i just cant. all i can seem to think about is this other guy. This guy was my ex bf's friend. But they are no ...

I want to call her, but I'm nervous. Got any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4750 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've known this girl for about two months and I really like her. I met her at a school club, and I got to talk to her a few times. I'm pretty sure she likes me since she keeps looking at me from a distance and when I look back, she quickly ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my ex raping me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Should I tell my bf, that my ex bf raped me during my relationship with my ex? I dont know if I should tell him or not. I am afraid of how he will react. At the same time, I also believe that because we are partners we should tell each other ...