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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having ...

When is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ok, pretty simple question. I've been seeing this new guy for nearly a month. For about 2 weeks it's been getting serious. We are together almost every night when we both get off work. He never makes plans without me and I always invite him to ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

I am a freshman and he is a senior. and I think I'm falling for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am a freshman and he is a senior. and i think im falling for him... he is great and is always by me; hugging me, touching me. but he has a gf... what shuld i do?? i think im falling hard...

Is there a chance that good friends can become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - I've been really good friends with a girl for about 6 months now but i've always had a little more for her that she doesn't know about, she's just broken up from a long term relationship and i've seen her alot more but i'm afraid we're too good ...

Does it mean he does fancy me or doesnt...........?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i was chatting with this guy i really like. we are good friends. he sort of appears outgoing but is actually quite shy especially with women. i,ve known him ages and he has never had a girlfriend. (he's not gay) we were recently joking about what is ...

How can I be more interesting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social ...

Is it unhealthy to love someone this much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am absolutely in love with my boyfriend we have been together almost two years now. I am still very attracted to him, we have great sex and I can tell him everything. We have this relationship where we can tell each other how we rea...

It's been a year. How do I get him out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I spent an amazing day with a guy that I really liked. He now has a different girlfriend (not me). I went and saw a movie with him a on 11/22/08 a year ago from today. I can't stop thinking of him. He's always on my mind. I've tried moving on but he ...

What can I get my Navy man for xmas...having a hard time thinking of something! Help!

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22 November 2009 (F) - hey all i apologise that this is totally the wrong site for this i just need a lil help if you dont mind please :) as you all no, its comng up to christmas, im finding it hard to think of soething i could get my boyfriend for christmas.. we have ...

Now I feel like my body is ugly, how do I deal with his comments about my body?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I were watching TV. There was this movie where a guy was watching porn, and they showed the porn star a lot, with her huge boobs all over the place. I kind of got upset, but said nothing, yet my boyfriend picked up on it ...

Can anyone shed some light on this? I don't understand why he DOESN'T want to break up...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend of 6 months recently told me he needed space because he said our relationship was moving too fast which was his fault. However he cheated on me with my best freind and another girl which before he was trying to hide he was talking ...

Sex with my girlfriend really bothers her as she says it's wrong. How can I change her attitude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about 3 months now, she says it really bothers her to have sex with me because she knows it is wrong and this is the only reason why she says... I really do love her but this is now going to seeam to me ...

I want my boyfriend AND my friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i have lived and been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years. in about the last few months i have developed feelings for one of my close friends. i have tried to forget about it, but just recently i have fallen in love with my friend. ...

Courtney? Or Emma?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (?) - Alright, so here's the dealio: I've got two options. I've got the girl I'm dating now, "Courtney". Now it's all find and dandy and we've almost been dating 3 monthes. Also I took her v-card, and we used the "L" word. But it's just recently come ...

Should I call her or not? I don't know what to do! Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - I met this girl 1 and a half years ago...she was going out with some one else but i developed feelings for her...we both became very good friends and she knew that i had feelings for her..she was having a lot of problems with her boyfriend because ...

I love him, but I find him ugly at the same time. What is wrong with me? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have a history with this guy and I've never stop loving him. Its been approximate 2 years that I've loved him none stop even though there's been parts where I've hated him. I went through a period where I couldn't stand him but whatever ...

How do I attract me in my forties!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have asked for a lot of help over the last few months. I was the one who dated a man, who was very obese, and broke up because of is ED problem. We got along well during our dating except for that. He didn't mention love, but told...

Will I ever date again, even though I'm virtually bankrupt?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm wondering will i ever be with anyone ever again why ? well I've recently broken up with my ex and for the last 6 years hes got me into so much debt I've had to virtually go bankrupt. I'm very scared because although being with someone isn'...

I can't get over our breakup, I don't know what to do. Please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (?) - Dear aunts, I'm 16 and my now ex bf was 18 (just to put it out there) we broke up about a month ago now... even tho it feels like it was yesterday. im so depressed. i keep putting on a fake smile, trying to act like im fine without him, but im not. ...

We go to tea, but i'd like it to be more. How do I tell him? Advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I am interested in a co worker very much but not sure if he is just being nice to me? We have gone to lunch a few times casually its just lunch and tea---- but he DOES go with me when I invite him. However its always my initiative.......I'm not sure ...

She doesn't seem to want me as much now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Im in a new relationship (my first proper one). Im 22 and lost my virginity to her, every thing seems good but when we go to bed shes always tierd and i have a very high sex drive. We were having sex most weekends when we were together but now we ...

Happend so quick, it's hard to comprehend! . . . Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello. Ok so i need some guy advice people!! I started being friends with a guy a year ago... We tried going on dated for a few months and flirted... And you know those looong profound conversations on the phone. Yep, We had those. And we always...

My fiancee is not pulling his share of the load!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - My partner is not supporting me, not easy to talk to about domestic issues and is not pulling his weight, how should i approach him about this? Me and my fiance have been together for almost 4 years and have a sixth month baby. We rent a house and...

Stuck in the middle between mum and my fiance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - my fiance and i have been together just over 1 year. we bought a house after 7mths together, got engaged about 3mths after that, and we wanna get married next june. He's 43 in december and i am 27. We love each other very much and are soulmates. ...

I asked him to move in with me to save money but the conversation went nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has stayed a my house every night now for the last 2 months. At the moment he rents a room in a shared house although he only gets a shower there then he's straight over to mine. As neither of us have much spare cash, I ...

Was my ex just using me for money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - im so hurt about this i really need your wonderful advice please i split with my ex this year after 6 years-during this time i have helped him out majorly financially it got to the stage where i felt this was all he was with me for as he never ...

I want to call her but she has a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Ok so I went to a party the other weekend and met this girl. Her and her boyfriend were fighting and she asked me if I would drive her home and I ended up sleeping with her and we talked for a while and I felt a connection with her. We both said ...

I think she's losing interest and just used me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I think my girlfriend is losing interest in me. We've been together for 7 months, at first we were really close. She knows everything about me, she used to send me sweet texts before I went to sleep every night. She's amazing, I love her more than ...

Have a b/f but thinking of another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half and love him so much, but we do have our fair share of communication problems and recently he hasn't been spending much time with me. I've told him many times how I feel and he keeps ...

He blew me off and went back to his ex. Whats up with this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for one year who was in the process of a divorce which he filed. He was married at a young age and for thirty years,with two grown children and grandchildren. His wife would leave for months at a time and with other men. ...

Stuck on her sexual past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Im 18 shes 17. Okay. So this may sound stupid to most of you. But hear me out. Me and my g/f has ben datin 4 almost 6 months now. She has 13 sexual partners she first claimed 4 were rape but has sense came clean to only one being rape. While i ...

Texting another girl but says I'm just being jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - about a month ago i found online messages from my boyfriend to another girl who he goes to college with they were very flirty and suggestive if you know what i mean. We have been together over a year and a half and i love him so much. i spoke to him ...

What does this message mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - what is this suppose to mean: i have been dating a girl 25 who who had been through 2 successive bad relationships.my intentions were if i could understand what went wrong in the past, i could possibly win her love over.she sent me a mail the other...

Dating 2 married men, not sure what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i need to make a decision i have been seeing this married man for bout 10 months, he did say he was having a hard time at home at the beginning it felt rite but during the relationship i started feeling guilty, and we kept ending it then been ...

Am I trying for something that is unachievable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - There is this girl that I like. We have hung out a few times and it has been pretty great. The only thing is that we are pretty different. We are both in college and it just occurred to me that we are rather different. She takes liberal arts cla...

I kissed two guys in one night. Does that ruin my chances with one of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy who's a few years older than me, and we hung out once and he seems pretty cool. we both went to the club with different people but we ended up talking that night and when we were dancing he kissed me. i kissed him back to a bit i ...

He loses his erection quickly now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello Guys, Iam just curious. what makes guys hard their penis? and when their penis getting harder, does it mean that they take a pleasure? what is that mean supposed to be? I have a bf and untill last week when we kissed , his penis was always...

How do I gain more confidence with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 3 months and i have not got any confidence around him what so ever, I really want 2 make the effort. How could i turn him on so he want to come onto me? Also have you any ideas that will help gain my confidence? Please...

Bf has had a lot of girlfriends and one night stands... how do I get over his past... or should I not even get involved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello. I need some advice. I just started seeing this guy, I mean, we've been on a few dates and seem to get along very well. However he's self confessed to having had a lot of girlfriends, and a lot of one night stands. He's 28. My question is ...

What movies are good to go too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hey People!!! this is just a weird question but...i know everyone loves movies and i was just wondering.... do you think movies have been bad lately...(well suckish...you know)and... if you could produce a movie what would it be about??...

How do I get her to fall back in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - The woman i grew up with and was to get married to broke up with me years ago. 2 yrs ago we got back in touch and we both admitted we still love each other. But the last 2 yrs all the guys she tried to meet just use her and degrade her. When i asked ...

How do inform my friends and family I'm living with a new man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 27 yrs old and I ended my 5 yr marriage 8 months ago. My family loved my ex husband and were upset that we're getting a divorce. We have 2 children a 4 yr old and a 2 yr old who live with me but he sees on weekends. We decided to end our ...

I want sex from him all the time now.

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22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and i have sex a lot. Is this a bad thing? I really like it but sometimes i wish i wouldve lost my virginity when i was older. Now i just want to do it, now that im not scared and i know how good it is. I have an amazing boyfriend that i...