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Archived questions from: 20 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend has become distant, is she using me, or am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - My Gf has started being a little distant, she dosen't seem to think so, she has also started saying sex is just the same as it always is when she always used to look forward to it, shes been very hot and cold in attitude towards me. today she said ...

I don't want a relationship but a one night stand might be ok, how do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy who I dated best friend of him I desire him so much we were just friend at the beginning but some emotional reactions started and he ran away I am thinking it is because of his best friend that he doesn't want to be in a ...

Will expanding our sex life to include other people help or hinder our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I are wanting to try something in our sex life that he is interested in having sex in front of another couple with no touching and no swapping partners which is what i want but i have a slight doubt. I'm afraid that maybe he will be ...

Why do guys like to smell a girl's hair!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and i was wondering why guys smell girls' hair. I was hanging with one of my guy friends and we hugged and he picked me up and i could tell he smelled my hair. i heard it means the guy likes you. is it true? ...

Should I tell him how I'm feeling or just ignore it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship that seems to be one sided at times. It's been 3 months since we saw each other and almost a month since we spoke. I decided not to call him and see what happens but I now feel like I'm a burden to him. I have con...

Am I a slut?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...

What do you aunts think? Does he still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Before i met my boyfriend he had a female friend whom he was proposing to bit she preferred to be friends. They were very close and did everything that lovers do except for sex(so he says). After we got together he told her about me and she was ...

The ex or the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Tonight I have set up a date with a person I met online approx 3 weeks ago..We hit it off via phone and we text when we have time. He has his own business so he works long hours, but he finds time to date. He is looking for that special woman......

I'm going out with someone new but I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Ok well I have posted a lot about a guy and its been over for a while now but I met this really good guy and he treats me like I deserve but I still feel that I really was in love with the last one. And real love doesn't come every day. I'm not ...

Should I come clean and tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...

I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...

I can't see a future with her, but I'm torn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I started seeing this girl who I have known since high school but we have been out of touch for about 12 years. She is a single mother and from the beginning I didn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. But I always liked her and still decided ...

He slept with me even though he had an STD but I still like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro ...