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Archived questions from: 27 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I too demanding or am I stuck in a boring relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years. Like with most couples, the first months of it went by smoothly. But lately, I'm starting to feel a bored with my relationship. I go to school full-time so I don't get to see him during th...

Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and ...

My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he compl...

How do I know I'm not just a rebound?

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27 November 2009 (F) - I recently started dating a man who lives 6-7 hours away from me. We met over the summer in my city when we were both in the same month-long professional development program. He is funny and flirty, but he's like that with everyone. I developed a ...

She is the love of my life and the air that I breathe... how can I get her back permanently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating this woman on and on for the past 12 years. She is also the mother of our 3 Children. Back in 06, She cheated on my with the guy across the street from our house while I was at work. I found out about it a couple of months ...

The distance isn't working out and he wants to break up with me but I just can't do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. ...

I feel he is too old for me... should I end it with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've been married for 20 years. He didn't treat me right. All I enjoyed was what my husband could provide for me (everything.) I just focussed on bringing up my only daughter. At forty something I finally gathered my courage and ended my miser...

First Christmas together, What do you get a boyfriend when your 5 months pregnant and lingerie doesn't fit the best?

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27 November 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months now, we are planning on getting married in the next 2 years. On top of that I am 5 months pregnant with our first child. This Christmas will be our first together, and I have no idea what to ...

Totally confused with two girls... eughhh!!!!

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27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for two years now. My girlfriend have been through several ups and downs. Not to sound cocky but I have a thing for pleasing girls who have been hurt in a relationship. For a true example at school there is...

I faced my fear and gave him oral but I couldn't handle it if he came anywhere near my face...

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27 November 2009 (F) - Ok this might seem like a weird question but here goes - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We have a 3 month old daughter together. I had never ever given oral sex before i had met him to anybody (fear). I faced this fear recently ...

How dare he try to dictate her life!

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27 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I met 4 months ago and are totally in love. Her husband left her for another woman 1 year ago and their divorce is in progress. Unusually, my gf is on very good terms with her in-laws (she's known them 26 years). The in-laws don'...

He wanted me to take the job and now he doesn't trust me!

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27 November 2009 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend are together for 2 years and at first everything was perfect but after like 5 months he asked me to go and try to go dancing at the strip club, so I was thinking about that and went. I work there for 1 year and right now at ...

Hey!!! Is there still a chance I'm pregnant???

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27 November 2009 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby for a while now. We had sex during my ovulation period and my period was 10 days late naturally I thought I was pregnant. My question is once your period comes does it for certain mean you are not ...

He still tells me he loves me even though he has a new gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year broke up 3 months ago due to him having feelings for another girl.he is now seeing her but still texts me every day and tells me he loves me.why would he do this??...

To stalk the girls at his school, or to be miserable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - so... here's my story. i like this guy. i'v known him since i was 6. we were best friends. and he lives more than 90 miles away. in 6th grade i went out with him a few times. and for the past two years i've been sad, depressed, and obsessed ove...

Long distance relationship, I'm not sure if it's working! what should I do?

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27 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years now and it only worked out 'cause ever since we started dating, i've been doing every thing he wants. For example, in the first year that we were together, he was insecure and didn't trust ...

Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?

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27 November 2009 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more l...

Quick advice needed - how do I handle our date tonight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - advice needed asap!!! ok here goes iv recently posted a question about why my man is ignoring me .... the thing is im going to see him tonight. well im hoping hes out. what i want to know is how to handle my situation. what can i say withou...

Kissed at a party, how to talk to her without freaking her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I posted this question a little while back but it didnt get answered, so here it is again: Hey all... heres the thing, i got with this girl at a party last weekend. Nothing major really, was all over her for most of the evening, you know just "...

Is she thinking of someone else or can I just not satisfy her?

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27 November 2009 (M) - After a nice day with my girfriend we where making out, I try to go down on her then she said don't do it if you don't want to, I said don't say anything and she said it again, so I'm thinking I don't satisfy her or her mind is on someone else. What ...

Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...

I would like to be together with him but how can I make this a reality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - The man i dated last year although he made clear that he wasn't interested for a committed relationship, this year he calls me sometimes to go out together. I usually accept to go out with him although i have told him in the past that i would like a ...

Why does he care if I have met someone when he was the one that rejected me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - okay so here is my situation..well a couple of months ago i got rejected by a guy that i really liked lets call him Vic..okay so after like a week that he rejected me he would still send me text messages everday asking me about my day and what i am ...

I'm obsessed with checking my girlfriend's page out on facebook... and don't like what I see

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27 November 2009 (M) - my gf, im obsessed with her, and she has a pic of another guy on facebook she's sayin that he is the hottest guy in the world, and some other guy that she likes is mentioned as well . help me dudes...

Split from husband and seeing a new man... but still in love with him

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27 November 2009 (F) - Her is the story long and true and I need help. I am 29 years old. My husband and I are currently seperated and have been since June. My husband and I had been together for 13 years. Married for 8 years. Well we had a very rouch relationship ...

Should I hold on, when my heart and mind say "let him go"

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27 November 2009 (F) - Thanks in advance for any help you may be offer on this. As is often the case, there is a depth to this story I can't write here solely for the reason that it will take up 100 pages! However, in a nutshell: I have been in a relationship for ...

Why does he want to see other women if he is seeing someone that makes him happy?

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27 November 2009 (F) - Theres this guy I am seeing and I am not too sure about what exactly he wants. I met him over a year ago at school. We didn't start to hang out and 'date' until 5 months later. My two previous relationships have been bad and I didn't feel like being ...

Is it weird that we don't talk on the phone?

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27 November 2009 (F) - iv just started dating this guy and hes my first ever boyfriend and kiss we text all the time and whenever we see each other at school we talk but we don't talk on the phone at first i thought that there was no problem with that but most...

What the hell is wrong with me?

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27 November 2009 (M) - please help me someone i am pushing my girlfriend away, because i am paranoid and insecure. i have been with my current partner for about 6 months now and she is the best thing to ever happen to me. my last 2 relationships were pretty volatile...

Is it real? Or just an illusion?

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27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, i'v been dateing my girlfriend for about 4-5 weeks. She seems like a really nice girl and she really looks like she loves me. She is always so sweet to me, and says stuff like "your the best boyfriend i ever had" and "your everything...