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female
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30-35,
*ou_xx
writes:I have liked this guy for over a year now and just recently he has began to show feelings towards me and many other people have been noticing. But the problem is is that he doesnt ever act on his feelings. It so hard to move on but i feel like we will never go anywhere. Should i wait for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): Reminds me of a fellow I know only too well at that age-me. Do him a huge favour and tell him you like him and want to go out with him. I was so worried I wouldn't measure up I didn't act even when she flirted with me.
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reader, savvy  +, writes (28 November 2009):
Is he a shy person? If so, then it is very possible that he likes you but can't get up the courage to tell you how he feels. If you hang out with him you should bring it up, and tell him how you feel but make sure it is an adult conversation, no whining to him or acting like you're needy. Tell him that you have feelings for him more than just friends but thats all you have to say, don't go into any more details because it could scare him, or turn him off.
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 Maybe you should start off acting on your own feelings, that way he'll start getting used to it, getting comfortable around you and maybe bring him out of his shell enough for him to display his own affections. =]
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