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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

We broke up over his emotional affair but I'm having a change of heart

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I can't get over my finace. I found out he was having emotional affair on Facebookand instead of talking he called our engavement off and wouldn't admit to this. ( I gave him space to think and told him if we were no longer together (2.5 years) then ...

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been...

He says I'm crazy because I'm bipolar!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Me and my husband have been married a little over a year. I found out he had been talking to someone else for over 4 months. He swears nothing is going on. He says i'm crazy because i'm bipolar and it's all in my head. He hardly ever wants to have ...

My girlfriend helps when things are rough financially, why cant I count on my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am a very frustrated husband. I may be the big reason for all of my problems because I am married and have a girlfriend that my wife does not know that I am still seeing. I met my girlfriend while driving over the road as a truck driver and she ...

How do we draw a line under this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I found out my fiancé had been going to massage parlours for massages and 'hand relief'. This is what he told me at first. I found out as he hadn't deleted messages from his sent box, arranging time and what address he had to go to and what he ...

How do I stop my habit of cheating with men behind my girlfriend's back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hi there, I have a girlfriend, she's just crazy about me and the problem i'm having is, when i'm with her i'm normal and when she's not with me i start flirting men. I had sex with men too. I know that i'm betraying her but all i wanna do is to g...

My FWB was hitting on my friend even though she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my fwb for more than two years. Recently we had our first time hanging out in public. We had been in this type of relationship as a secret so finally we were introduced. He had a little smirk going on and so did I but no one saw. W...

I had sex with my mom's partner!!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I did something really horrible and I don't know what to do. Basically I had sex with my mum partner and they been out with eachother for 8years. I'm only 18 myself and I don't know why it happend. I'm carrying so much guit with me all around ...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

What do married men think of women who are friends with his wife, but flirts with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What does a married man really think of a woman that flirts with him? What does he think of her character as a person? Does he really think he can trust someone like that? Especially if he sees that she is friendly with his wife? ...

I love her but her last lie may cost me my life. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, This is my first time writing, I'd really like some good advice with the situation I am in involving myself and my ex girlfriend/girlfriend - this I will explain below. There is so much to consider it will be difficult for me to ex...

Riddled with guilt, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am a 35 year old woman married for 3 years now. I had a lapse of judgement a few months ago and had an affair with a man in the town that I live in. I saw this man for three months and we were very sexually active. I broke it off after I thought ...

She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would ...

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult ...

Married and yet falling in love with my mistress....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I have been, I guess, just looking for someone I could talk to who might have experienced what I am going through. I have been married for 6 years. I always thought I was happily married, but I think I have just been content and maybe we are just...

He doesn't take me seriously that I want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - its been 5years since the day my partner promised me his love and loyaltys, were still together today and we have two beutifull children together but his loyalty to me left our lifes about a year ago when he choose to secretly to seek atention from ...

Did my cheating partner stay with me for me? or for the kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have recently found out that my partner had an affair for several months. My partner said that during this affair, they still loved me and always has and always will. The affair ended because the other person wanted a committment and my partner ...

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

He liked me until he met my sister. Is my reaction of feeling hurt and betrayed justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I like this guy and i was sure he liked me back... until he met my sister! We are complete opposite she is skinny and beautiful and i'm like the ugly duckling next to her. I had a birthday party and it was a very special to me because he was going ...

I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have mess...

Lusting after a work colleage, but worried about my marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am married for 22 years. Run my own business. Of late I am finding that I am constantly flirting with this particular male colleague and its getting more sexual in nature. He is very good looking, 13 years younger and married. He has played along ...

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acte...

I'm not sure whether to end this unhealthy relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Cant quite believe I’ve come to asking this sort of advice on a forum! I'm 27, I've mean with my bf 2 years now, living together but no kids, planning a life together etc etc. We've had a few problems which I’ll write about below; but basically w...

After dating for 3 years, I suspect my boyfriend is cheating! How do I approach him to ask if it's true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Do I or don’t I break up with my partner? We have been seeing each other for 3 years now and I suspect him of seeing some one else. How shall I approach him to ask him if it’s true? Help please!!!...

One night stand with married woman has left me fearful--her husband found out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - a month ago i had a one night stand with a woman i met at a bar. we exchanged info and she wrote me about how it was nice to feel good for a night outside of her bad marriage.. i didn't know she was married. i wrote her i couldnt be involved with a ...

He has a fiance, 4 kids and wants to sleep with me. Is it wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy online 3 months ago. I found out three weeks after we met, through FaceBook, that he has a "fiance," four kids and she's pregnant again. When I confronted him about it, he didn't deny it, however never speaks on it. And demands I don't ...

Ex boyfriend in jail keeps writing to me saying he's changed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Hi i have another question after my ex boyfriend doing all that messed up shit to me and now being in jail i havent talked to him or wrote to him but he has been writing me for months already telling me hes sorry and that he changed and he wants me ...

I caught my fiance sexting his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - I need help. i have no one to talk to. my fiancée texted his ex girlfriend, that cheated on him, saying he want to squirt a load in her. this is the second time i caught him saying sexual things to her. the texts where a year apart. he said that i ...

Moving on from an 18month relationship when he cheated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been together for 18 months, but we split around 4 months ago, as he cheated on me.. I've been trying to get over him by going out with my friends, listening to songs to make me hate him and it works at the time, but a while ...

We shared a bed, and we touched, but didn't go further. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - i'm 15 and have been single for about a year. Last week i went to a party at a mates house and because i had no way of getting home i stayed at his house and it was me and 5 other boys but we are all really good friends so it didn't bother me. I ...

We are both unfaithful and he asked me to marry him what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I am a gorgeous girl who never lacks male attention, however, one year ago I met a man who I started dating long distance. We are in love, or so we say. He has children, I also have 1 child. We both have been dating other people since about the 2nd ...

It makes me sick to think about my husband going on a work trip with a female co-worker. How do I cope?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I hate being jealous, but I don't know how to change! I absolutely admire people who never get jealous. How do they do it? My husband will be traveling out of town next month with a female co-worker and I'm trying to be cool about it, but it is ...

My partner has cheated on me, given me STD's, beaten me, and threatened me. I fear for the life of my children and I. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - How best do I sort the storm I feel I’m stuck in? I've been involved in a very strained on-again off-again relationship for nearly nine years. We have children together and I've also endured a miscarriage (as a result of a beating) to this man. ...

Husband cheated with multiple women...I am struggling and need input.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I found out almost 2 years ago my husband was on internet dating sites behind my back for 6 years and met with some of the women for sex. I am having a difficult time still trying to get past this. I've been to marriage counselling, personal ...

We're in financial trouble and have been offered money for sex, should we do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I am currently engaged and still studying, which means I don’t have much time to work. Money for us is quite tight between paying for our house and other expenses. My fiance had lunch with a man who we have known for a little while and brought ...

I love him but I need to let go, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend asked me for child and I told him I'm not ready for that. He went and got another girl pregnant that he said he was talking to but I assumed they are still together, I confronted both of them on three way for the man to choose he ...

Is flirting online a form of cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. Our arguments have always been about him flirting with women on Facebook or MySpace. Is that considered cheating if hes flirting online and he tells women he's single? ...

I've found out my husband has been having affairs for years, so many questions..........

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hi I have a few questions i would like your views on so please take the time and reply ty. A little about my situation. Iv been with my h/b for 32 yrs married for 22yrs every 1 thought we were the perfect couple until 3 yrs ago i found out that...

3 months ago I hadn’t looked at another women in 14 years, now all of a sudden we are planning on leaving our respective partners for each other!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Hi, so this is my story…been married 14 years, have two boys aged 12 and a daughter from wife’s previous relationship aged 20. I thought everything was fine and loved my wife until a couple of months ago, and I am now so confused. I met a girl 2 y...

I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...

How can I prove to him they were just friends so that he believes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hi me and my boyfriend were together for more than 6 months, he was the perfect guy and I know I cant find someone like him anymore. The other day he was looking through some pic on my phone just randomly. but I showed a reaction that he got ...

How can he go home and not feel guilty after being with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I just wonder why a man doesn't feel bad when he is cheating on his wife? I have been with a married man recently who claims he has no problems in his marriage, but he chooses to sleep with me. I know what some of you will say about me, but my ...

Was I her rebound or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I think I was a rebound. Here's my story. I ran into a girl I had met about 15 years ago. This was back in early December. I know her husband as well. So we start talking regularly on our blackberries. Nothing crazy just chat daily. ...

My boyfriend's brother plays footsie with me under the table. Is he flirting with me and how serious is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - How serious is footsie as a flirtation tool? My boyfriend's older brother keeps trying to play it with me under the table during dinner (and I'm usually sitting next to my boyfriend). Whilst I admit I have feelings for him (albeit, physical ones) ...

She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of...

He is cheating on me with a woman online, but still wants to be with me and have me doing all his chores!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - my fiance has been online cheating for at at least a month with some woman in another country they have shared i love you and he said she is special and listens where I supposedly failed to do and he says all I ever thought of was myself, i cooked ...

My girlfriend doesn't care about me either way. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex two years ago and she took it hard. It was a bad move because once I started going out with my ex again I realized that it was my girlfriend that I loved and not her. So i went bck to my girlfriend but she ...

Why is my married lover cooling off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i have had this "friends with benefits" for 4years now but he has been moving the relationship forward on an honest level the last year and a half too top that off i was pregnant 3 times the last pregnancy he seemed upset i didnt go through with the ...