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writes:i'm 15 and have been single for about a year. Last week i went to a party at a mates house and because i had no way of getting home i stayed at his house and it was me and 5 other boys but we are all really good friends so it didn't bother me. I ended up sharing a bed with a guy who i have known for ages and who is going out with one of my mates. Whilst trying to get to sleep we ended up getting really close and he started to touch me and trying to kiss me, nothing happened as i made a joke and moved away pretending i was really tired. But i have felt bad ever since even though nothing happened should i tell his girlfriend about this or is it better just to leave it? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 I actually agree with Caring Guy on this. I wouldn't tell. Nothing really happened and no matter what... you will look bad too, not just him.
Next time, tell him to find another couch to sleep on and keep his hands to himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): Yes, tell her. He should pay the full price of his behavior, and by not telling you are covering up for him, and I might add, becoming complicit in his behavior as you cover for him.
People hate to admit this, but when we see a robbery and we don't call the police, we do the same thing. Personal actions are no different.
Yah, there might be problems we have to deal with because of it, but so what. This behavior is why so many people can cheat for ages on their gf or spouse and get away with it for so long.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 February 2011):
Say nothing. At all. Whilst it would be nice for him to get what's coming to him, I think this will have a very negative impact on your reputation. Most likely, the girlfriend will blame you and everything will be twisted so it appears as if you were perusing him, and you are the problem.
In this world, and at your age, you need to pay attention to things that might affect your reputation. This is one of them. You shouldn't be in bed with a guy who has a girlfriend. That won't look good at all for anyone, especially you.
Remember, you have a reputation to think about, and decisions you make now will follow you around. No bed sharing with men who are taken, and no telling.
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