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*eace143
writes:I need help. i have no one to talk to. my fiancée texted his ex girlfriend, that cheated on him, saying he want to squirt a load in her. this is the second time i caught him saying sexual things to her. the texts where a year apart. he said that i caught him the only two times he had did that. we just had a baby thats 6 months (not to mention i look really good for kids). i thought we where strong. i have 2 wonderful children from a previous marriage. i feel used and humiliated. when i found out, i flipped out, and tried to beat the u now what out of him. i thought he had sex with her. but he says he didn't and wasn't planing on it. i feel bad for putting my hands on him but he ruined our family. he throws back at me what i did to him when i ask him anything. now i'm questioning our whole relationship. i need advice, please help.......
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reader, peace143 +, writes (26 February 2011):
peace143 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni hate how your you guys are right........ thank you. life is a trip, always ups and downs.... wonder whats next....
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (26 February 2011):
He deserved a frying pan over the head, in my opinion. The problem with "working it out" with someone like this is that you can't "work out" someone's character. They are who they are. You have to decide whether you want to deal with this on an ongoing basis, because I'm sorry to tell you but the odds are that this will happen in some way shape or form again.
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reader, peace143 +, writes (26 February 2011):
peace143 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni never wrote anything online before. thank you for the response... he is a very nice man and tried to take the part of the family man ( with my 2 other kids). they love him to death and not to mention i love him still after what he did. but at the same time, iam a strong women that just wants to share my live with someone that wants me and only me. relationships go through things, but is this grounds of leaving and having the kids jump around. i never picture my life like this before. i have 3 kids by different 2 men. that sounds bad. iam soooooooooo worth being with. im a very level headed person does everthing for my partner to make them happy. im pretty and he is not that attractive. dont want to sound stuck up, maybe this info cant give me more advice. i know im out to hear he's a loser and leave him. but is there such a thing as working it out????? thank you people for taking your time to read my problems : ) and me hitting him when i found out bad?????
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (26 February 2011):
Yeesh! Sorry, but this guy does not sound like marriage material to me. You're right to question your whole relationship. If I were you, I'd end it. Look at it as dodging a bullet. You don't want to have to deal with this crap in your life. Good luck to you and your children. You will find a good man. They are out there.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 February 2011):
Walk. He's sexting an EX - that is a major league bad sign. It means he's not over her.
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