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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

28 February 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathing and kissing noises. ... (143 words)

My LDR boyfriend is so loaded with work we don't have time to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello there! My LDR bf and I are usually quite close, and we try to text each other at least once - even if it is just a "Good Morning" message - but recently, I've noticed a change. We've been going out for quite a while now, and we keep either Saturdays or Sundays as our w... (334 words)

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex with other girls. On diffe... (184 words)

What is happening here? Neither my girlfriend nor I were virgins when we met. So why am I suddenly bothered that someone else before me had sex with her, before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2822 days ago

28 February 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I’m with my girlfriend since almost 3 years and none of us were virgins when we get together. For me non virginity is not a problem at all, but since 1 week the idea of someone other than me inside her started to pop up in my head. I love her from all my heart and I real... (76 words)

I like this guy. But he has also become friends on social media with a girl who has previously said bad things about me. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2812 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone I could use some advice It's a small world, definitely for me. I went for a pageant where my roommate wasn't such a good person. She accused me of stealing because all apple headphones look the same and I took her headphones by mistake. That ruined my im... (268 words)

Can anyone help me with the basics of starting afresh? I cheated on my fiancee. Then I confessed and he forgave me. My guilt is affecting my ability to go forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Aunts, I need your help. I had committed a major mistake of cheating on my fiancé with a married man. But I realised my mistake and owned up to it, confessed my fiancé and broke up with the married guy. He (my fiancé) has not been resentful, he loves me and we re... (143 words)

How do I make the next move? I'm scared of rejection but when I do meet a woman I don't know what to say to get her interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

28 February 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been single for a while now. i'm not looking for a relationship just yet but am looking for casual sex. Thing is, I'm quite shy. I like to flirt with women and find this happens often, I just don't know what to say to take it to the next step. I know I get attention... (196 words)

Is there a way to hint to a guy that you are not interested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I went on a few dates with a guy, but I just didn’t feel a connection with him. He seems so enthusiastic about our next date, but I don’t want to date him anymore. So is there a way I can hint to him that I’m no longer interested? ... (52 words)

How am I so bad with women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

28 February 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm at a place now where I'm rejected 100% of the time. It's mind boggling how awful I am at attracting women. They're put off my me almost immediately and if they're not, I get their number and they stop talking to me. It takes talent to be this bad with women lol. I've kissed ... (261 words)

My FWB grabbed me by the throat when I said I would find sex elsewhere!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now. We made it very clear we do not want a relationship with each other. It is just friend with benefits kind of thing. We are really good friends and we're not sleeping with anyone else. Last night we went out and got very drunk. ... (185 words)

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate him in bed, it would be about a... (367 words)

I am worried my boyfriend's new job means the end of our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 months. I'm very happy with him. He is consistently supportive and thoughtful and treats me so kindly and respectfully. He recently got a new job and it started today. His previous job didn't have much of a future for him t... (438 words)

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

28 February 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's been really romantic, we ... (133 words)

My boyfriend and I are in a good place, but his mother doesn't me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

28 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all. It might be a long one so I'm really sorry. I'll set te scene a little bit. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We are saving for a house but are both currently living with our parents. A while back (probably 6 months ago) we had a fairly big argument. He ... (461 words)

I'm worried my reaction means I am not over him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2821 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - I had a one year relationship. The guy was a jerk, and anyway we boke up. After not even seeing eaach other for like 3 months i suddenly see him on the road and i vomit. why does this happen? please tell me it's normal and that i don't still have feelings for him... (54 words)

Does anyone know of a "safe" or reasonably safe natural remedy that a man in his senior years could use as a stimulate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2797 days ago

27 February 2017 (M)

age - I am 87 years old. Periodically what testosterone I have,kicks in with a vengeance and I long for sex. Or even succeeding at masturbation. My main problem is ED. I have been tempted to try Viagra or Cialis but they are not effective for me. Some of the natural remedies may... (146 words)

What should I do? He told me that he "fell out of love" with me like a month ago and now it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fight friend have been friends for almost 2 years, 10 months ago he told me he wanted to date. When he first told me he liked me I was really nervous and not ready. I was young, immature, I had a lot of things going on in my life such as university, and a family h... (264 words)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relationship for 11 years (never lived t... (835 words)

My boyfriend appears to be attracted to transgender women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2813 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - A few weeks ago I noticed my boyfriend had sent a friend request to a young lady. When I went to her page her pics were mostly of her in sexy lingerie and telling all to visit her on webcam. I also noticed she had obvious breast implants and a body type that looked somewhat ... (240 words)

His family want us to marry, mine don't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I 'was' dating this guy for a little over two years. We have both met each other's families and all was well until last December when his family started asking him to get married. Now the problem is I am in my early 20s and he is in his late 20s, wi... (860 words)

Is my boyfriend being truthful about his parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2814 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three years now. He's currently in his forties. We broke up last year for about a month because he and I talked about getting married but then when we actually started trying to pick a date he told me his parents were not on board ... (310 words)

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2823 days ago

27 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were that I'll get heartbroken. So... (286 words)

Is it too soon to sleep with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I need your opinions and thank you in advance. I am 40 dating a guy who is 48 for 3 weeks. We have been on 16 dates already. I know it is too much with some standards but he is just head over heels for me and has told all his family and friends and he took me to a party where I ... (153 words)

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he didn't love me anymore. But I ... (540 words)

I'm scared to follow my dreams in case my past could be viewed as a scandal!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I married a man who is my mother's ex-boyfriend's younger brother. Let me explain. So my mother dated a guy for two years, ten+ years ago. I was 18/19 at the time. The man lived with us as a 'step-father'. I was never around due to college, a job, and social life. I called h... (673 words)

We both want to have sex but I'm not sure I am ready

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months and he has fingered me and I have given him a hand job. We've both considered having sex but I'm not sure if I'm ready. Sometimes I want to have sex and I feel confident but sometimes I get too scared I will get pregnant or get an ... (107 words)

Workplace problems... Did I deal with Jimmy in the right way? How do I handle the situation now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I've worked at 4 different job locations during my 8 years of working for this company. I've never really had "true friendship" with any of my co-workers because I was always the "new person" to join the facility. I came to this location about a year and a half ago and all ... (470 words)

Am I going through a mid-life crisis? I have everything going for me but I'm so unhappy and empty inside

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to get to the point- ever since I was 9 years old I have always wanted to be around people - I hate being alone and most people; the ones that know me well say that I'm never satisfied and I'm never happy. lately I feel like the rug has been pulled hnder me and life has ... (286 words)

Am I being paranoid or is this married guy trying to make a move on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this married guy I know, I always catch him looking at me then looking down when I catch him. I always got the impression he would actively try and avoid sitting next to me but he always sat straight across from me so he could see me. But more recently he has started to ... (243 words)

How should I deal with moving into an adult relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - There's this one boy who I have known since I was 4 and we've always been good friends and ever since we were about 15 we've been very flirty and make jokes about messing about with each other, sex and stuff like that. Last year he got together with one of my friends and lasted ... (188 words)

Date expressed a racial preference and it doesn't sit welll

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for the last few weeks. He fawns over me, is the harmless geeky sort, does everything for me like buy me flowers and get me coffee and text me constantly. He hit on me first and I was surprised he was so enthusiastic. I'm not even sure if I want a ... (269 words)

New man doesn't want me to go to fetish party

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age - I arranged to go to kinky, fetish-scene party while single but now have new boyfriend who doesn't want me to go. Am I being unreasonable still wanting to go, even though he doesn't like it, and is not into that. He thinks I will be looking for someone who shares the same fan... (58 words)

Can anything be saved in my marriage. If so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (M)

age - I need help.. my wife of 33 years has slept in separate room for 5 years.. she works but dosent contribute to mortgage, and all her income goes into her own bank. Mine goes into joint account, and she buys things out of this account. We have no physical intimacy. I do all ... (198 words)

He's not telling me the truth. Do I bail before it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now and we just stopped using condoms a month ago(we got tested first), a day ago I was at his place cleaning up and I found 2 condoms in his jeans,now I'm wondering who else he's sleeping with. I also found 2 pairs of ladies ... (115 words)

Dental hygene is holding me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2822 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Due to childhood problems, I have a major phobia of the dentist... and therefore never been... also due to those reason as problems, my dental hygiene is horrible :( I know it is! I am on track to sort them out. The problem is; I put off ever meeting guys who ask me ... (153 words)

I care my girl is letting herself go. How can I help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf been together 4 years. Over the years she has let herself go. I have been encouraging her to keep in shape for over a year. She has been lazy and eats junk all the time. I like to see her happy so if she likes eating, i don't say much. Apart from let's go do some ... (340 words)

I do not enjoy being 30 pounds overweight. How do I come to terms with the fact that the medication I must take is also making it much harder to lose weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - A combination of menopause and necessary medication is making it extremely hard for me to lose weight . The medication is actually what caused the weight gain and through working with my dr I did try alternatives but nothing else seemed to work for my chronic conditio... (123 words)

How can I stop comparing myself to everyone else? How can I become Assertive and less insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm single woman in my early thirties that on the outside most people would say (kind-generous -attractive- nice). My problem is - I'm very insecure ( I worked and work so much on outer appearance ) that I lack self confidence. I can't say no (even when I'm unhappy especial... (308 words)

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

26 February 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings have started to grow. ... (326 words)

I've had bad luck with women in the past, and now I'm wondering if this new girl is testing me or just playing games

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

25 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like some advice on what to do with a female I'm currently talking to. Ive had no luck in the past when it comes to relationships and have always ended up getting hurt, no fault of my own. I'm not a bad looking guy and can get dates, I decided to join a dating site, la... (173 words)

He's a handsome foreigner, twice-divorced, aged 60. But all is not well in the relationship. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

25 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I´m a single working mother of two. One is 13yo and the second 5yo. Six months ago I met a handsome foreigner twice-divorced aged 60. After 2 months, he came to live with us. He´s the first man to ever enter my household because I´ve always been wary. He has 4 child... (366 words)

I'm losing the love I used to have for my boyfriend. How do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

25 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, known him for four. Over the past month or so I've felt my feelings towards him just fade. When he text me I feel myself drain, when he holds me I feel a little uncomfortable, just little things like that have been popping ... (185 words)

Teen daughter does not believe me. In your opinion did I do something wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

25 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a single mother of two children. A girl who is 15 and a son who is 11 years old. We had a good life. We would take vacations and go back to our home country to visit every year. They both attend private Christian schools. Five years ago I divorced my husband because ... (328 words)

Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

24 February 2017 (M)

age 18-21 - I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online? We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I think that I need to ask her. Ho... (105 words)

How do I tell someone that their romantic feelings toward me are not mutual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

24 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm not into relationships at all, just casual stuff mainly. However, a guy I've recently been seeing thinks he's fallen in love with me and wants to be in a relationship. The issue is I can't bring myself to tell him that's not what I want. I'm friends with some of his closest ... (119 words)

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2822 days ago

24 February 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it something to do with her... (64 words)

We've dated for 4 years, but now she doesn't make an effort anymore. What could improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2819 days ago

24 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in between a rock and a hard place....I have a girlfriend of 4 years and I feel differently about our relationship to what I used to. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it but she doesn't want to listen! Nor talk...she is pretty closed when it comes to feelings... (682 words)

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2809 days ago

24 February 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the only physical stuff happened ... (133 words)

How much detail should I put in my online dating profile?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

24 February 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - I have cerebral palsy, I am not in a wheelchair but am a bit unsteady on my feet at times. I have got a dating profile on Match, should I include my disability on there?... (35 words)

We are not meeting so often and he is blaming his work!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

24 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Aunts! I've been seeing a guy for 2 months now. We used to talk throughout the day and text and meet often, but of late he initiates contact less. It's very frustrating when "Work has been very hectic" is the reply I receive as an explanation. I would like to ask ... (101 words)