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writes:I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online?We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I think that I need to ask her. However, I don't know if I want to ask her out online or in person as I myself am fearful to ask her in person, but I also fear that If I ask her online I won't make the right impression to her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 March 2017):
 Honestly it really is best to ask her out in person. I do understand it is scary. But you will make a much better impression. Good luck and let us know how you get on.
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reader, rasblak  +, writes (25 February 2017):
To keep this simple, in order of preference:
i) in person
ii) on the phone
iii) online
A relevant question you might want to consider when asking her out:
What are you asking her out for? *Whom* should you make it about when you go out?
Call me stupid, but at 14 years of age, I felt I wanted a girlfriend, yet I did not know the first thing about what I wanted a girlfriend for.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 February 2017):
 In person. Absolutely.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (25 February 2017):
 If you fear you will not make the right impression online I would ask her in person. Make it very light and casual so as not to spook her. Just something like, "Heh, fancy a coffee sometime?" or have a chat about a film you want to see. If she expresses interest in seeing it too, ask if she wants to go with you.
Good luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 February 2017):
 I'd ask her in person. No matter if she is shy or not.
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