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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I bring this up for discussion? It feels like he does not trust me anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I separated nearly a year ago due to my infidelity. We recently reconciled and moved back in together. I missed him so much and have grown up a lot over the separation. Although I couldn't be happier that we are getting a second chance, something is botherin... (142 words)

I'm not sure if she's into me romantically, or just friendly. How do I behave when we meet? What things do I mention? Don't want to scare her away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a freshman in college. I enrolled into an English class last minute, I was assigned an older professor, mid thirties. I get to the class and it's a young woman about 24 years old, the professor. I was supposed have dropped out. The minute I saw her I was in awe. I thoug... (361 words)

Any ideas how I can at least get him to talk about us having another child together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi My partner and I have a 2 year old daughter together I would love another as I have never wanted my child to be a only child We live together and are in a happy relationship we just recently got married we have been together 5 years. Just recently I have really been ... (114 words)

Should I be concerned about his actions? Should I be questioning his commitment to me, based on his actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm concerned my fiance is travelling every other weekend for a few days without me. I want to go and he tells me to pay my way. If i try to go ahead with that plan, he just takes off without me. I bought him something for over 700 bucks the other day and he barely spends... (401 words)

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) age 36-40 - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and want to spend the rest of my l... (190 words)

What if the tables were turned? Am I being a numpty for agreeing to her terms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey just like to ask if i've been a bit of a numpty. I'm not allowed a facebook nor messenger not sure why but to make her happy i said ill not make a facebook. She has both and lots of people added like people she works with and even people she serves at the pub. I aske... (112 words)

What would be a good first gift, post breakup, to offer as a token of friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I would like to get my ex girlfriend a gift that is received as a token of friendship, or more specifically, as a gesture that I'm ready to foster one. She has already explicitly stated interest in doing so. This comes after several months of giving each ot... (201 words)

Off/on relationship has me wanting something more definite

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - So this is bothering me. I was seeing a girl for 2 months, we fell in love quick but due to family issues and differences we took a break. She started seeing someone else. We still hung around and got even closer, she told me mulitple times she still loved me and not the other ... (462 words)

What can be done about my Gf's health? Don't want to break up break up with her, she's lovely and wonderful, when she is not down

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm in need of some help, I think my girlfriend of 6 months has slid back into her depression, she has told me about how she had depression before. Background info: She is always briefly moody in the mornings and can be hard to deal with bu... (425 words)

What happened to my dream girl? Do I just go along with her? Or call off the wedding and be done with her?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry if this is long just bare with me because I need help. My girlfriend has ruined our relationship and I feel like she just wanted me for money. I need to know what other people think. I can't talk to my family or friends because they all love her and if we do work this ... (790 words)

We have Skype online sex regularly. He is my first cousin and separated from his wife. Is this OK?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Im having skype sex with my first cousin. Im 34, he's 32. I just got out of a 10 year relationship 6 mths ago, and been feeling very sexually frustrated. He's separated from his wife for 3 years now. He lives in Canada, and im from Cali. We skype every morning and every ... (100 words)

Would you remain friends with someone who keeps you blocked from Skype?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, Could really use a little input here. I met a woman online on an international dating site. I'm American, she's from Europe. We emailed, talked and Skyped for about 10 months and then got into a fight. Without going into the details, from my perspective, it was beca... (484 words)

Am I responsible for the baby or did she cheat on me? We had sex on October 8 2015 and she gave birth on June 15 2016

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Morning dear friends. My case is like this: I was in a relationship with my girlfriend(24 years old) for a year. we rarely met; at least once in three months. She visited me on the 8th of October 2015. We played the indoor game; but with protection. Truly speaki... (171 words)

What can I do about my OCD and paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to ask for some advice as I have been in counseling and been offered medications which both don't work. I was diagnosed with OCD when I was young and have sought medication/ therapy for it but lately I feel like I am going crazy- I'm always doubting what people say and ... (210 words)

Is there slightly more creative way of surprising her with these books, other than handing her the present and saying Happy Birthday?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

4 February 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Not really a relationship question but any help is appreciated. Recently A Series of Unfortunate Events has made it's way onto Netflix and I have a female friend who absolutely loved it. She and I both share a particular liking for the series and through text message con... (214 words)

My crush is moving to another country. Do I tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Back in 2015, I had met a boy at my school who had just moved from Colombia. We became really close friends, and within a few months, I had developed feelings for him. Now, in February 2017, he's moving back to Colombia in a couple of weeks, and he doesn't think he'll be c... (102 words)