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anonymous
writes:Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him.Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted.Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex with other girls.On different occasions he asked the girl to either have sex or allow him have sex with other girls.And sometimes he is really rude about the whole thing like she is committing the biggest crime in the world just cause she's not ready to.But he knew all this from the start.And then finally he ended the relationship .And he said that is the main reason he is ending the relationship.He told her he still wants them to be friends, and said stuff about her moving on and doing things with other guys so she can forget him and all that....Does this guy actually love her?Did he just want to have sex?should she give in and have sex with him so he can stay?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 March 2017):
 No this guy does not love her, he loves himself more. If he loved her he would not have a problem waiting for her to be ready, he would want to make sure that she is comfortable and not put pressure on her. This guy is only thinking about himself and wants to have sex. When she originally told him he thought if he put enough pressure on her she would cave in and have sex with him, but now he is fed up waiting therefore he is looking for another girl who will allow him to have sex with her. Honestly your friend should hold out until she finds a guy who loves and respects her. At least then she will have no regrets.
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (3 March 2017):
 He's a user! If your friend doesn't have sex with him, he wants to be allowed to have sex with other girls. This is not dating, being in a relationship or love... it's being used as his toilet.
Your friend would do well to flush him into the sewer. His character is scum! He has no respect for your friend or other women. He's looking for anyone who's easy to have sex with.
She is wise not to be friends or have anything to do with him.
Take Care - CAA
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (1 March 2017):
 No, this guy NEVER loved her. All he was after was sex. If she HAD given in, he would have left anyway, so she did the right thing in not doing something she didn't want to do - as people should ALWAYS do.
She should now take him at his word, move on and forget him. She should find herself someone who respects and values her for herself, not for what he can get out of her.
HUGS.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2017): "Does this guy actually love her?"
No. He's just trying to manipulate her into having sex.
"Did he just want to have sex?"
Yes. He still does. A guy will say ANYTHING if he thinks it will get him laid.
"should she give in and have sex with him so he can stay?"
No. I am astonished that would even be a question. Why on earth would she even consider having sex to appease a scumbag who has absolutely no respect for her.
Is she really that desperate? Is she really that naive? Is she really that dumb? Is she really without one ounce of common sense or good judgement? Is she really without morals or self-respect?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2017): this guy does not love her at all.
If he really loved her he would wait for sex.
and if he really loved her he would have eyes for no one else but her.
If he really loved her he would not even want to have sex with any other girl.
This guy is shallow and is best avoided.
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