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Archived questions from: 5 February, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I saw a condom in his wallet and now it's gone!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a very deep pain. And I have no where to go and ask. Please help. I am married for 15 years. I have three kids. I saw a condom in my husband wallet when he went on a trip to New York with his friends. How i found out was Taking out money for kids from his pocket f... (289 words)

I'm worried I could catch herpes from her if we become intimate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

5 February 2017 (M)

age - Hello,am in a dilemma. I met someone. It's like we are on the same page. Over at her house the other night, going great, a little kissing hugging, watching a movie, and pizza... Then she started crying. She had to tell me something. I thought maybe she had a boyfriend. ... (138 words)

I found out that my boyfriend cheated and he doesn't know it yet. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I've never posted a question online before but I really don't know what to do in this situation so I'd very much appreciate your honest opinion and input! Quick background story. I've been with my partner for 5 years this coming March. We met in university ab... (418 words)

Is it still bad if someone cheats but has no feelings for that person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some of the downsides to a man cheating on his GF with someone he doesn't have any emotional attachment to? If he doesn't care for the girl he's having sex with, like her as a person, or anything, then shouldn't it be okay to cheat physically? How would that hu... (70 words)

Any success stories you had about being a hopeless dater to finally having love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been interested in a guy who I like very much, yet the feeling is not mutual. I recently found out he has a girlfriend and she has pictures of them together doing all these amazing things, meeting family, going on trips; I want to have what she has; she seems so happy and ... (218 words)

How do I proceed ? I want to ask her out and we are both shy people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2876 days ago

5 February 2017 (M)

age 18-21 - I've known that somebody in my school has been attracted to me, and I have come to say for myself that I am attracted as well. However, I can say myself that I am a shy person and my ' crush ' is shy person (We usually talk to each other and get along well). It's difficult... (86 words)

We're engaged but I don't see a future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi lately I feel like my relationship has no future we recently got engaged but he never wants to get married we have 1 child and he wants no more he never wants to buy a house together so I cannot see much of a future with this man I have always wanted at least 2 children a ... (136 words)

He was once my crush. Does he like me? Or is he just being weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - There is this guy at school who keeps staring at me. We are actually quite good friends and do talk outside of school from time to time. I genuinely trust him but for some reason, he's been acting strangely lately. It started about six months ago when I started talking ... (205 words)

Does this indicate there is possibly another woman? Red flag!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really bothered with my boyfriend, cause I really don’t know if I can take his word or not anymore, he told me that I can stay over the weekend in his apartment in the city, in fact, he has said it many times, the times I have traveled to see him which is just a few, I go ... (301 words)

Boyfriend's excuse didn't cut it with me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of 9 months didn't come to my sister's wedding yesterday. I was annoyed to start when he said he couldn't come a month before the wedding but when I heard his excuse I was more annoyed. I don't get on well with my family and expressed how much I would ... (254 words)

Help me sort out this tangle before it gets worse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in quite a difficult situation. My ex boyfriend was living on the streets recently. The battery on his phone had run out one night. He met this guy who was also living on the streets, and he borrowed the guy's mobile phone to speak to me. Me and this guy got talking too. ... (322 words)

Boyfriend's behaviour is so upsetting

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is depressed lately, due to his abusive relationship with his father (who is visiting for a few months). My boyfriend is really really depressed lately. He said he wants to get some space. I agreed, but have been going through hell, all alone. He hangs out wi... (157 words)

How do I handle this attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (M)

age 18-21 - There is somebody at school who keeps staring at me. It's become a daily thing now, and even my frieends have noticed it happening. Furthermore, I have realised that whenever somebody mentions my name to her she often blushes. This has been happening for almost a year now. ... (49 words)

Signals I'm getting make me question my next move

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Dearcupid. Help me to solve this problem before it is too late. Don't get it twisted. My cousin sister introduce me to her friend for a relationship that could lead to marriage. Me and her met at the restaurant to relax and to explain more about us. She told me everything a... (256 words)

Has this man gone cold on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He asked me to be his girlfriend on our third date. We get on really well and can actually have great conversations on our dates and through texts (he only likes to text as feels anxious calling). Things were going real... (154 words)

He decided to take up on my offer on not using condoms. Why was he so willing to do this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing this guy for a while and whenever we have sex, we always use protection. But there was this one time that we didn't because we both didn't want to. After that time we used a condom every time. We were talking about our sex life one night and I told him I... (202 words)

18 year old senior at school. How could I attempt to seduce this teacher at my school?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 18 year old female in high school as a senior. I had this teacher for the first semester and over time just seemed to really like him for a lot of reasons mostly because of how intelligent he is. I am not a very sexual person and could count one hand how many people ... (210 words)

Isn't this cheating? I'm distraught and stunned that he visited at least three mens' homes to masturbate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F)

age - I just found out my husband of 23 years, who has not had relations with me by his own accord for 12 years, more than half of my marriage, has been registered on gay and swinger websites. I found out all this on my own and have filed for divorce. He does not want the divorce ... (310 words)