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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell the guy I love that I love him? - long back story urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey girls and guys . Heres the back story to my problem. I've been in love with the same guy (my best guy friend) since I met him 3/4 years ago. However our relationship is not what I wish it could have been. The first time I tried to tell him my feelings a close friend ... (434 words)

Why does my bf try to make me feel jealous? He implies that I can't do any better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for almost 5 years. Things have been so rocky the last month we're hardly communicating. Last night we talked for almost 3 hours, over facebook, about our issues and how we can't seem to make it work. As the conversation went on he said to me "your prob... (452 words)

Is this man capable of being faithful? Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with a lovely man for 2 years who has been wonderful to me, including inviting my criminal son to stay with him when he was released from prison. Even when my son stole from him he didn't reject me ( but did quite rightly kick my son out). We have a great and li... (359 words)

My friend confided in me that her husband was a cheater and then later that night he was hitting on me. Now I don't want to be around them! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts of DearCupid, Something happened to me a few weeks ago that has both shocked and upset me and I don't quite know how to handle it. I am good friends with a married couple who live in the same apartment block. They like a few drinks and so do I. We usual... (595 words)

To what extent does scent affect attraction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - A question for the uncles! How much do you enjoy a female's scent? Would you pick a clean but plain smelling girl or rather one who had on an distinct added scent such as perfume, deoderant, shampoo etc.? To what extent does scent affect attraction?... (47 words)

Am I a bad person to feel the need to talk to other men ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I have been together for years now but it's always me that puts in effort, including a normal conversation. I get excited to see him after we both work and to share our days with each other but it's always me to ask how was your day? What did you do? Normal ... (205 words)

Why do I keep dreaming about this man I dated in the past when I have no real interest in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometime back last year i was dating a dutch Man 28 years of age. He was doing his internship in India and came back home and found a job but he said after living some where else,he really does not like living in Holland. The first time we met he was applying for phd in paris... (385 words)

Should I go back home and get an education? Or keep doing web cam modeling like my friends suggest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everybody, I am thinking of moving back to my home country,been in the Netherlands for sometime now and things are not going as planned for me.As for my Education,i am a high school graduate,i tried saving for University but failed to raise because Education is ver... (440 words)

My wedding is a few weeks away and his ex wife and adult daughters are still causing problems.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3171 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age - I have written in before about my fiance's ex wife and 3 adult girls abusive behavior and was given advice that we followed and basically blocked them off of facebook, and just continued living our lives. My fiance was able to reconnect with a sister he has not been in contact ... (690 words)

She is seeing someone else, should I continue with her or not bother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

28 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this incredible girl we share a lot of the same interests. From the beginning she stared she is seeing someone else, we spent Valentine's Day together and then spent the following Saturday cuddling and watching movies. Then broke contact for a few days and when asked ... (133 words)

He said it's not me and not personal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My 38 year old boyfriend of a year is a bit introvert and was dyslexic and I suspect slightly ADD. He gets very focused on work and projects at his house. He shows me he cares with practical things. I'm struggling to feel wanted and cherished when he is so easily distracte... (208 words)

Sleeping with the ex but I'm demanding more respect

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Just to start off, I'm a 30 yr old female and single. For the past two years I've been sleeping with my ex (37). He took my virginity exactly 15 yrs ago and we always been hooking up on and off. I have been celibate since 2008 due to low self esteem and obesity. So in 2013 he ... (360 words)

I think anything I did while we were broken up is none of his business!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age - I broke up with my BF for 5 months. He's married by the way and we had an affair for 2 1/2 years. We have started talking again and want to pursue a relationship but only if he leaves his wife. I refuse to get back to that stressful, wrong mess. He agrees and knows he needs ... (314 words)

How can I stop these urges to be with a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3579 days ago

28 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of an odd question. My husband I are happily married. We have three preciousness little ones. I am bi sexual, I've known since I was young, my husband knows, but lately I've been having urges to be with a woman. I wouldnt act on it, I don't really want a threesome ... (96 words)

He hates sex, I stopped trying to initiate, now he says I neglect him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age - MOD NOTE: Question asker is aged 60. Hi there. Any help/suggestions for my situation? My man is almost completely impotent....very affectionate, lots of pecks and hugs, but no passionate kissing, and a real fear of sex...whether he's afraid of not being able to perform if... (103 words)

My husband wants to name our first child after his father, and for him it is not negotiable!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnant and I found out that my husband and I will be having a boy. I am not excited because my husband wants to name our son after his father's name. It is a Lebanese tradition that the eldest son of the family must name his future son's name the father's name. My ... (237 words)

Four years ago I had a crush on her, should I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

27 February 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - So their's this girl she sits next to me in highschool ... I kinda liked her for me we had a connection and my friends teased us too but she had this boyfriend and i was a geek in highschool (paper editor and no social life)... And when we went our separate ways during ... (118 words)

I'm fine with being friends, but he is sending mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had this guy friend for about 4 months. We are just good friends that hangout and have a good time together, and great friends that we have classes together at school (college). I had begin to develops feelings for him because we were hanging constantly and h... (384 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years just now told me he had a child that was put up for adoption

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so shocked and hurt that I don't know what to do or where to turn. I've been in my relationship for three years now. Recently we made a decision to come off birth control and start trying for a family. The decision came after I had a scare, and once we sat and talked a... (263 words)

I feel like my fiance is giving up on me. Will I ever be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my fiancé is giving up on our relationship. I'm the only one that works and drives. Its a struggle because I work eight hours everyday and when I come home, I'm hoping the house is clean at least and that our daughter is fed and taking care of. But, when I do get ... (198 words)

What is the right/appropriate way of telling someone to clean up after themselves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - The main question I have is What is the right/appropriate way of telling someone to clean up after themselves? Here's the background: My best friend and I are roommates in an apartment. We get along great, we help out with payments, we split every bill. No arguments. ... (1329 words)

My wife misled me with her sexual past

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

27 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - We got married 16 years ago and i had to ask her parents for permission to marry her since we were both brought up the old fashioned way, so at that time we got to know each other for about a year before we got married. before I met her I had two relationships that didn't work ... (460 words)

How do I deal with a lying husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - i'd honestly never thought to see myself on one of these websites.. i'm 5 months pregnant and been married for a little over a month now. ive been with him for only 6 months. which i know sounds horrible, but my parents are old fashion and the situation kinda pushed u... (1001 words)

He called me stupid and fat.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. We've been dating two years, see each other over the weekends and communicate a lot by text. Today, my boyfriend was rude to me over the phone, basically hung up on me for no reason, and then continued to talk to me over ... (187 words)

He is Armenian and I am Chinese, should I bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy, and think I am starting to like him. But the problem is thate we're of different races. I'm Chinese and he's Armenian. I've heard that Armenians are against dating outside their own race. I live in an Asian community and he lives in an Armenian community. Should I ... (67 words)

My boyfriend's mother doesn't make food available for him

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

27 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are both 22 years old, we just finished university and have been looking for jobs. I managed to finally find one however my boyfriend is still looking and trying to find one. The problem is, I'm unsure of how to pose this as a question but I... (599 words)

I'm suspicious about my daughter and son relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a son, who is 19 and a daughter, who is 17. I'm suspicious of their relationship. I went through some tough divorces and I've been away for a couple of years but I wanted a father for my children and they had family friends watching over them and I've been calling them ... (185 words)

I broke it off with him and wonder if my feelings of anger are normal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

26 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I would really appreciate some reassurance about the stage I'm at in ending a relationship. Please don't judge me, it's honestly been very hard. I became physically ill due to the stress of living with a binge drinker. I was with him for nearly two decades. Finally... (914 words)

This could be my last chance at having a baby but everything is all wrong!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

26 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 35 and my bf is 27. We have also only been together for 3mths. I discovered that I am pregnant. I have no kids and to be honest, at my age I had pretty much given up on the idea of it ever happening as I am prob too old now. I was on the pill. Neither of us have security... (297 words)

I've reconnected with the ex but he's much different now. Will there be a rainbow after the storm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

26 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello and thanks I dated a guy 15 years ago and we reconnected. Our relationship was great back then we got along well, he was very good to me, and we loved eachother very much. He was kind, sweet and funny. WE were both young and we mutually decided to move on and I left st... (465 words)

How can I recover from this, and be friends with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

26 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this coworker of mine who I like. We work for a construction company. He's the warehouse manager and I'm a project manager. He's just a nice guy and we have good chemistry. I'm 22 and he's 37. A few weeks ago, I asked him out to lunch. He called me the day of ch... (221 words)

My boyfriend made several comments about another woman which hurt me but he said thats how guys talk

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) age 36-40 - I want some honest help as to whether im overreacting to something that happened this evening. I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this guy and he's helped me no end overcome some trust issues that were holding me back. I'm only his third sexual partner and he's... (329 words)

Is it too late to be friends with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy at work almost two years ago, we started talking more and we became friends. Then he started asking for pictures of me and asking questions and stuff, he had a girlfriend and two kids so I felt wrong about it. Eventually I actually sent him pictures and I ... (208 words)

I am starting to question how important I may be to him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 4mths now but we were really good friends for 5yrs before. He says he loves me and I believe he does (in his own way) but I am starting to question how important I may be to him (though he says I am the most important person to him). For instance, ... (640 words)

I want to try it with a girl but I'm afraid of the consequences

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Need your help! I am sexualy atracted to girls.I am 20 years old girl and have a baby I had in my teenage years. I'm on and off with her daddy we have so many problems and uncompatibilities.Im too scared to fullfil my fantasy because of what everybody would say. ... (197 words)

Is This Too Much For The Context Of A First Date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I watched a video on couples (some strangers, some long term etc) who had to look into each others eyes for 4mins. The experiment proved them to feel closer and much more connected than they did moments ago, after having experienced all of the vulnerability associated with ... (118 words)

I had started to think he was the one but once he got comfortable he was disgusting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3582 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I need an advice but deep in my heart, I feel that the impression is irreversible. I have met this guy through common friends. He is his mid 30s, handsome, a doctor, very smart, gentleman and generous person. 2 weeks after I met him we had sex, and it was the best sex I e... (677 words)

Bondage and bringing it up to my partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i always fantasized about bondage sex and now since i watched the 50 shades of grey movie it made me want it even more. how can i bring this subject to my partner? thank u ... (42 words)

Girlfriend is set on renting a house with me, but I don't know if I can afford it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 22 and my girlfried is 19, my girlfriend of 9 months is planning on getting a flat with me next year, wich i dont feel ready for, i pay 180 a month to live with my mum and dad and am on a decent wage , and she pays 100 a month to live with her mum and step dad and ... (245 words)

Man I started talking to online won't stop sexting me! Opinions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, hi everyone. :) So I'm hoping to throw this out there and see if I'm overreacting. The other day I started chatting with a guy online and we seemed to hit it off. We exchanged numbers and the next day we decided - quite spontaneously - to meet. I figur... (321 words)

I am worried my friend wants to be with me, because I don't want a relationship! Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy that I like but not enough to try to go anywhere other than hanging out at his house every once in a while. I think he thinks I want a relationship but I want to get the point across that I don't want to be a date. I like his company and cuddling and stuff but ... (139 words)

Is it too late to restart my life at 35?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think that at 34 (35 in 2 months) its too late to restart your life? I am living in a country that is not mine... With a man that I no longer love and can't stand him touching me... in a job that sucks... I just have this need to pack and go somewhere and start again ... (115 words)

Is it natural to get so anxious about dating? What can I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do I get crippled with anxiety as soon as the possibility of anything romantic rears its head? As a person I am perfectly together and happy, I have had three past relationships so it's not as if I'm completely inexperienced, and for a long while I mostly have felt that I'm ... (296 words)

My boyfriend and I are going to try swinging, will it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have decided that are both going to try swinging, or whatever works for us. Not often, but sometimes .. maybe a few times a year if even. Anyway, we broke up last year for two months (something totally unrelated). During this time, my boyfriend went o... (154 words)

Week of partying while telling me he's done with it all.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and Uncles ... Would anyone be ok with their 47 year old boyfriend of 3 Years going out 6 nights in one week. One night was with me, another was at a local pool hall , other nights were clubs. 2 of those nights were 6AM nights ! I angerily confronted him and he bl... (172 words)

I sent my BF a long sexual message and he replied in only one word. Should I be upset? Or aAm I over-reacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is out of town on business. He has been in touch everyday. Says he misses me, thinks about me all the time. I emailed him a very sexually charged message today, quite lengthy, telling him what I want him to do to me in explicit detail... and was essentially pain... (139 words)

We were dating exclusively... then I found out he slept with someone else?????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3585 days ago

25 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for a few months now. We said both agreed that we are seeing each other exclusively (as i don't like rushing into relationships but also liked him enough to only be interested in him) But I've just found out he slept with someone else only last week. ... (143 words)

Why does he seem interested and then go distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

24 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online last year in April, we spoke for months as he worked away in the navy. When he got back we met in person and it went great and planned to meet again. Within a week he stopped talking and cancelled our next date. I didn't hear from him for 3 months then he ... (200 words)

An people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3587 days ago

24 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Can people ever change, and if they can how do you know they have really changed? I ask because for the past six years I have been on/off with my ex boyfriend. We met at school and our relationship began when we were 17. At first, everything was great. We were to... (389 words)

How do I sincerely forgive my husband for cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

24 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to forgive my husband.i want to believe he is willing to reform as he promised recently. He has apologized and realized he was on a wrong path. He is willing to do everything it takes to fix our marriage.We've been together 17 yrs and have 3 adorable kids. I want to ... (110 words)