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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sometimes I just need a hug from my friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - It's like this...I have a male friend for about 12 years.We are very close and for all those years there isn't a day without phone call at least, he even sleeps at my house offen.The problem that i cant solve on my own is why he avoid any possible phisycal contact?he had a ... (155 words)

I feel hurt and betrayed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

8 February 2015 (?)

- I am a 50 plus year old female. I am feeling hurt and betrayed. One of my very best friends, as I've spoke about before in this forum is planning on moving. She claims I am the very best friend she has ever had in her life and I feel the same about her. I found out that she and ... (361 words)

Sometimes I hate it when my best friend hangs out with other people!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Sometimes I hate when my best friend hangs out with other people besides me, and then other times I don't care at all. I'm really not a jealous person but I don't know what the cause of these feeling are maybe it's my own insecurities. Has anyone ever felt this way? how would i ... (56 words)

Our lack of communication is undermining our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year now. I love him yet I constantly find myself questioning if he loves me as much as I do towards him. We have gone through so many fights and a couple of breakups within the course of our relationship. I will not get ... (440 words)

After one year the sex is very infrequent

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. Everything in our relationship is perfect except for one thing. We barely are having sex and every time our relationship progresses he starts a fight and says this is why he doesn't have sex with me. For example, we go out ... (240 words)

Why is my boyfriend worried I will find another man when he is gone on a trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is going away for a month with his family next week. It is an annual trip. I went through one of these trips already where he was gone a month last May. He contacted me a lot while he was away and we really missed each other. We were so happy to be with each other ... (289 words)

Torn between two LDRs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

8 February 2015 (?) age 26-29 - I love two guys. I know it makes me sound bad but here is how my relationships went in the past. I dated one guy and he was a ass so i left him after 2 months. I didn't really find anyone i loved but that was it until my current boyfriend(Aziz) asked me out. It was very sweet ... (340 words)

What should I make of this work conflict?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I will try and keep this short and sweet :) I am currently working in an office environment, and I have been placed on a team which deals with complaints. The team I liase with tend to talk amongst themselves, they are a close knit clique of mainly young women. I feel like we ... (227 words)

Does his habit of disrespectful language mean the relationship is doomed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for 3 months. He tells me he loves me, is caring and helps me out. He has been very romantic organising trips away and I genuinely believe he loves me. However he uses very inappropriate language and has a frankly vulgar sense of humour. He joki... (194 words)

At 54 is it too late to start over?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age - My miserable boyfriend spends every weekend morning with his mother and weekend afternoons reading and napping. He refuses to travel, never shows affection, does little around the house and never suggests doing anything in term of leisure activity. I've never met anyone through ... (183 words)

One minute she's all for me the next I get the cold shoulder.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my girlfriend for the past 3 years everything was fine, own house cars full time jobs and random weekends away. Recently we have both been under pressure with trust issues. I did something I regretted in the first month or two of our relationship and now 2 and a half ... (162 words)

What do men think when the girl makes the first move? Is his silence the response?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So if you live in a different country but kept in touch with a group of friends, one of whom, is a crush, in a group setting kind of thing on Facebook. You exchanged pleasantries with this guy and have tons of things in common, like finishing each other's sentences. The ping ... (268 words)

Realised I have still feelings for my married crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I had what can be called an emotional affair with a married man for two years... very strong feelings on my side, (sexual) flirting from his side and even some love confessions (feelings). I guess we were both obsessed with each other. We see occasionally, because we belong to ... (473 words)

I am happy for my sister but very sad for me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I start, I'd just like to say that I'm very happy for my sister and this isn't about her in any way. It's about me. So on December 23rd just past, I ended my long term relationship because he just wouldn't commit to me. I'm now a month off 30, and for the last t... (561 words)

She says I have lost her trust, I say she is being over dramatic!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

8 February 2015 (M) age 36-40 - my girlfriend says I've lost her trust and she wants to end things but I think she's just being over dramatic and refusing to give me another chance. My old flame called me to say could we be friends again so I met her for a drink didn't tell my gf because I knew she'd go mad ... (139 words)

I was there for him and he still chose another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I've been dating this guy for a couple months. We made the offical date Nov 20 but its more like Dec 18. We had a thing going on between us (just making out and holding hands) but he never formally asked me out and I told him we aren't together unless he did. So in De... (203 words)

Should I make an excuse or tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3364 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - A very close friend of mine from work has expressed interest in moving in with my roommate and I, as we have always gotten along great in a group. The two of us have been spending a lot of time together and think we would be great roommates. The only problem is, I am very in ... (137 words)

They hate me but love his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my relationship could be coming to an end because of his parents! theyve made it crystal clear that they hate me, yet his ex, who treated him appallingly, they love and still have her round for dinner from time to time! His ex cheated on him serveral times, even had... (235 words)

How do I mention I am not happy with her work without ruining the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3572 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel a bit awkward and need some advice please. I've been going to my beautician for the past 5 years, I go every month for waxing and facials and then 3-4 months for nails and other treatments and spend quite a bit of money there.I've also become very good... (437 words)

She needs to realise I wanted to help her, but she didn't want it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3574 days ago

8 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid I need a way to tell a friend off respectfully due to their certain contant behaviour to show that I have put my self respect down for her and I have been trying to help her, but, instead of even replying let alone appreciation, she's trying to ignore me and push me ... (545 words)

My husband wants me to travel to Kurdistan but I am too scared!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3573 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) age 36-40 - My husband is from kurdistan, iraq. He is waiting to get his passport and then he was supposed to be meeting me in turkey as i I dont want to go to kurdistan. The travel advice advises no travel or only essential travel as the situation could deteriate quickly. He lives about ... (192 words)

I came across some emails and now I just can't keep calm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so how do I keep myself calm? I accidently found email correspondence between my boyfriend of four years and his best friend discussing the best jeweler from which to buy an engagement ring (for me) They discussed size, shape, cost, and whether or not I would like it. ... (226 words)

I love him but am starting to feel resentful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3570 days ago

8 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - There is something I do not like about my boyfriend's behaviour. He spends much of his free time visting family and friends, especially one friend whom he calls brother. My parents were the first ones to get married among their friends, and I was born one year later, whil... (375 words)