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Four years ago I had a crush on her, should I ask her out?

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Question - (27 February 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2015)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So their's this girl she sits next to me in highschool ... I kinda liked her for me we had a connection and my friends teased us too but she had this boyfriend and i was a geek in highschool (paper editor and no social life)... And when we went our separate ways during college i found someone else and it ended really badly... But instead of thinking about my gf i kept dreaming of her ... So 4 years later after some experience im thinking of asking her out ... But im afraid she'll think of me as that geek in highschool who everone knew had a huge crush on her... What should i do

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A female reader, TruePanda United States +, writes (1 March 2015):

TruePanda agony auntI'd like to start off by saying that people change. Unless the two of you have been in contact with each other for the past few years, it's hard to say that either of you really know each other anymore. If you really feel strongly about her, hit here up on chat and start a conversation. Get to know each other a bit more. Then, from there, decide if taking the relationship to the next level is something you still want to do.

In my opinion, if it's meant to be, she'll like you for who you are, no matter what label had or has been placed upon you. Hope this helped! :)

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