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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I the problem or is it them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey guys. You see, at the start of this academic year, all of my friends went off to college while I stayed at school for sixth form. I knew straight away that they would all make new friends and I was fine with that, but it's getting to the point where I'm starting to feel... (254 words)

My girlfriend's child is 15 months old and her tantrums are frazzling my nerves!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've recently started dating a woman about 4 months ago. Things between us are fantastic. We get along amazingly and chemistry between us is definitely there. However, there's one thing I'm having a hard time admitting is a problem for me. Her child. It makes me feel ... (455 words)

I want to move out but can't afford it! Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm 21 years old and I live with my father and brother. The thing is, I really want to move out and be on my own but I just can't afford it. Let me explain my situation. My father is retired. I love him to death but he stays at home all day, he doesn't have any... (458 words)

I'm too shy to talk to him so how do I get him to make a move? If he likes me, that is. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Let me begin by saying I possess poor social skills. We sit far away and I catch him staring at me a lot -- or maybe he's just blankly staring. His eyes are wide open and his mouth is in a straight line. His eyebrows are sometimes raised. He turns to face me and rests his he... (869 words)

Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relationship. If you dont know traits o... (1374 words)

Is wanting some ''space'' a sign that she's not as interested in me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm writing because my girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. We had a great relationship and to this day she says there was no "real reason" to break up, she just needed time to think about things, as her grandmother passed away and I was focused on schoo... (344 words)

Am I obsessed because I love her, and why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - so lately i have been very very possesive about a girl, we became friends about a year ago ,and i knew we will never get married and also i wasnt lookin for a gf, everything was fine, but after 6 months she told me she had a bf before for 5 years, after that i became posessive ... (227 words)

Did he use me? My married lover just stopped seeing me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I know that what I have been doing is wrong. I wholeheartedly know this. I just feel sometimes you cannot help who you have a real connection with. This is my situation in a nut shell; I am now 26. When I was 18/19 I used to work for a large company. One of my bosses ... (472 words)

Committed or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 27 years old my BF is the Same Age. We have been in this relationship 3 years total and 1 year living together. So far everything is good. I have my doubts. He seems to be prolonging marriage and kids. He tells me on it's time it will come. I certainly don't want to be ... (237 words)

How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else sucks. He ignores his financial ... (525 words)

After these two incidents years apart, I'm not sure that my B/f's happy and committed. What do you guys think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years was sending flirty text messages with another woman, about how he was going to be in her area soon and how he wanted to see her in a bikini etc. She stopped responding after a few back and forths and so it fizzled out. This all happened 2 years... (437 words)

She did us a big favor, but how long do we owe her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - It's a bit sensitive situation andi need an advice. We have a customer who at one point did a huge favor for us that it resulted in bringing us quite a bit of business. On her part it was absolutely effortless. She is kind and generous lady, retired, she made us known to a ce... (390 words)

What happened to 'getting to know you' first?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Since I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, I started dating and the situation is that guys that I meet only want sex immediately. I hardly have any dates though I give my phone number. I don't understand what changed during these 4 years. True, I meet some of them in ... (134 words)

Sex with my bf is bad. how can I tell him he isn't pleasing me ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for over a year now. And I love him, which is why I haven't left. But the sex with him is horrible. When he tries it, he doesn't make sure I'm wet enough before he tries to slide it in. Then, he had to use his finger to guide it in because it doesn't seem ... (258 words)

Crush on my professor..should I smile at him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (?) age 30-35 - Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me. He got to know that I like him from some source. Whenever we come across each othe... (85 words)

My Bf wanted to pay for a private lap dancer. For me. Should I be worried by his actions during the lap dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just went to Mexico and decided to hit up one of the local strip joints. He wanted to pay for a lap dance for me in a private room. It began with him just watching to the stripper asking him to join in. While it was hot and heavy, he reached to unzip his pa... (117 words)

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no other guys, just him when he ... (112 words)

He's in jail and was my wild Bf. How can I help him without it becoming a relationship agani?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

18 February 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently split up with my boyfriend but I'm really confused about what to do. I was in a relationship for 8 years with a guy who was really quite boring, we had nothing in common and my life was a bit mundane. After I split up with him I met the guy I've just split up... (580 words)