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female
age
41-50,
*yespy17
writes:Hi Aunts and Uncles ...Would anyone be ok with their 47 year old boyfriend of 3Years going out 6 nights in one week. One night was with me, another was at a local pool hall , other nights were clubs. 2 of those nights were 6AM nights !I angerily confronted him and he blames relationship stress and jealousy because we've been fighting /breaking up. The issues? His drinking , going out too much and not being around for the holidays that just passedHe begged me to give him one more chance. He said he didn't need bars and clubs and to drink and then he got jealous about something and he reacted with a weeklong party. Says if he were happy , w wouldn't and that he wants to be happy and stay with me. Ridiculous , right ?(I want children and a happy household /marriage. ) he CLAIMS he wants the same but these actions would indicate otherwise, right?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (25 February 2015):
 You ask: "Ridiculous , right ?"
Yep.... ridiculous it is.....
Good luck...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 February 2015):
 Why are you wasting your time on this guy?
He goes out to party for a week straight and THAT is your fault? Seriously?
DO look at this actions, don't just listen to his "sweet" words he KNOWS exactly what to SAY to you to make you think he wants what you wants, but his actions shows otherwise.
I agree with SVC - DO not accept the blame her for HIS actions.
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reader, Eyespy17 +, writes (25 February 2015):
Eyespy17 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. Will check out al-anon.
I am so sad that he can't live up to his own promises of stopping the party lifestyle for a more meaningful one
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 February 2015):
 if he's drinking I strongly urge you to find Al-anon whether he sobers up or not.
he's blaming your for his bad behavior. DO NOT accept that.
learn to detach from him totally. check out
Al-anon
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 February 2015):
 He's an alcoholic and would use anything as a reason to drink. I would not last 3 years with him. Don't have any children with him. They might get his alcoholic gene and unlike his old age and would pass away sooner, you would be stuck with children and indirectly support their drinking habits or worse watch them go to jail because of DUI.
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