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writes:Hello Everybody,I am thinking of moving back to my home country,been in the Netherlands for sometime now and things are not going as planned for me.As for my Education,i am a high school graduate,i tried saving for University but failed to raise because Education is very expensive for international students.A few months back when i was browsing for jobs i reacted to an add from a man who was recruiting webcam models,i did not know what that was untill he explained everything to me,how much i could earn and so forth.After some days he did not get back to me so i did the research on my own and found a few websites and tried them out and in a Month,i was got some good money.So i thought to myself,i can go back home to my country,continue doing the webcam job and pay my own school tuition at the university because its affordable when i convert dollars to shillings i can manage life in my Home country,here its very hard because i cannot even afford to rent a house.I told my friends about going back home ( Africa) and going to the university and they said i shouldn't return and that i do not need any Education,they also said i only need money for food and transport and life goes on. Should i take that advice?I managed to buy myself a new laptop and a pad for university and sent some money to my grand mum for christmass since i started doing the webcam job.I really wanted to do this only to pay my tuition so that when i get a degree i stop and look for a good job but my friends say i shouldn't return home,that i should forget about Education and move on with life where ever its taking me.so is my idea a good one or are my friends right?i feel am getting older and just being in a country where i can't move forward is hurting me.I heard guys don't want some an un-educated partner who won't put anything on the table.ps: for the job,i am a non-nude model. i mostly talk men who are lonely on their birthdays,men who are divorced and just want a friend to talk and they just tip me for looking good.The one time a 27 year old guy paid to see my boobs but i did not show my face.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (2 March 2015):
I don’t really see what alternatives you have identified to getting yourself a good education. Your friends might think it’s not necessary, but in a global, fiercely competitive market, I’m not so sure. And even if the money’s good, how long will the modelling work be available to you? I would suggest that unless you really don’t want to, go back and get your education. Education is an enriching experience and one that opens up a greater range of possibilities and choices for you in the future.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 February 2015):
 I think you need to decide what is right FOR you. Your friends might have a different priority, they MAY be OK with not being educated.
You have to decide WHAT YOU want and then go for it. Something getting what we want takes longer then we want it too, there might be some bumps in the road, but finding your GOALS and go for them - i always better then just do what everyone else tells you to do.
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