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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you know when it's the right time to move in with your partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently my boyfriend has mentioned me moving in with him, he wants me to and when he mentioned it I didn't think 'no it's too soon' or 'wow you're moving too fast' however I've mentioned it to a couple of friends and these were there responses. "No it's way too soon for that... (157 words)

How could I go about asking her out but at the same time help her feel comfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl who I like and want to ask out has just revealed to me today that she has Social Anxiety really badly. As much as I want to ask her out, I don't want to make anything uncomfortable for her. Over text she can talk for hours but to my face she's really shy but will talk to ... (105 words)

Should I stay with my girlfriend of 6 years?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just wanted to get some advice on my relationship as probably I could do with it. I'm 33 and my girlfriend is five years younger than me. We have been going out for 6-7 years. I’m not sure if I should stay with her. When she has no problem things are good. I’ll give ... (1291 words)

Advice for moving out of your parents' home on a low income?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I would like some advice on how I can move out of my parents house. Id like to get out ASAP. My household is pretty dysfunctional. My parents always fight, my dad drinks, they both verbally abuse me and question my every move. My dad has tried to get physical with me a ... (221 words)

The girl I am dating is going to have to move 9 hours away. How do I tell her I want to go too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have just recently started dating a long time friend (known her two years, dated about a month). I have never been in love, but I feel more for this girl than I have anyone in my whole life. I'm 25 and she's 26 by the way. The problem is that she might be getti... (118 words)

Does the volume of semen a man ejaculates matter to a woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I was talking with a female friend of mine and she called herself a "slug girl." I asked her what she meant by that and she said she she gets very wet when she gets turned on. She was quite embarrassed to admit that. However, I think most men think it is sexy when a woman is... (220 words)

My sister wants to go out with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey im ayden and im a 16 year old girl and Ive got a problem. My problem Is that I was with my beyfriend for a whole year and we broke up around 7 months ago.he is a year older than me and my sister is two years older than me and recently she told me me that she has feelings ... (155 words)

I told him I wasnt ready for a relatiosnhip then I found out he slept with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating this guy for the passed 4 months around 2 months into thing he said that he wanted a relationship and that he had strong feeling for me but as i had not long got out of a terrible 3 years relationship i told him i wasn't ready just yet. I was cheated on a ... (235 words)

I contacted my girlfriend 7 times last week and she's still mad about lack of contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I contacted my gf 7x last week but it wasn't good enough?? We've been together for 4 years. I'm 36 and she's 32. We usually spend our weekends together but due to work we don't see each other through the week that often so we rely on exchanging messages. She's upset that... (404 words)

Do I swallow my pride and text him first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (?) age 26-29 - Up until last Friday I was dating a guy for nearly 2 month, I really liked him but on that friday he went on a night out with his ex , we argued and he said it was innocent they were only talking about something. But why not just speak over text or the phone? I don't know if ... (133 words)

What are the ground rules during separation from spouse?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3556 days ago

23 February 2015 (M) age 41-50 - Just curious, what are the ground rules for separating with a spouse i.e. we need some time apart? Is dating and seeing others ok? Please don't look at this as an excuse but rather a consequence of separation.... (39 words)

He's a good man but I miss having cuddles and sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, i have been in a relationship for just over 9yrs. i love my partner very much. we used to have a very healthy sex life but over the last 3/4 yrs we hardly have any sexual relations at all, nothing. no kisses,cuddles,touching etc. i have tried talking to him and he ju... (211 words)

Boyfriend and I are fighting over small things but he doesn't learn from our fights

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot lately. Ridiculous as it may sound, its over small things, like not saying goodnight, not saying I love you, forgetting to say goodmorning, not picking up when calling...frivolous reasons and some significant ones, ultimately after ... (169 words)

My boyfriend remains friends with a girl who froze me out. I am angry that he remains her friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and met most of his friends, co-workers and even his bosses. One of his closest friend had a new gf who I kinda grew close with. I confided in her when things werent good between me and boyfriend, he then eventually started to ... (567 words)

I am unsure of the signals she gave after our second date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I had my 2nd date last night with a girl that I met on a dating app.. The 1st date was at a pub near her house and last night she came to mine, I put some nice cool easy listening to music on, lit candles and cooked for her. We talked from when she arrived, the ... (257 words)

I havent had sex in 2 years . Will it hurt when I have it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid it been two years since I had sex with,and this is because my man is far away but he is coming by in three weeks time. I will like to know if it is going to be painful when we have sex again and is dere any possibility that I can become pregnant after that. ... (57 words)

Does my attitude keep men away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I'm single I have been single for quite sometimes by choice now that my children are grown im ready to mingle I have often been told I have a beautiful personality but my attitude is different.What could it be? I'm a beautiful person im not stuck up I treat people ... (63 words)

All of my boyfriends new friends are girls! Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal that my boyfriend has been befriending/talking with other girls lately? I'm in a serious long term relationship with my boyfriend. We're together every weekend so I notice things here and there., For the past couple of months he's formed a few new friendship... (320 words)

I am pregnant with married boyfrind's child. He is away and I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help. More than ever. I am here all alone with nobody to talk to. I have been with a married man for 2 years. I love him. I truly love him. I know, I am stupid. I have just found out tonight that I am pregnant with his child. He is out of the country on a business tr... (144 words)

Why do the thongs I wear not seem go fit right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 February 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - When I wear thongs, it fits like it should when I first put it on. They're comfortable and I have no problem with them at all. By the end of the day, I notice it makes its way up my vagina and sometimes, it rides up in the back and hurts a little when I pull it. I never have ... (93 words)

I think I would rather date my boyfriend's brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) age 26-29 - I have been having this huge problem that just wont go away. So I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now. And I can't say that things have been going great; they haven't. The problem is, I am really into my boyfriends brother. When I am with him I am so happy. I ... (113 words)