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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sometime back last year i was dating a dutch Man 28 years of age.He was doing his internship in India and came back home and found a job but he said after living some where else,he really does not like living in Holland.The first time we met he was applying for phd in paris but did not succeed and he got very sad.Long story short,we dated for 6 months,no sex and i felt i was being mean to me so i gave in and we had sex for the first time.I really enjoyed his kisses and touches when we were dating and he took good care of me,always a gentleman.But he was applying for jobs in India,Belgium etc,deep down i knew he was going away and it was making me abit sad.Before we had sex it was all good and then it happened,its just that i didn't expect it to be that boring with him, he cum like in 5 minutes and fell asleep and the next morning he was tired as hell.After the night he sent me a message if i enjoyed the night,not just the sex but the whole night. i did not want to hurt his feelings so i told him,'well we had fun'.After that i just lost interest in some one i was crazy about,he wanted to meet up again and i told him am going on holiday.After my fake holiday he still contacted me and told me how he enjoyed seeing me and he is wondering why everything just stopped and i was like 'sometimes things end for no reason'.so that's when we cut contact but during christmas we just send eachother a Merry christmass message and told me his is going on Holiday with friends.Funny thing is he keeps on appearing in my dreams,i have been dreaming about this guy from the time we ended seeing each other.i have no feelings for him or have any fantasy about him but i dream about him,and the dreams are usually peaceful.should i contact him or leave things the way the are?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2015): I would not contact the guy.The dream is probably not about the guy himself at all, but something that he represents to you? Like travel maybe, as he moved away and applied for jobs overseas.Maybe it's your subconscious wanting you to travel? You have to work it out yourself. If you dreamed it more than once, there is probably something that you want or are not doing in real life.
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