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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have been married for nearly 2 years. only have 1 big problem and that is my husbands uncle. he is an extremeley manipulative and jealous person. he is so spiteful and i know my husband does not like him to much. he has tried to do everything to cause arguements between me and my husband. i am forced to stay sometimes at this uncles house as my husband just wont stand up to him. i am at breaking point as i am furious at having to speak and visit someone i really cant stand. i have told my husband that if he wants to go and see him fair enough but i dont have to pretend anymore. i feel that my marriage is on the line now and t this is exactly what his uncle wants as my husband used to live with him before and his uncle used him for money etc... what can i do. as i know im going to really lose it and i will end up swearing and having a nig arguement with his uncle. his uncle is trying everything to make arguements between us.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 March 2013):
 if you don't like him and husband does not like him, do not see him.
just because he's a blood relative does not mean you have to be friendly with him.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 March 2013):
 Ok, mine is probably a stupid question , but, if your husband does not like his uncle, why does he go visit and stay with him ? There are people who cut off their parents too ( not that it's a good thing, it's a sad one, yet it happens ) so why bothering about an unloved and unlovable uncle ?
If your husband though HAS to go visit him occasionally, it would not be easier if he'd go a bit less maybe and you just stayed home the times he goes ? Why do you have to be there too ?
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