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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm confused. I am emotionally and physically attracted to girls but when I'm really turned on, I like to think about having sex with a man, rough sex. Nothing emotional, I don't want to kiss him. Just the sex, the thrusting. I once had a fantasy of having a threesome with two men, not anyone I know. It was the thrusting and sometimes them wanting me. My first love was a girl, I was madly in love with her and always have girl crushes. I DON'T find boys or men attractive at all. I never had a crush on a boy or any man. I've always wanted girls and know that I want to marry a girl.Then why do I have these fantasies about men sometimes?I'm sorry if its too detailed but I had to put it out there.Thank you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 March 2013):
 You sound normal enough. Lots of fantasy and imagining and hormonal changes going on. I wouldn't worry about it too much, if it's really bothering you, check out http://www.scarleteen.com and you'll see there are lots of boys and girls who are confused about the whole attraction thing.
There's this famous thing called the Kinsey Scale which basically says that human sexuality as it relates to gender preferences is on a scale. There are very few complete and utter hetero- and homosexuals on either end of the scale. Most people fall into the middle somewhere, which means that aspects of either gender can be attractive to some percentage. I guess that you aren't as far on the homosexual scale as you thought.
I would stop worrying about it, these things sort themselves out as you get older. Good luck!
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