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writes:Well i've been with my gf for 6 months. Getting time alone (i.e) when parents are out is near impossible, the past few times have not been ideal (period, illness etc etc on both our behalfs). this has led to no sex for either of us for 2 months.Its really affecting the both of us and putting a real strain on our relationship. Could anyone who's been in a similar situation give us some advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2013): Well, people find time for each other when they truly want to be together. Nothing really gets in the way. However; things do get hectic, and you both have to learn to budget and synchronize your schedules. Set your priorities.If you don't live together, start working and saving your money with the goal to have your own place. Do not sacrifice an education and personal growth, that should be among your priorities. You'll always have busy lives. That comes with adulthood.The biggest problem you have is that you don't have your own place and you have to wait for her (or your) parents to get out of the way. If you still live at home, what exactly do you expect? You're most likely under 21, and fate has kept you apart until you grow old enough and equipped to make some life-altering decisions.My bet is that your parents are purposely remaining in the picture to make sure you make the right decisions. Since the availability of sex is the primary strain on your relationship. Try masturbating from time to time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2013): sex isn't everything im going to be away from my man for over 2 years so you think that's hard try being in my situations its very hard. you guys will get alone soon or later but remember sex isn't everything its about the person that your with.
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