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writes:I'm a Scorpio and in a relationship with a Virgo. We have been dating for about 5 months now and it’s been fun and kind of romantic. We've known each other since childhood but he decided to tell me he was in love with me during my 17th birthday weekend, he was so shy and cute I couldn't resist lol3. However during our relationship I feel he not really in love with me sometimes and he keeps asking to do a threesome with me and some other girl I don't know and I keep telling him I don't want to do it .' but I can’t bring myself to end it with him... until I started falling for a Libra man... I've known this Libra since august and I absolutely love being around him to the point where I wake up and go to school just so I can see him again. We joke around and flirt a lot in those short 30 minutes were together I’m pretty sure he and everyone else in that class knows I like him but I think I told him I’m dating someone so… but I really like him, he puts me in a good mood with his smiles and hugs and he is so sexy @-@. I feel as though I’m suppose to be with the Libra instead of the Virgo because of the way he makes me feel and the fact that Libras and Scorpios are usually a very good match for each other.What am I suppose to do about these feelings? Should I break up with the Virgo for the Libra? Or do I stay with the Virgo and ignore these feelings for the Libra?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (31 March 2013):
 I don't believe in the power of Zodiac now :), but I used to be very interested in astrology years ago and I studied it rather in depth. I could draw and interpret Birth Charts etc. professionally , so, I have to tell you that , by an ASTROLOGICAL point of view , you are looking at this wrong. In relational astrology ( to see if two people are compatible, what will happen between them, if they are going to last together etc.) the Sun signs count next to nothing ( also because our personality is powerfully affected by the Ascendant, or Rising Sign, so if you are a Scorpio AS Leo, you'll be all different than a Scorpio AS Libra etc. )
What you need to know would be not only your Sun Signs, but where are your Moons and in which mutual angle, and most of all , where it is your Mars and where it is his Venus. No competent astrologer would base your compatbility just based on Sun signs.
Anyway, whether one believes in astrology or not, I don't see what the stars have got to do with the fact that your Virgo bf keeps pressuring you for kinky sex that you are not ready or willing to do. That belongs to the sign of the Jerk , and you should kick him out of your birth chart, whether you have someone else waiting in the wings or not.
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reader, llifton +, writes (31 March 2013):
 oh and yes, and it's a common misconception that being interested in zodiac signs means that you only read your daily horoscope. that's not really the thing i pay attention to, either. the main thing i focus on is reading about the personality traits of each given sign, kinda like you do.
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reader, llifton +, writes (31 March 2013):
hey don't let others make you feel bad about enjoying and reading up about these things. i am an aquarius and i find these things really interesting, myself. i don't necessarily hold them to be scientific truth, however, it is really interesting and i have actually gottent to where i can somewhat pick out someone's sign after knowing them only a short while.
however, i do think you should just base your decision not on the zodiac, rather, personality compatibility. it sounds to me like you have a lot in common with this other guy. maybe you should explore how you feel.
when you're in a relationship with someone, having feelings like yours for someone else is already emotional cheating, to be quite honest. and i think if you can feel that way for another person while with your boyfriend, something seems to be wrong in your relationship.
good luck in whatever you do.
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reader, xlovesickxscorpiox +, writes (31 March 2013):
xlovesickxscorpiox is verified as being by the original poster of the question“There is no scientific evidence that star signs have anything to do with the actual personality.”There is personal evidence for me, my horoscope has always been on point. I know some websites aren’t true but that’s only because their scam sites that only want money and popularity “If you read "your stars" on the web in the papers you’ll* noticed the suitably vague statements such as "you will be getting some money towards the end of the month" or "a person close to you will be slightly aggressive around the 9th"....most people can make these claims "fit" their own lives and personalities to the point of looking for any kind of behavior* from anyone on the 9th that would normally go un-noticed. It’s* the same technique used by pretend* psychics.” I don’t read daily horoscopes it’s not always accurate for me but love horoscopes are always on point in my opinion.Also I’m a Scorpio, which means I’m stubborn so if you don’t believe in the power of zodiac don’t waste your time telling me why it’s inaccurate.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (30 March 2013):
Dear OP,
There is no scientific evidence that star signs have anything to do with the actual personality.
Focus on those reasons that don't have anything to do with the star sign. The guy you're with doesn't seem so much in love and asks for threesomes, which I think is a bit young for his age. And you totally enjoying around the other guy and you seem to be more in love with him than with your current boyfriend. So, that seems to be enough reason to question your relationship. You're young and have no obligations. Why not try if things work out better with the other guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2013): OP take no notice of the star signs, it is based on an age old technique used by so called psychics and mediums called "cold reading". I'm sure you hear people say that so and so is a typical virgo or a such and such is a typical cancer, etc? The fact is that most peoples personality could be made to "fit" any star sign you like. For example im into photography, I love art, I am easily hurt and love the water. Im a typical pisces! but I was born in June LOL A friend of mine can be impertinent, abrupt, often jumps to conclusions and described herself as a typical Taurus (cant spell it sorry). yet she recently discovered that her star sign is not Taurus at all but something else. Forget all this star sign nonsence and consentrate on finding happiness. Of course those who believe in the star signs are entitled to their belief but I think you need to be reaslitic. There's no evidence for astrology what so ever im afraid. Some people get comfort from it and a sense of well being and that's fine but its a bit like beleieving in a religion - its about belief rather than evidence. If you read "your stars" on the web in the papers youll noticed the suitably vague statements such as "you will be getting some money towards the end of the month" or "a person close to you will be slightly aggressive around the 9th"....most people can make these claims "fit" their own lives and personalities to the point of looking for any kind of behaviour from anyone on the 9th that would normally go un-noticed. Its the same technique used by pretent psychics. You go out with this guy and really enjoy!Best a luck!
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (30 March 2013):
 Dont be silly. Its not about sign its about personality maturity n complementing each other. Dont discriminate men based on a 'sign'. Stay open minded n u will learn more about the opposite sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2013): Hey,
do you know what scorpio and virgo mean? It means your Sun is in scorpio whereas his sun is in virgo. There are other planets such as the moon, mars ,mercury ,venus ,saturn and jupiter which also occupy zodiac signs! Long answer short, there are alot of different astrology systems and if you believe things wont work out, that belief itself will work against your relationship. So forget about all these signs in the sky, and look for the ones in your heart. I hope you find what your looking for :)
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