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writes: Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life.My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest with him about my feelings but it seems as if when I’m honest that’s where he becomes violent. I feel that he doesn’t love me too it’s just that he want to keep me so that I could give him the life he never had. I’m earning more than him so chances are if I live him, he knows that he won’t be able to pay the bond alone and the status that he has now will go down the drain because now he has friends that are forever there. When I say he doesn’t love me anymore, last week he lied about where he was going, he bought ticket and went out and came home at 2.30 am. He never takes me out am always at home and his always with his friends.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (31 March 2013):
 You need some help! Do you have parents, friends, brothers or other people close to you? If he is violent, you need to protect yourself.
When you say "violent", are you meaning that he hits you? Or are you meaning that he throws furniture and things around? Or are you meaning he yells and screams and carries on?
If he's hitting you, don't break up with him alone. Bring your brothers, your friends, any male acquaintances with you and have them around so he can't blow up at you when you break up with him.
If he still loses his temper, call the police and have him removed. But you can't do this alone.
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reader, starstrukkx3  +, writes (30 March 2013):
 Unfortunately, I really don't know anything about what to do about a violent boyfriend. I hope I never find out. I'm sorry you're going through this. :(
Get rid of the guy. Tell him it's over. If you are too scared to, pack your things, leave, and just write a note and leave it for him to find. I would go to the police and seek their advice. Perhaps they can get a restraining order. Move in with a family member or friend. Cut all ties with him.
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