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writes:A few weeks ago I met a guy and we have been hanging out 2-3 times a week since then. I'm very confused by him though. In the few short weeks we've known each other, I've met his family, we made plans months in advance, we are doing couple things but he hasn't tried to hold my hand or kiss me or anything. So I feel like we are just friends but also more then friends...? I'm really not sure what to think. He's not the shy type so I don't see that being a reason. And I've tried to make a move without being obvious about it. Leaning against him during movies or brushing his arm when walking together, just little things. We also did have a serious talk, he told me he wanted to be more then just my friend and that he's into me. I just don't get it. What do you guys think???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2013): i can't tell if he really likes you or not. not everyone shows his love by holding hands and kissing.
but one thing for sure: if your expectation is different than what he is or does, then your love will probably not work out well.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 March 2013):
 Ask him where he stands on being physical in a relationship.
If he balks about it, there may be issues he's not dealing with.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (29 March 2013):
He seems a very nice boyfriend who respects you.Maybe he is just taking things SLOW maybe this is his way.Give him more time and see what happens.Yes i would believe him when he says he wants to be more than just friends.Because he did not have to say anything on this level.Just enjoy his friendship at the moment.Be gentle with yourself.Best Wishes. Nora B.
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