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writes:ok simple questions here for girls or any guys that know from experience. So a couple months ago (sometime in January) I reconnected with a girl I liked in high school. We haven't talked in nearly 12 years and in January we had a nice long chat on Facebook. We exchanged phone numbers and I figured it would be safe to not immediately contact her. Well her bday was at the end of March so I decided that would be a perfect excuse to write her and just say happy bday. She writes back seemingly excited and happy to hear from me. She ends her message with "Talk to you soon I hope." With her ending the message with an "...I hope" and giving me her number a couple months ago does this mean anything? Is she just being nice or should I maybe escalate it to actually texting her? Thanks for the info.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (30 March 2013):
You waited a couple of months... I don't think coming on too strong is a problem. Not coming on strong enough is what you seem to be having trouble with.
The bottom line is that if she likes you then coming on too strong isn't something you should worry about (within reason of course).
And she's giving you her phone number. Is there a stronger signal she could be throwing your way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2013): Thanks for the encouragement CMMP. I'm not afraid of being rejected. Just trying to be cautious since it has been 12 years since we have really talked and I don't want to come on too strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2013): She wants you to contact her. If you are interested in her, don't let so much time lapse.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 March 2013):
Jesus, do you need a neon sign? Don't reject women because you're afraid of being rejected!
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