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writes:Quick questionDon't need a lecture cause I know this is bad but I was at a party last night and I was making out with a lot of people but mostly with one of my classmates boyfriend, they are in gay relationship and I'm gay myself. We was alone at the garden and he wasn't that drunk and we was having a good time and I kept kissing him and then we like licked each others ... and the we kissed one last time...He's text me and I'm not sure what to say to him because he also offered to meet up sometime during our time off college and get together...What do I say? I won't go through with any of it but I don't know how to talk to him... Like, if he brings it up do I act dumb (even though when I drink I still remember everything) or do I talk to him about it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 April 2013):
 I would text him back and tell him that what happened at the party was a mistake that won't be happening again.
then the ball is in his court to see if you two want to be friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2013): How would you feel if this guy was your boyfriend? You took things too far, and should just let things go. Don't make matters worse by trying to start anything.
He comes with a boyfriend included. You'll have to deal with the guy who got cheated.
What if his boyfriend finds your text messages?
Are you prepared for that?
The less you say to this guy, the better off you'll be. If you don't want a lecture, don't ask for advice.
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reader, R1 +, writes (29 March 2013):
 I think if you text him you know what will happen. This isn't innocent texting and you have already said you don't want to go there.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 March 2013):
 I think talking to him would be an OK thing to do, BUT I have to say if he is in a relationship you need to keep it in your pants, and keep it platonic.
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