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30-35,
*nashia
writes:Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does.That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with him much so. I ask him if he likes her and he always says no. I think he does like her because I mean he is ALWAYS around her always. My friends say I should break up with him and find someone new. But that's the problem no boy I have ever met besides him wants to date me, and it makes me sad. But anyway what do I do to have him hang out with me more? And have our relationship back to the way it was, before he met that other gir? Thx. Xoxo A Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 March 2013):
 how old are you OP? it says 18-21 but i"m betting 13-15 the way you posted....
CMMP is right you don't stay with someone because they are the only boy who has ever liked you. IF he mistreats you and disrespects you, then it's time to be alone
it's better to be alone than be mistreated.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (29 March 2013):
The decision on whether or not to break up with someone shouldn't have anything to do with whether or not you have another guy waiting to date you.
It should be based on whether or not you're dating the right guy. You OBVIOUSLY aren't, and if you stay with him you certainly wont find another guy. I mean, by your logic you need to marry him because nobody else would want you. That's obviously not true, so just do it.
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