My ex has threatened to post naked photos of me on the internet

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there! I hope you can help me with my current situation. I was in a relationship with a foreigner (dutch guy) for about 6 mos. I decided to have full closure with him since I feel so bad about what had happened 2 mos. ago. He was like a nightmare to me. I never expected that he'd do worst to me. He just posted my supposed-to-be private photos of mine that he just asked me. Last year, few months after we started our relationship he had demanded for sexy photos of mine. He said many things to me which I even believed. He said that part of our relationship are about satisfying each other. On our first monthsary, he surprised me by sending me a handwritten love letter and he included a necklace of him to be given to me. It made me feel so delighted since it was my first experience to feel love from a boy like him. We had lots of conversations and I felt that he was serious and in love with me. Meanwhile, he is asking for more pictures and I hesitated at first since I can't just easily made those kind. He liked nude pics and whenever we had our videocall he usually opened about sexual topics and he used to persuade me to make videos for him which I was reluctant at first and I said that it's not easy for me considering also that I am still a student and I have more things to do, those could add only to my pressure. What he did is that he send me money that I didn't ask just for me to buy a phone that I can use to make such pictures. There I have really did it, I made photos for him but sad to say it came to a point where he got mad at me and he posted photos of mine to my mother's facebook wall. Thus, my mother almost became hysterical and felt bad at me (she even feel more embarrassed than me) that it takes a lot of time for her to forgive me that she weren't able to support my needs. After that, we lost contact with each other and then I started to somehow manage to live like nothing bad happen until once again we reconciled with this guy since he asked for forgiveness and so I did forgive him but can't forget the pain and what precious thing he ruined between me and my mother. Though, I gave him chances I realized he was repeating the same thing over again which is immature for him... He asked me to show my intimate body parts or to cum with him in front of a computer but I can't make it anymore. My trust was not like before this time I was careful. Coz of repeated act, I asked for a final closure.. so he won't bother me anymore and that I could live my life freely but he said that before we do that, I should return the necklace that he gave to me or else he would post naked pictures and photos of mine to my instructors at school, he added that he would make my life a living hell. I can't really believe all this that he could do to me, he lied when he said that he already deleted those after I forgave him two months ago and now he would use them against me. I also think it's not my responsibility to give back the necklace he gave. He even mentioned that if I still keep it, he is hoping there is a curse there that would cut my neck.

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