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36-40,
*adekemi
writes:have being married for two years nw bt there is issues between me and my inlaws,what i say and what i didnt say my husband sisters told my husband parent and my husband parent told my husband to send me out of is house but my husband didnt accept that,cos my husband didnt send me away is parent and is sibling stop talking to him for over two months nw. please what can i do cos have apologised to is parent bt they insist he should send me away but i dnt what to leave my husband. please kindly help me.thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Queen_mermaid  +, writes (10 June 2013):
Talk to your husband and tell him about you feelings. Let him know how you actually does not want to be away from him and tell him you sincerely regret for whatever you did.
Apologise to your in laws in front of your husband. Because its wrong that your in laws want to send you away despite having apologise. I am very much sure your husband should be able to differentiate between the right and the wrong.
Here, definitely your in laws are being injustice ( However, we don't know the issue was regarding what). But the fact that you regret it and you've apologise is enough to forgive you.
Try to do things that will bring you closer to your family and eradicate that hatred and please avoid doing things that they dislike.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (10 June 2013):
 Hello, My belief is that whatever goes on in a marriage should be dealt with between the husband and wife. If your husband can forgive you for whatever you did..then his parents or no one else should have any say in it.However, you also need to understand that the culture you live in is very different to other culture. The Nigerian traditional culture is very much alive from what I gather from your question. No one "sends" their husband or wife away....send you away to do what? where? You have apologised already as you said....and your husband seems to be on your side..so just leave everything else alone. Don't go to your in laws and just leave everything alone and it will sort itself out. Good Luck
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